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BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:07 PM, October 4th (Thursday)

Okay if you are new or if you're old, please share your birthday with us so we can give you a proper cake in Fun and Games. Birthday cakes get posted the evening before your special day so that you can wake up to wonderful cake for breakfast.
****If you have not posted at SI in the 2 months prior to your birthday...your birthday will not be posted in Fun and Games and you will be removed from the list...****

****The Birthday List is updated once a month. I will post on this thread when it has been updated.****
Thanks for your understanding.


JANUARY

01 Mangled Heart
01 iwillNOT
02 Weatherly
02 fraeuken
02 4kids
03 intheblinkofaney
05 Wodnships
05 ataloss
07 dirk pitt
07 Sparkysable
08 Flatlined123
08 plainsong
09 Not.the.Big.Easy
10 BrokenAngelWings
15 pink carnation
17 AppleGirl
17 CantSleepCantEat
21 ajsmom
22 GennyA
24 What2do
25 cantlivewithouth
25 TamBak
27 k94ever
28 soverybetrayed
29 Secrets Kept
31 metamorphisis
31 Marathonmumof4

FEBRUARY

02 Yooper
02 ShovelGal
03 nowiknow23
04 Mom4ever
04 Gettingoveritall
04 trying2015
06 trying to smile
06 Pass
07 travels
08 MysteryM0802
12 wanted2believe
14 Lowlow
16 Chrysalis
16 HUFI-PUFI
18 WarehouseGuy
19 jackie89
21 gypsybird87
22 joannie
22 LuvsMeLuvsMeNot
23 20WrongsVs1
26 foxglove
26 little turtle
26 sullymeishadomi
28 gardenparty
29 leapyearbaby


MARCH

02 Mama_of_3_Kids
02 Unhinged
08 MaryG
16 41andthankful
17 Appletree
19 jackie89
19 Bebba1171
20 crushedinpa
21 BMC0415
23 Deeply Scared
23 WastedTime12
24 Bobbi_sue
25 deeplysad
27 RubixCubed
31 earthangel
31 seachelles

APRIL

01 MissDiana
02 poopylala
03 CLRhope4her
03 still2suspicious
03 inNOoutNOinNOout
04 Crumbled324
04 Trippd
05 Sparkle0504
05 lostinoklahoma
06 looking forward
08 NiceGuySF
08 happyplace
09 HurtNupset
11 Starboard
14 BearlyBreathing
17 lorilook
17 cantbelieve
17 GiveTimeTime
18 HTheIs
20 Jaybeecee
20 LilBlackCat
22 mozi
24 Olivetree
26 sadcat
26 pizzalover
27 HenryIIX
27 Done1423
28 cass
28 Furious1
29 Lalagirl


MAY
06 TearDownTheWall
07 Too_Trusting
09 Emotionalhell
16 Edie
16 caregiver9000
17 GabyBaby
19 scaredyKat
20 Trying2Survive1
23 lieshurt
25 Neznayou

JUNE
02 ALostOne
06 5454real
09 nme1
10 WalkinOnEggshelz
12 Thissucks5678
13 Callmehappy
15 LadyLynn
17 gma56
19 JanetS
20 Adlam
21 lilies21
24 purplejacket4
25 FightingBack
25 CharliB
25 WhatsRight
29 thebighurt
29 runner128

JULY
02 theakronborg
04 longforgotten
07 SMSA925
07 shellbean
12 ItllGetBetter
13 TrustedHer
15 UKgirl
17 RoburCordis
17 Lost73
18 luvbug0915
18 dreamlife
19 jo2love
22 Jpapageorge
23 sisoon
25 wifehad5
26 SweetheartVixen
26 Violated
28 MissesJai
29 jrc1963


AUGUST
01 Catwoman
01 Skan
04 ash79
05 mel88
05 stupidstupidme
05 Angeles85
06 brokenyrs
07 GuyInPain
08 Sad in AZ
08 confused615
08 faithfool
11 Ascendant
12 amitheow
13 woundedby2
15 MovingUpward
17 beachgirl29
19 Crushed1
19 Brokenhearted915
22 achingheart
23 cryingdaily
23 Kajem
23 Twicecrushed
24 NaiveAgain
24 honesttoafault
24 MessyT
25 meaniemouse
27 nothisfriend
27 tessthemess
28 annb


SEPTEMBER


02 StrongerThan
04 Confused Dad (Do not delete, the birthday thread was his baby to begin with.)
04 WowItsReallyReal
06 Macsecond
06 Candman66
08 18yearsgone
09 ISPIFFD
10 BrokenRoad
10 RisingFromTheAshes
15 tired girl
15 outtanowhere
16 SoHappyNow
16 welcome14
17 Lost8
19 Lnlygirl1698
22 Leilehua
24 Mack9512
27 Kodi
30 aLadypilot


OCTOBER

05 trustedg
06 sicatrose
07 Neverwudaguessed
10 lynnm1947
10 1956
12 sadtoo
14 cantaccept
15 avicarswife
17 SilverEagle
20 Wool94
21 EvenKeel
22 TheDarkestTime
23 Riskybusiness
25 imagoodwitch
25 TrustGone
29 Isthereanyhope
30 lingerdog
31 Chrysalis123

NOVEMBER
03 momoffive
03 Itiswell2015
04 Starsurges
08 theaterguy
09 BlueIris
10 TheRealDeal
10 dejavu2
11 gahurts
11 Esteban
11 summerdowling87
12 RippedSoul
15 squid
17 CheatedOn34
18 GettingHappy
18 longtobecarefree
20 vixen13
21 SurprisinglyOkay
21 michelles
22 wildbananas
23 SoLostStillNumb
24 InnerLight
26 sportsfan
26 iamanidiot

DECEMBER

01 knightsbff
01 DixieDiamondfly
06 ont1throw
08 devasted30
09 MadeOfScars
10 ThoughtIKnewYa
11 sad12008
16 Snapdragon
17 Lola2kids
18 Exit Wounds
20 solus sto
22 Authenticnow
24 Tred
24 risingfromashes
25 Frassati
25 GeoHeart
26 MrsM
27 hurtbs
27 HFSSC
27 trumanshow
27 SadieMae
28 OrdinaryDude
29 punky
30 Waiting4Daylite
30 Backslider
31 doggiediva

[This message edited by BrokenRoad at 8:56 PM, October 5th (Thursday)]


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
UR_AN_IDIOT
Member
Member # 18764
Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, October 4th (Thursday)

Bump


Me: BW 51
FWH: 52
Married 28 years
DD 26 DS 24
Reconciled 110%


Posts: 12737 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: PA
Jrazz
Member
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 11:59 PM, October 4th (Thursday)

Thank you so much for doing this, BR!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

Posts: 29076 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
HurtYetHealing
Member
Member # 34376
Default  Posted: 6:55 AM, October 5th (Friday)

October 22nd I'll be 32


Me-34 BW, Him-36 fWH
5 amazing children
Dday: December 2, 2011
M: 14 years(13@JFO), together for 18 (17@JFO) Status: Roller coaster of R
It takes a heart to forgive, and a brain to move on.

Posts: 706 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
lynnm1947
Member
Member # 15300
Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, October 5th (Friday)

October 10 and I will still be officially OLD: 66.

[This message edited by lynnm1947 at 7:47 AM, May 1st (Wednesday)]


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 8747 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
click4it
Member
Member # 209
Default  Posted: 2:19 PM, October 5th (Friday)

Sept 15. I used to be on the old birthday thread, but I'm so old that I fell off.


Me: 44
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25687 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, October 5th (Friday)


Ok the dates here were updated....checking other birthday threads just in case....

whatnow8, avicarswife, and angryorsad, I've added you three as well.

[This message edited by BrokenRoad at 10:24 PM, October 5th (Friday)]


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
OnAnIsland
Member
Member # 34319
Default  Posted: 1:29 AM, October 6th (Saturday)

December 7


D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013

Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful sons

You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou


Posts: 1486 | Registered: Dec 2011
silverhopes
Member
Member # 32753
Default  Posted: 11:53 AM, October 6th (Saturday)

Mine is January 8th.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 4243 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
AFrayedKnot
Member
Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 6:18 AM, October 9th (Tuesday)

October 10th


BS 42
fWS 38 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DsD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2859 | Registered: Aug 2012
openedupmyeyes
Member
Member # 27871
Happy  Posted: 6:20 AM, October 9th (Tuesday)

November 18th here!


Me:55 BS
Him:55 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
Years married:37
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.

Posts: 770 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: The Great State of Texas
confusedkitty
Member
Member # 33824
Default  Posted: 6:49 AM, October 9th (Tuesday)

March 1st

Posts: 98 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Louisiana
foreverchanged61
Member
Member # 36931
Default  Posted: 7:07 AM, October 9th (Tuesday)

September 4th, I have lots of company!


me:BS-41
Him:WS-41
Married 18 years
DS-16
DD-14
D-Day 11/2010
Trying hard at R
OW 29 (27 then) SAHM pure white trash

Posts: 75 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: South Carolina
Tred
Member
Member # 34086
Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, October 9th (Tuesday)

Christmas Eve. Yes, it sucks.


Married: 20 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 5511 | Registered: Dec 2011
soverybetrayed
Member
Member # 32948
Default  Posted: 5:08 PM, October 9th (Tuesday)

October 28th


Me- Happily single
Divorced 8/23/2012
I am stronger and better than before.

Posts: 1337 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Texas
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, October 9th (Tuesday)

OK, adding:

OnAnIsland
December 7

silverhopes
January 8th.

Chicho
October 10th

openedupmyeyes
November 18th

confusedkitty
March 1st

foreverchanged61
September 4th

Tred
Dec 24

soverybetrayed
oct 28

Thanks!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
tired girl
Member
Member # 28053
Default  Posted: 10:06 AM, October 10th (Wednesday)

Sept 15, just turned 44


Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,25,23
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
My bad for trying to locate remorse on your morality map. OITNB

Posts: 7444 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Inside my head
wifeno2
Member
Member # 31529
Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, October 10th (Wednesday)

January 13. I will be 45.


Me-BW (45)
Him-WS (42)
DS 19 (prior relationship)
DS-8
DDay #1- 10/22/2010 EA/PA with MOW coworker
Dday#2:11/17/2010 beginning secret emails with potential OW#2
DDay #3 11/22/2010 still seeing OW#1
Too many DD's to count: Now up to OW #6.

Posts: 696 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: the south
Angelstar5
Member
Member # 35276
Default  Posted: 2:04 PM, October 10th (Wednesday)

my birthday was Monday oct 8 :)


Me 47,WH 46 alcoholic/Married 25y
2 kids age 16 and 28
DDay #1-7/3/94 hooker, DDAY #2,2/10/12 found 100's of calls to a hooker gaslighting begins. DDay#3 3/26/12 proof/TT DDay#4 3/28/12 weekly sex with 2 hookers Dec-Feb. Several EAs

Posts: 755 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Fort Worth TX
Aubrie
Member
Member # 33886
Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, October 10th (Wednesday)

October 12


This is the hall of mirrors. Where you will face yourself. Buckle up.

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


Posts: 7909 | Registered: Nov 2011
time2grow
Member
Member # 35983
Default  Posted: 10:32 PM, October 11th (Thursday)

Na Na Naa Na Na There is only 1 on SI that knows and she’s not going to tell ya my b-day!!!

Posts: 2529 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Missouri
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 10:16 AM, October 12th (Friday)

Catching up now....


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, October 12th (Friday)

Updated as of Oct 12


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Lost333
Member
Member # 35182
Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, October 19th (Friday)

My Bday is Nov. 1st.


Me:29,WS/BS Him:27, BS/WS (DontTreadOnMe) His Dday 2/19/12. My Dday 9/29/12
Married: 2 yrs, together 4 1/2

"And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight inside the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom" Anais Nin


Posts: 689 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: Midwest
Hard2Breathe
Member
Member # 36905
Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, October 22nd (Monday)

May 5th, el cinco de mayo


BW - Me
Married - 4 1/2 years - Togethor almost 9
DS and DD - born Nov 24th, 2012
DDAY - 3/1/12 - EA/PA

Dear OW: "Do not get in the business of dragon's, for you are crunchy and tasty with ketchup"


Posts: 56 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Dallas
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, October 23rd (Tuesday)

Updated October 23!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Chili
Member
Member # 35503
Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, October 23rd (Tuesday)

May 2nd!


Me: BSO
Him: Assclown
Too many years tied up with him.
April-May 2012 pretty much sucked.
"I'd love to give a dog a bone, but I'm not gonna stick around to help you" - Jack White

Posts: 243 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Reality
crushedtulips
New Member
Member # 37269
Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, October 25th (Thursday)

I'm new to the site, and my birthday is November 15th. I'll be 23.

Posts: 5 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: Copperas Cove
SecondHelping
Member
Member # 36796
Default  Posted: 6:55 AM, October 28th (Sunday)

14 Mar


D-Day 1: Feb 1990
D-Day 2: 3 Sep 2012 (3 month EA/2 week PA)
BS 49, fWW 43 (Amibroken)
OP- Police Chief (Age 37)
M 25 Yrs, 3 Kids (17, 14, 11)
I initated the relationship at the Railway Tavern, she tried to end it at Scrap Tavern

Posts: 568 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Delmarva
Brwneyes
Member
Member # 34147
Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, October 28th (Sunday)

February 2nd!


Me- BS 34
Him WS 33

Together 15 years Married 12 1 child 3


Posts: 121 | Registered: Dec 2011
momto7
New Member
Member # 37294
Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, October 28th (Sunday)

Hello..
my birthday is July 4.
I am a new member just finding my way around

Posts: 5 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: Southern Ontario
tryingagain74
Member
Member # 33698
Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, October 28th (Sunday)

I'm November 30th.


FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 4079 | Registered: Oct 2011
TrappedUnderIce
Member
Member # 37313
Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, November 1st (Thursday)

Nov. 7th for me. I will be 36.


Me BS 36
Wife WS 34 ( pinchme )
4 beautiful children
D-day 10/27/2012

"Dig me up from under, what's covering the better part of me."


Posts: 60 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: IL
She-Ra
Member
Member # 36033
Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, November 2nd (Friday)

Mine is December 2nd!


36 and separated
2 Daughters (1 & 4 yr olds)
We were mad-hatters


Posts: 1016 | Registered: Jul 2012
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 6:38 AM, November 5th (Monday)

Welcome new birthday people!!
I'm adding you today.

Updated!!

[This message edited by BrokenRoad at 12:17 PM, November 6th (Tuesday)]


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
yoshi7268
Member
Member # 35519
Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, November 8th (Thursday)

November 13.......the big 40


ME-BS-44
WH-48
5 kids 18-28
Married 26 years-together 30
Dday1-late June 2011
Dday2-early July 2011-TT
Dday3- early August 2011-TT
Another affair 7 years before.
R going well

Posts: 309 | Registered: May 2012 | From: yoshi7268
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 7:53 AM, November 9th (Friday)

added yoshi7268


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
heartstabber
Member
Member # 34079
Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, November 12th (Monday)

Ah, May 3rd I hit the big 5.0


Me: WW
Married: 15 years
DD: November 2011

Let's eat Grandma. Let's eat, Grandma. Commas save lives.


Posts: 164 | Registered: Dec 2011
RyeBread
Member
Member # 37437
Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, November 13th (Tuesday)

December 23 - I'll be 37


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

Posts: 1058 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Midwest
SurprisinglyOkay
Member
Member # 36684
Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, November 20th (Tuesday)

November 21!! 35


FWS me 38 (recovering addict)
BS him 41 AFrayedKnot
Together 10 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


Posts: 1168 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
RyeBread
Member
Member # 37437
Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, November 21st (Wednesday)

Happy B-Day broevil!


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

Posts: 1058 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Midwest
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, November 21st (Wednesday)

Updated as of today - remember I usually only update once at the beginning of the month.


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
SoyLatte
Member
Member # 37634
Default  Posted: 4:24 AM, November 29th (Thursday)

Feb. 27


Me: BS, 51
Him: WH, 51, serial cheater and compulsive liar, possible SA and NPD
Married 19 years, together 28
3 kids: 12, 15, and 17
Waiting it out till "retirement" (till kids are grown)

Posts: 252 | Registered: Nov 2012
WPaul
New Member
Member # 35166
Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, December 3rd (Monday)

30th October


me=47 yr old FWH
wife=43 yr old BS
DS 3

Posts: 42 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: Southern UK
lostgirl79
New Member
Member # 35860
Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, December 7th (Friday)

My birthday is tomorrow!
December 8th.


DD~May 30, 2012
Currently working on R
Me~33
WH~32
My 3 beautiful children~~16, 12, and 9.

Posts: 36 | Registered: Jun 2012
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, December 8th (Saturday)

Updated as of December 8, 2012. Happy birthday lostgirl79!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
sportsfan
Member
Member # 9918
Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, December 14th (Friday)

Nov 26

Posts: 2133 | Registered: Feb 2006 | From: PA
little turtle
Member
Member # 15584
Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, December 23rd (Sunday)

I thought I was on this list already, but I don't see me!!

February 26

Thanks, BR.


Failure is success if we learn from it.

3 boys: 11, 9, and 1.


Posts: 4799 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
SoVerySadNow
Member
Member # 36711
Default  Posted: 5:27 PM, December 23rd (Sunday)

June 27


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
WarehouseGuy
Member
Member # 6037
Default  Posted: 5:35 PM, December 23rd (Sunday)

February 18


WHG


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 6781 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
FeelsSoRight
Member
Member # 28377
Default  Posted: 6:00 AM, December 26th (Wednesday)

Today! December 26th


Me - W - 48
Him - H - 47
Together since we were 14/15
Married 27 yrs in August (renewed our vows in 2011-H's idea!)
DD-23, DS-15
Separated for 7 mos & were 3 wks from divorce when we reconciled
Happily R for almost 4 years

Posts: 1451 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: MO
SandAway
Member
Member # 37775
Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, December 31st (Monday)

May 3


fWW
BH Tred
M 19yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


Posts: 451 | Registered: Dec 2012
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 7:31 AM, January 1st (Tuesday)

Adding new ones to the list:

sportsfan - Nov 26
little turtle - February 26
SoVerySadNow - June 27
WarehouseGuy - February 18
FeelsSoRight - December 26th
SandAway - May 3

Let me know if I missed one!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
cinnamongurl
Member
Member # 37879
Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

Feb 24 and I'll be 35! Yikes! When did that happen?


Me: FWSO 39 He: FBSO 39 and my heart
Together 21 years. We survived infidelity. "Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it." Tori Amos



Posts: 611 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: by the sea with my love
GullibleGirl
Member
Member # 33580
Default  Posted: 11:02 AM, January 10th (Thursday)

I am January 22nd. No outdoor birthday parties for me....waaahhhhh!


Me-FWW-51 He-BH-54
No kids/M 26yrs/D-Day: 4/20/11
'You & I go hard at each other like we're going to war...You & I go rough-we keep throwing things & slamming the doors'-M5

Posts: 667 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: The third loop of the bowels of Hell
Kayfay
New Member
Member # 38098
Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, January 12th (Saturday)

I'm brand spanking new here...January 19th for me!


D-day 12/24/2012
Twin daughters together 18 mo 11 yr son from previous
He stayed w ow
Ex Fiancé 8 yrs

Posts: 4 | Registered: Jan 2013
Chrysalis123
Guide
Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, January 13th (Sunday)

October 31....Boo


Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Posts: 4728 | Registered: Jan 2010
BwayBaby
New Member
Member # 38136
Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, January 15th (Tuesday)

December 6


BS
DD 10/29/12 Superstorm Sandy
Married 8 Years; trying to stay married.

Posts: 1 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Long Island
Issaquah
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Member # 34484
Default  Posted: 3:14 PM, January 15th (Tuesday)

June 24th


BS - Me, 45
ExWS - Husband, 47 SA dx in March 2013
T-25, M-21 college sweethearts
Multiple DDays / OWs since 1999
Most recent DDay 8-12
Divorcing separated Sept 2016

Posts: 861 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Virginia
wantreallove
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Member # 37534
Default  Posted: 7:05 AM, January 17th (Thursday)

March 28


Me,BS 33
SA fWH (masame5) 35
Married 13 yrs, 7 kids
D-day 10/9/12 (caught him through fb chat) D-day #2 11/19/12 thru 11/21/12 (found out about all the rest of the A's.)
8 AP

Posts: 196 | Registered: Nov 2012
wantreallove
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Member # 37534
Default  Posted: 7:06 AM, January 17th (Thursday)

March 28


Me,BS 33
SA fWH (masame5) 35
Married 13 yrs, 7 kids
D-day 10/9/12 (caught him through fb chat) D-day #2 11/19/12 thru 11/21/12 (found out about all the rest of the A's.)
8 AP

Posts: 196 | Registered: Nov 2012
CLRhope4her
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Member # 37243
Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, January 28th (Monday)

April 3


BW- Me 35 & WH- Him 38
OW- My BFF for 25 years
DDay- 6/28/12 Final truth- 7/28/12
“We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.”

Posts: 177 | Registered: Oct 2012
mommy22
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Default  Posted: 4:22 AM, January 30th (Wednesday)

February 1


Me-BS
DS- 4ys
DD- 1yr

Posts: 47 | Registered: Oct 2009
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, January 31st (Thursday)

I don't see me on the list.

Let's try again!!
February 26


Failure is success if we learn from it.

3 boys: 11, 9, and 1.


Posts: 4799 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 6:35 AM, February 1st (Friday)

Updated as of today!
Remember to read the rules so you know how it works.

Happy February!

--BR


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Faithful w/Love
Member
Member # 33128
Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, February 5th (Tuesday)

Well shit, I'm not on there.
Feb 10. Please add this woman to it. Thank you


BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"


Posts: 2944 | Registered: Aug 2011
jackie89
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Member # 38271
Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, February 5th (Tuesday)

Feb 19


~~When people show you who they are believe them ~~ Maya Angelou

Me -BS (49)

DS 21, DD 17
Divorced 8/2015


Posts: 869 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: SE PA
harry&george
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Member # 34554
Default  Posted: 1:37 AM, February 9th (Saturday)

February 11


ME: FBW 40
3 gorgeous kids
Divorced!!!

Posts: 122 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Australia
NoTriangles
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Member # 35985
Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, February 15th (Friday)

July 26


Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

Posts: 1255 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness
confused82402
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Member # 34616
Default  Posted: 7:34 PM, February 27th (Wednesday)

May 6


Me- BW
Him - WH
Dday - 1/16/2012

~Honey, don't try to make sense out of nonsense...you'll drive yourself crazy in the process ~ my momma :-)


Posts: 507 | Registered: Jan 2012
StrongestGirl
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Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, February 27th (Wednesday)

March 5


BS (me) - 30
WH - 31
M - 9 years
2 kids - 6 & 4
DDay 12/27/12
Status - Trying to R and put me back together.

When you think something hurts to much to forgive, then you realize you have to forgive BECAUSE it hurts so much.


Posts: 10 | Registered: Jan 2013
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, March 1st (Friday)

Updated for March!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
tryinghard2013
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Member # 37981
Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, March 1st (Friday)

August 15th

Posts: 130 | Registered: Jan 2013
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, March 2nd (Saturday)

September 5




Posts: 3615 | Registered: Oct 2012
Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, March 5th (Tuesday)

March 15

I will be 40


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


Posts: 3034 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
KBeguile
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Member # 38348
Default  Posted: 8:51 AM, March 7th (Thursday)

I'm April 4.


Me: WS 34
Her: BS 37 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 7yo
M: 9 years
DDays: 2012/11/14-2013/02/05, 2013/03/09, 2016/02/19

Posts: 824 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
Tiredofitall41
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Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, March 7th (Thursday)

Mine is today! I wish I were happier....Glad I found this forum though!


D-Day 07/22/2012
Why do people really suck sometimes??

Posts: 11 | Registered: Mar 2013
sadone29
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, March 7th (Thursday)

Probably too late for me, but I turn 36 this Friday, March 8th.


DDay Feb. 28, 2013
"It is an act of self-respect and preservation to not forgive."
He finally moved out only because I became on obstacle in his new affair.

Posts: 990 | Registered: Mar 2013
sadone29
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Member # 38597
Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, March 7th (Thursday)

Happy b-day Tiredofitall41!


DDay Feb. 28, 2013
"It is an act of self-respect and preservation to not forgive."
He finally moved out only because I became on obstacle in his new affair.

Posts: 990 | Registered: Mar 2013
Tiredofitall41
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Default  Posted: 1:24 PM, March 7th (Thursday)

Happy Birthday to you too Saddone!!


D-Day 07/22/2012
Why do people really suck sometimes??

Posts: 11 | Registered: Mar 2013
sadone29
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Member # 38597
Default  Posted: 10:55 PM, March 7th (Thursday)

Thanks! :)


DDay Feb. 28, 2013
"It is an act of self-respect and preservation to not forgive."
He finally moved out only because I became on obstacle in his new affair.

Posts: 990 | Registered: Mar 2013
41andthankful
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Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, March 8th (Friday)

March 16th

Posts: 247 | Registered: Mar 2013
brokensunflower
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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, March 12th (Tuesday)

dec 7th ill be 32


me 34
him 34
7 wonderful kids 14 yrs 10 yrs 7 yrs 6 yrs and 4 yrs 2yr ..and new baby
married 15years together for 12

my give a damn is busted


Posts: 265 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: cold ohio
dlmos
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Member # 36839
Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, March 18th (Monday)

March 18th for me!


BH (32)
DS - 7, DD - 6
Divorced

Posts: 461 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Fort Worth,Texas
keeponkeepingon
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Member # 32935
Default  Posted: 11:07 AM, March 19th (Tuesday)

Today is my birthday! Happy birthday to me! Another day of disappointment.....


"I know you and you know me and I know you can see. So help me get my way back to you"

Posts: 1005 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: On the corner of Grey St at the end of the world
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, March 19th (Tuesday)

So many new march birthdays, I had to do them today!
Check for yours if you mentioned one!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
MilitaryFairy
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Member # 38762
Default  Posted: 1:38 AM, March 20th (Wednesday)

June 16,I will be 34


Would you still call them Heroes if you knew how they treated their spouses?

Posts: 8 | Registered: Mar 2013
5454real
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Default  Posted: 1:49 AM, March 20th (Wednesday)

June 6th. Big 50!


BH 53, WW 45
DS 25(Mine),SD 24,SS 23(Hers),DS 12 Ours, DGS 6, DGD 2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 5562 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Stillhurting1977
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Member # 37247
Default  Posted: 1:52 AM, March 20th (Wednesday)

I am April 17 and I will be 29! Kidding, lol. I'll be 36


D day Sept 2011
D Day # 2 March 15, 2013 (he never stopped the first affair, it went underground)
Me BW 36
Him WH 37
One little guy: 26 months
Status: Seperated, Divorcing

" Noone can make you feel inferior without your consent" Eleanor Ro


Posts: 159 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: Canada
pizzalover
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Member # 38336
Default  Posted: 6:21 PM, March 27th (Wednesday)

April 26. I'll be 38


Trying to rebuild each day

Me - WW 41
Him - BH 41 (mpb1974)
2 Furrbabies - sweet cats

Met - 8/13/99
Started dating - 9/11/99
Moved in together - 3/03
Engaged - 6/5/09
Married - 8/21/10
D-Day - 1/24/13
Affair started 5/09


Posts: 779 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
MYBOYSMOM
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Member # 26318
Default  Posted: 10:27 PM, March 27th (Wednesday)

Tomorrow, March 28, I'll turn 50. I have to say that this bday will be immensely better than number 40!


BW 49(me)
WH - doesn't matter anymore
Married: 23 years; DS18, DS16
D-Day: 9/1/2009, D:12/21/2009

"It's a new dawn, It's a new day, It's a new life, for me, and I'm feeling good..." Michael Buble


Posts: 780 | Registered: Nov 2009
BrokenRoad
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Cool  Posted: 7:18 PM, March 30th (Saturday)

Updated as of March 30


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Crumbled324
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Member # 33902
Default  Posted: 6:00 AM, April 4th (Thursday)

45 today.

2 years ago a little less than 2 weeks after DDay I spent my birthday sitting in a Bankruptsy Attourny's office and all I could think about was how the hell did my life get here?

This year R is going well, and it looks like we are going to be able to keep the house. Things CAN get better.


BH: 47
fWW: 46
Beautiful 9 year old daughter
Married 23 years, Together 29 - High School Sweethearts
Reconciling

Save yourself. I've taken off my cape, and the only thing the S on my chest stands for is SURVIVNG this.


Posts: 92 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Michigan
Stronglost9977
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Question  Posted: 4:44 PM, April 17th (Wednesday)

Stonglost9977
July 1

Posts: 3 | Registered: Apr 2013
heyjules2012
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Member # 38349
Default  Posted: 10:19 PM, April 21st (Sunday)

My bday is June 5. It will be a tough one to get thru as I share same month as OW.


BS(me)38 WH(him)38
D-Day 12/1/12
Together 15, married 11
Trying to R

Posts: 28 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: WI
BetrayedinWIHusb
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Member # 11999
Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, April 30th (Tuesday)

January 14......many, many years ago

Posts: 200 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: Wisconsin
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, April 30th (Tuesday)

It's that time again!
Get your entries in soon if you have May birthdays!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Sad in AZ
Member
Member # 24239
Default  Posted: 5:56 AM, May 1st (Wednesday)

Updating my birthday: 8/8/1984--that's right; I'm only 29. Stop laughing.


You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011


Posts: 25302 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona
Laura28
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Member # 28997
Default  Posted: 6:14 AM, May 1st (Wednesday)

Hi BR

Thanks so much for organising this thread

My birthday is listed as the 17th August (1956 but don't tell anyone )

I'm actually the 18th.

But then again, when it falls in Oz on the 18th it is actually the 17th in the US.

So if my birthday really falls on the 18th but you list it as the 17th, my Oz friends will wish me happy birthday a day early and my US and UK friends on the day.

Mmmmm. What to do????

Just joshing.

I really don't mind either way. It is such a great thing for you to do.

Thanks and BIG HUGS

Laura


Married 33yrs Me BW 59Yrs Him FWH 62yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

Posts: 2772 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Australia
Chria
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Member # 14090
Default  Posted: 7:05 AM, May 1st (Wednesday)

July 29th. I will be 21 (again)


The odds are greatly against you being immensely smarter than everyone else in the field. If your analysis says your terminal velocity is twice the speed of light, the chances are better that you've screwed up than you've invented warp drive.

Posts: 4747 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Lurch's Lunatic Asylum
sad12008
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Member # 18179
Default  Posted: 11:40 AM, May 1st (Wednesday)

Still December 11th...comes around faster & faster w/each passing year!

Thanks BR


You can't fill a cup with no bottom.

Posts: 4195 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: a new start together
need_hope
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Member # 23989
Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, May 1st (Wednesday)

Still here...still Oct. 7th.


Me - happily engaged to a wonderful man
XWS - no longer matters


Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.
Don't fuck with me, I fuck back.


Posts: 1999 | Registered: May 2009 | From: East Coast
OneFootForward
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Member # 39136
Default  Posted: 3:03 PM, May 2nd (Thursday)

June 15th


Me: 42 BS
Her: 41 EMA
Married: 16 years
D-Day#1: 04/17/13
D-Day#2: 05/8/13
Children: 9,5 (girls)
Om: High School Flame
"Marital problems doesn't make someone a cheater just like financial problems doesn't make someone a thief"

Posts: 71 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Mobile, AL
Chili
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Member # 35503
Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, May 2nd (Thursday)

Still May 2nd!


Me: BSO
Him: Assclown
Too many years tied up with him.
April-May 2012 pretty much sucked.
"I'd love to give a dog a bone, but I'm not gonna stick around to help you" - Jack White

Posts: 243 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Reality
SurprisinglyOkay
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Member # 36684
Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, May 2nd (Thursday)

November 21!!


FWS me 38 (recovering addict)
BS him 41 AFrayedKnot
Together 10 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


Posts: 1168 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
Too_Trusting
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Member # 99
Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

Today and still here!


"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

Posts: 3199 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

Sorry, on the way!!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
phoenixrivers
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Member # 38314
Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, May 11th (Saturday)

August 23


Me: xBetrayedBF (xBBF)
Her: xWaywardGF (xWGF)
TT: 12/21/12
Splitsville: 1/6/13
DDay: 7/20/13
Done: 8/16/14
"Nobody knows anybody...not that well." Tom Reagan, "Miller's Crossing"

Posts: 150 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: New Orleans, LA
curiouswiz
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Member # 34405
Default  Posted: 7:29 AM, May 14th (Tuesday)

Well, gall dang it! I'll be 60 this June 25!

Oh nooo.....


God bless us, everyone.

Posts: 633 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Boston
Elaine2012
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Member # 36099
Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, May 17th (Friday)

June 28th


Me- 55
WH-who cares
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 2 SIL, 3 grandchildren

Posts: 299 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: I'm surrounded by majestic mountain ranges
Lionne
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Member # 25560
Default  Posted: 8:05 AM, May 19th (Sunday)

Crap. 59 today... How did that happen?


Me-BS-63
HIM-SAFWH-66
Damn autocorrect is responsible for the silly errors, sorry!

Posts: 6322 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: In my head
whatabummer
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Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

November 6

Posts: 6 | Registered: Mar 2013
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, May 30th (Thursday)

UPdated!!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
ninebark
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Member # 24534
Default  Posted: 6:06 AM, May 31st (Friday)

Today ...29 with 12 years experience...lol


BS (me) 40
WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
D-day 06/21/09
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.

Posts: 630 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Canada
fourever
Member
Member # 30631
Default  Posted: 8:34 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

56 today, think I'll pick another number and just keep having anniversaries of that. Say, 36 maybe.


In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.

Always, tell the other BS! Always!

"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!


Posts: 917 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Northeast
merrmeade
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Member # 36180
Default  Posted: 8:01 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Somehow I haven't really gotten hooked in here the way I have been on Loveshack but today (June 5) - my birthday - I happened to see a PM I got some months ago. The message shocked me in its similarity to the status of my growth post-A.

I started poking around again and saw this thread. Happy birthday to me! This is better than the lies and insincerity around me.

[This message edited by merrmeade at 8:07 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)]


Posts: 1 | Registered: Jul 2012
spldbrt614
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Member # 39467
Default  Posted: 3:12 PM, June 6th (Thursday)

Birth day is July 6th

Posts: 8 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Anne Arundel Co Md
FightingBack
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Member # 34770
Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, June 8th (Saturday)

Mine is June 25th


Me 53
WH 58
Married 25 years
4 children S30,D24, S23,S21
D-Day Nov. 29, 2011
15 year affair with married employee.
Together trying to make sense of it all!

Posts: 1383 | Registered: Feb 2012
huRtZ413
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Member # 39214
Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

july 25



me_BW
him_WH


I'M ON THE FENCE



Posts: 278 | Registered: May 2013
toomanyregrets
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Member # 37740
Default  Posted: 11:24 AM, June 28th (Friday)

July 8.
3 more years and I can retire and work at Walmart as a greeter. Beats the job I have now.


BH - 66 - Retired
fWW - 62

"Affairs are not mistakes, they are a series of deliberate choices." - CrappyLife
"Regret is when you realize you broke your own heart.
Remorse is when you realize you broke someone else's." - Bla


Posts: 745 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Upstate NY
letitout
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Member # 38288
Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday)

My Birthday is July 14


BW 57, WH 66, 19 yo twins
Married 28 years
2 years of $$$$$$ prostitutes.

Posts: 288 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: CO
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Cool  Posted: 10:53 PM, July 8th (Monday)

Updated today.


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
soveryalone1
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Member # 39807
Default  Posted: 5:35 PM, July 11th (Thursday)

<< June 14


jao

Posts: 75 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Vermont USA
Mommato4
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Member # 15906
Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)

I'm still here. July 20th. I do see that I'm still on the list too.


BS-me 34
XH-doesn't matter
4 kids
Divorced-7/25/2008

Posts: 1414 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: PNW country
inhishands55
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Member # 9454
Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)

My birthday isn't on there...It is July 19th....I will be 58yrs young with a younger man this yr....

Posts: 408 | Registered: Jan 2006 | From: The Tarheel State, in the mts.
RedRaven
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Default  Posted: 8:24 AM, July 27th (Saturday)

August 15

Posts: 9 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Texas
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

Updated


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
roadtorecovery21
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Member # 40009
Default  Posted: 4:39 PM, August 2nd (Friday)

yay my birthday is August 21st....Leos are strong!! and Im sure as heck going to fight to get myself back on track! I am so grateful for this website. It has really helped me to relate, vent and sympathize!!!

Posts: 6 | Registered: Jul 2013
Kandi
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Default  Posted: 3:47 AM, August 3rd (Saturday)

April 27

Posts: 2 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Virginia
lovelymrsm
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Member # 40077
Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, August 5th (Monday)

June 29


BS me 38,fWS him 40
Married 2004
4 kids S21,S7,twinsS/D4
DDay1-PA-Nov17,04 ow1 xgf
DDay2-PA-Jan07 ow2 my co-worker
DDay3-PA-Aug11 ow3 5x/2wks hooker
DDay4-E/PA-Aug13 ow4 (Jan-Apr13)
TT Aug13, working on R

Posts: 7 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Canada
FoolontheHill
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Member # 40225
Default  Posted: 6:43 AM, August 8th (Thursday)

September 2.


Me BH 46
WW 42

Dday 1: 10/20/2010 -- 3 month physical affair
Dday2: 7/7/2013 -- 3 year emotional affair but I think it was more.


Posts: 83 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Florida
confused615
Member
Member # 30826
Default  Posted: 6:49 AM, August 8th (Thursday)

Well...today is my birthday...


BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.



Posts: 15220 | Registered: Jan 2011
FaithFool
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Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 5:01 PM, August 12th (Monday)

Lots of Lions

August 8 (rowr!)


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 20722 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
krazy8516
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Member # 40076
Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, August 15th (Thursday)

Is there really nobody on the list yet who shares my birthday??

It's December 12


me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day

married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m

"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."


Posts: 368 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Texas
DWBH
Member
Member # 35512
Default  Posted: 5:59 AM, August 28th (Wednesday)

February 19


Me: BH, 44
Her: FWW, 43 (ThornyRose)
M: 17 years, together 20
2 Daughters: 15 and 13
D Day: 9/25/2011; Lies & TT to 5/4/2012
~Double betrayal; caught them in the act~

Posts: 747 | Registered: May 2012 | From: WI
dindy
Member
Member # 38424
Default  Posted: 6:03 AM, August 28th (Wednesday)

31 August

Posts: 459 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: uk
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, September 2nd (Monday)

August is cleaned up.
Working on the new ones...

Remember, I only check the new ones at the beginning of the month so if yours is in October, don't wait to add it or you'll get a belated.

Also, please read the rules on page one and keep up on your postings!

[This message edited by BrokenRoad at 8:15 PM, September 2nd (Monday)]


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, September 2nd (Monday)

OK all set!!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
brknwmn
Member
Member # 40603
Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, September 10th (Tuesday)

August 10th


Me: 26 BS Him: 29 WH
Together since Dec 2005
officially done 10-30-13

Never be ashamed of a scar. It simply means you were stronger than whatever tried to hurt you.


Posts: 78 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: United States
odiebluesky
Member
Member # 22606
Default  Posted: 11:19 PM, September 15th (Sunday)

July 29th


BS 50
WS - NO LONGER EXISTS IN MY WORLD
3 Children - 28,22,21
3 Precious Grandchildren
DIVORCED - DECEMBER 2010

Posts: 117 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Ontario Canada
megs56
Member
Member # 40791
Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, October 1st (Tuesday)

January 17th :)


2013:
Me: BGF - 29
Him: WBF - 32

2014 - I broke up with him and now I am trying to heal.

Hurt me with the truth, but never comfort me with a lie.


Posts: 121 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Sacramento, Ca
SurelyNOT
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Member # 40617
Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday)

March 24th

Posts: 95 | Registered: Sep 2013
Dawn58
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Member # 37656
Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday)

Just celebrated my 55th

September 23


I got into the marriage, because I loved him. I got out of the marriage, because I love me.

Posts: 491 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Southern California
NoAnswers37
Member
Member # 40592
Default  Posted: 11:12 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday)

20 March


Live without pretending
Love without depending
Listen without defending
Speak without offending

Posts: 122 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: England
mellie99
Member
Member # 39712
Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, October 4th (Friday)

Aug 5 here :)


Me: BW (32)
Him: WS (31)-Multiple ONS
Married: 1/3/05 Together since 5/2002
D-Day #1-3/2009 (4 years after the fact)
D-Day #2 3/2013(he confessed to 3 more ONS, 1 the month I found out I was pregnant)

Posts: 66 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: United States
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, October 6th (Sunday)

<---------UPdated to here


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
suposd2btheonly1
Member
Member # 40753
Default  Posted: 4:44 PM, October 6th (Sunday)

May 16


Me: BW 31
Him: WH 30
OW: 22yo whore who is still planning her wedding
Married 3yrs, together 5
4 kids, all boys 14, 11, 4 and 8mos...I hope like hell they don't hurt someone the way he hurt their mama
Dday: August 9, 2013
S, until his head

Posts: 206 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma
cantaccept
Member
Member # 37451
Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, October 8th (Tuesday)

October 14th.

After last year, it has to be better, right???


"I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid" Elton John
I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie


Posts: 3337 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Connecticut
FoggedIn
Member
Member # 40329
Default  Posted: 1:24 PM, October 9th (Wednesday)

October 12th

39 this year!
XO


BW (40)
WH (55)
Blended family, 6 kids, 1 dil & i gd
Dday 1 8/10/13 PA ONS CL whore
DDay 2 8/15/15 -TT 3 Other PA w/escorts from 2004-2013? Not sure on dates. Status - No Clue!! Calling D attorney for advice

Posts: 265 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Southwest US
velvethammer
Member
Member # 40437
Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, October 9th (Wednesday)

November 3rd. Turning 40!

Posts: 110 | Registered: Aug 2013
kickboxer
Member
Member # 39858
Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, October 10th (Thursday)

10/9 - Yesterday!


BW - 42 (Me)
WH - 39 (2 ONS, 6m EA)
Married 15 years, 3 children
DD: 7/13/13
Status: Rugsweeping, I guess.

Posts: 253 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Somewhere Out There
lordhasaplan?
Member
Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, October 10th (Thursday)

June 12th.


BS- Me (43)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

Posts: 2071 | Registered: Nov 2010
DCP21
New Member
Member # 40061
Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, October 11th (Friday)

October 21st (my 50th!)


BS: 49
WS: 53
Girl/Boy - 25/20
Married 26 years

Posts: 30 | Registered: Jul 2013
Drowninginitall
Member
Member # 40968
Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, October 18th (Friday)

March 13 is my bday


BW 40
Married 2000
DDay 10/2013, 4/2014, 6/2014
With a whole lot of TT, lies, gas lighting and false R in between.
3 DC
DIVORCED 5/16/16

Posts: 253 | Registered: Oct 2013
MakingLemonade
Member
Member # 41143
Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

December 19th


Me: 40's; XBS Him: 40's; XWS/NPD/SA
D-day 1: 5/2007- A #1; 7/2007 A #1 continued-R
D-day 2: 3/2013 A #2/multi-ONSs; 4/2013 A #2 continues to present
D: 7/2013 (25 yrs together; days shy of 22nd anniversary-GOAL MET!)
Our kids: teen & tween

Posts: 168 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Southern US
ruby44
Member
Member # 41135
Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, November 1st (Friday)

November 16th


Me BW 52, Him WH 48
Married 13 years,
2 DDs (12 and 10)
D-Day Confirmed 10/24/13 suspected before that but did not want to believe it.
WH filed for D 11/12/13
2/8/14 WH asked if he could come home.

Posts: 277 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Midwest
Bebba1171
Member
Member # 33857
Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, November 9th (Saturday)

march 19


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 54Me) / XWW 52
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 734 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Western Kentucky
Flatlined123
Member
Member # 35862
Default  Posted: 5:17 AM, November 15th (Friday)

January 8. I'm ageing like a fine wine.


Me: BS H: WS
4 kids
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

Posts: 973 | Registered: Jun 2012
LMomof2
Member
Member # 41064
Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, November 15th (Friday)

Thank you for this thread. My birthday is May 11


LMomof2
Me - BW - 59
Him - WH - 59
35 yrs - 2 daughters 17, 21
DDay - 10-15-13
ONS - 9-20-13 and probably YEARS of gaslighting - signs were there.

Posts: 81 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
Hotmama
New Member
Member # 41374
Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, November 17th (Sunday)

November 20th if you are still updating.

Posts: 5 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Ohio
steadfast1973
Member
Member # 24719
Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, November 28th (Thursday)

December 5th. In exactly a week.


Me- 42- BS Him- 38- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 multi EAs, likely PA, trickle truth, d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute Separated 1/2017
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah"

Posts: 2303 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Kentucky
33years
Member
Member # 41053
Default  Posted: 3:20 PM, November 28th (Thursday)

January 7


Me (BS) 59
Him (WH) 58
DD July 10, 2013
My Motto: "I'm fairly certain that nothing is certain anymore"

Posts: 81 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Middle of USA
momof1girl
Member
Member # 41074
Default  Posted: 12:16 AM, November 30th (Saturday)

February 17


D-Day: Oct. 1, 2013

Together 15 years, married 7, 1 child, age 7.

WH: 37 y.o., EA/PA since March
OW: 26, 1 child (not WH's)
Me: 34, BS
Separated Nov. 16, 2013

Does a wedding anniversary still count if you are separated?


Posts: 82 | Registered: Oct 2013
iwillNOT
Member
Member # 40605
Default  Posted: 12:28 AM, November 30th (Saturday)

January 1, thank you:-)


Me: BS, 46
Him: WH, 47
Together 24 years
4 amazing kids
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Choosing myself daily and R almost every day

Posts: 699 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, November 30th (Saturday)

Updated again today 11/30/13.


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Getting to Happy
Member
Member # 35200
Default  Posted: 12:09 AM, December 2nd (Monday)

Hi everybody!

August 1. 56 next year!!

My, how time flies when your having fun!!!


WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown


Posts: 1254 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: La La Land
betrayed13yrs
Member
Member # 40343
Helpless  Posted: 10:54 AM, December 2nd (Monday)

Mine is November 26th. I just turned 30

Posts: 74 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: CA
brokensoul75
New Member
Member # 41473
Default  Posted: 11:12 PM, December 2nd (Monday)

Feb. 5, I'll be 39.



You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you. ~Walt Disney

We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey. ~Kenji Miyazawa


Posts: 25 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: New England
Livia1776
New Member
Member # 41546
Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, December 5th (Thursday)

December 22, in a little over two weeks!

Posts: 10 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Los Angeles
GotPlayed
Member
Member # 41294
Default  Posted: 7:23 PM, December 13th (Friday)

Dec 17


Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
XBH and healing. D final March 2016
Her: Doesn't matter anymore.
DS13 Severe SN. DD11 Awesome

Posts: 1012 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: California
spond
Member
Member # 41686
Default  Posted: 12:32 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

September 15th


BH(me) | fWW
2 Kids - Married 2002
D-Day TT & EA | D-Day #2 PA
Reconciling

Posts: 437 | Registered: Dec 2013
ItHappened2Me2
Member
Member # 32503
Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, December 26th (Thursday)

November 15


BS - me (53 now); WS - him (53 now)
DD 17yo, DS 13 yo
Married 25 years (together 27+/-)
DDay #1 - March 18, 2011
DD #2 (after 3 + month TT and false R -- the affair had gone underground) - June 28,2011
DD3: June 19, 2013
DIVORCED!!!! and doing well

Posts: 249 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Texas
Mack9512
Member
Member # 38619
Default  Posted: 7:41 PM, December 26th (Thursday)

September 24th


"If you're brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello." - Paulo Coehlo

Posts: 440 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: East Coast
LostSamurai
Member
Member # 41347
Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, December 27th (Friday)

November 15th


I am the wandering samurai, and I found my freedom...

Posts: 1045 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Maryland
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 10:34 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

UPdated!!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
hangingonin
Member
Member # 29530
Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Mine is the 9th February

Posts: 77 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: SE England, UK
Ascendant
Member
Member # 38303
Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, January 2nd (Thursday)

August 11th. I'll be 31.

Posts: 5173 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: North of Chicago, Illinois
goodbye_virginia
Member
Member # 16321
Default  Posted: 11:20 PM, January 2nd (Thursday)

January 19!


Me- BW 38
Him - WH 46 alcoholic
We are attempting R but I still doubt it all sometimes

Posts: 58 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: Texas
sunsetslost
Member
Member # 39885
Default  Posted: 7:22 AM, January 4th (Saturday)

May 2. I'll be 37


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 799 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
Wayflost
Member
Member # 41583
Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, January 6th (Monday)

January 6th, spent it here.


"Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly."

Posts: 760 | Registered: Dec 2013
plainsong
Member
Member # 37826
Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, January 8th (Wednesday)

Hi!

I am officially sharing my birthday, which is January 8. Thanks so much for taking the unofficial registration from my husband, and for doing this. Great birthday so far.


Me, fWW
Him, fBH
Dday, 12/22/2010
I use capital letters for emphasis, not yelling.
Reconciled and healing.

Posts: 170 | Registered: Dec 2012
sisoon
Guide
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

July 23. Thanks so much in advance!


fBH (me) - 66 on d-day, Married 43, together 45 on d-day, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
Most of us know only our own experience. That's not enough data to support a general rule that D, or R, is right in every sitch.

Posts: 17096 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois
scarednbroken
Member
Member # 41961
Default  Posted: 12:35 AM, January 10th (Friday)

April 15


BS: Me 47 WH: 54 Kids: 17, 19, 21, 32 DD: every yr Ow: tons Status: fed-up. A woman should never invest in a relationship she wouldn't want for her daughter, nor should she allow any man to treat her in a way she would scold her son for

Posts: 423 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Midwest
focusupward
New Member
Member # 42008
Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, January 13th (Monday)

June 11, thanks


ME - 44
WW - 31
DDAY#1 - 11/15/10 - EA
DDAY#2 - 5/11/13 - PA

Suffering builds perseverance, perseverance character and character hope.


Posts: 37 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas
TheAgonyOfIt
Member
Member # 39114
Default  Posted: 10:14 AM, January 18th (Saturday)

January 20th
Thanks


Me BS 49, ExWS: narcissist! Jekyll Hyde. Left in secret early July, moved states. Left home, job, whole life behind and difficult** adjusting. Dog injured and too much to handle. Supremely bummed out.

Posts: 557 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: theagonyofit
BAB61
Member
Member # 41181
Default  Posted: 9:21 PM, January 18th (Saturday)

Feb 3, I'll be 19 yo with 34 years experience!


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
No12turn2
Member
Member # 40996
Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, January 29th (Wednesday)

30 January. I'll be 35 this year


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 534 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
Secrets Kept
Member
Member # 40630
Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, January 31st (Friday)

Just had mine on Wednesday.....January 29th.
I turned 46!! Ughh!!


Marriage #1=BW-47 (now)
XWH-Deceased on his 36 bday
Divorced in 1996
Marriage #2= Married in 2003
Unknown BH-45 Me-WW-47
2 kids together-DS15 & DD13
"All this time I was finding myself & I didn't know I was lost"

Posts: 272 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest USA
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, February 1st (Saturday)

UPdated as of today.
Sending Belateds to the January ones!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Ascendant
Member
Member # 38303
Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, February 2nd (Sunday)

I think you missed me, BR. August 11th.

Posts: 5173 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: North of Chicago, Illinois
WalkinOnEggshelz
Moderator
Member # 29447
Default  Posted: 4:29 PM, February 2nd (Sunday)

June 10th for me!


Me: WS 44
Him: BH 45(HoldingTogether)
D Day: 7/24/2010
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.

Posts: 6543 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Texas
MarcoJohn
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Member # 42280
Revenge  Posted: 12:32 PM, February 8th (Saturday)

My birthday was 5 days ago.

Posts: 2 | Registered: Jan 2014
StuckinNJagain
Member
Member # 42140
Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, February 9th (Sunday)

Feb 17, I will be 47


BH-46 (me)
WS-44
DD-16
DS-12
First Dday-2/09
Sec Dday-1/14
Married 17 yrs. Together 26

Posts: 58 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NJ
Pass
Member
Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 10:42 PM, February 10th (Monday)

February 6.


Me: 1970
Two sons: 2000 and 2003
Cheating louse: What's her name again?

Married Aug/95
DDay Nov/12
Separated Mar/13
Finally divorced Jul/17

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!


Posts: 3623 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
MadeOfScars
Member
Member # 42231
Default  Posted: 3:03 PM, February 15th (Saturday)

December 9th here.


"Character is the ability to follow through on commitments that were made in moments of high resolve – even when we no longer feel like it." Carl Andersen

Posts: 3130 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas
gypsybird87
Member
Member # 39193
Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, February 21st (Friday)

Shared my birthday before... but nothing happened? Is there somewhere I need to look?

It's today.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords


Posts: 1857 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
4everfaithful83
Member
Member # 41761
Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, February 21st (Friday)

February 17 - just celebrated 31! :)


Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...

ME: 33
WBF: 30
Together 10 years
1 doggie, 1 Cat
DDay: June 24, 2013
IN R...Working at it every day.


Posts: 818 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
joannie
Member
Member # 42486
Default  Posted: 7:16 AM, February 23rd (Sunday)

February 22nd


me BS 57
Him WS 56
Married 37 years 2 sons 5 grandchildren

Posts: 735 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: France
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Shocked  Posted: 7:17 PM, February 23rd (Sunday)

Sorry sorry sorry!
I woke up in a panic on my vaca to Florida this morning realizing I didnt get a backup in place.

I'm putting in the belated birthdays now.
I'll be going on vaca for the G2G in Texas in 3 weeks and will ask several people for reminders this time!!!

BR.


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 7:19 PM, February 23rd (Sunday)

gypsybird87 - Its possible that one of two things happened:

Either I missed it or if you weren't on the forum for more than 2 months before your birthday I remove you from the list (see instructions at the first post).

I'll add you back in and send a belated!
BR


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
RippedSoul
Member
Member # 40055
Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, February 23rd (Sunday)

November 12


BW: 52; SLAWH: 49; M: 25 yrs
DD#1--11/30/12 (prostitute 1)
DD#2--1/29/13 (WH confessed: P1, AP, escorts 1 & 2)
DD#3--9/13 (trolling MILF site)
DD#4--10/8/13 (EA with AP cont'd)
DD: 23; DD: 21; DS: 19; DS: 17
I've never NOT edited my posts.

Posts: 689 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: West
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, February 23rd (Sunday)

Also, look in Fun and Games for your birthday cakes, by the way.


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Trying2Survive1
Member
Member # 40022
Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, February 23rd (Sunday)

May 20


Madhatters, M 36 yrs, many DDays
Both 60's
We're in solid R, there is hope!
Stop right there: I already don’t give a fuck ~ ty Greeneyesbluezy

Posts: 406 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: United States
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:13 PM, February 23rd (Sunday)

Updating now


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, February 23rd (Sunday)

Ok, check it out. I'll make corrections again on March 1.


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
mainlyinpain
Member
Member # 39134
Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, February 25th (Tuesday)

May 27

Posts: 602 | Registered: Apr 2013
still2suspicious
Member
Member # 31722
Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, February 27th (Thursday)

April 3rd.


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1600 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, February 28th (Friday)

updated to here


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Mom4ever
Member
Member # 40516
Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, March 8th (Saturday)

February 4.


BW - me 46. WXH - 48
Married - 24.5 years. Dated - 2 years. Engaged - 2 years.
D-Day - 6/13/2013. Divorced 12/10/2015.
2 DSs and 1 DD
Divorced by the Grace of God!
Actions never lie. Words do! Choices have consequences.

Posts: 248 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Southeast
Wodnships
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Member # 42750
Default  Posted: 3:31 PM, March 13th (Thursday)

I wasn't going to post until I saw that no one else had my birthday.

January 5th.


me: BH 37
Her: WW 29

Married 6 years. Dating 10. Living together 8.

If a man took his time on earth
to prove be for he died
what on man's life could be worth
I wonder what would happen to the world

- Harry Chapin


Posts: 1149 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: California
WastedTime12
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Member # 34767
Happy  Posted: 9:15 PM, March 21st (Friday)

March 23rd.


Life is meant to be lived, not numbed!

In his quest for freedom, he set me free!


Posts: 454 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Dallas, TX
hpv50
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Member # 39703
Default  Posted: 9:41 PM, March 26th (Wednesday)

March 31, the end of the quarter.

In another life, I was an accountant. :)


Me: BS - 50; Him: WH - 53, covert NPD/ BPD
married 19 years, 3 kids
DD1 4/22/13 (hpv diagnosis)
DD2 5/9/13
Status: relocated my happy; hanging in there for now

Posts: 561 | Registered: Jun 2013
LAFA
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Member # 31868
Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, March 28th (Friday)

Tomorrow, March 29. I'll be 56.


When you put someone on a pedestal, they quickly learn two things. The view is mighty good from up there, and it is a fine vantage from which to kick.

Posts: 247 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: Hawaii
Guss
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Member # 39113
Default  Posted: 12:10 PM, April 2nd (Wednesday)

January, 7, thanks


ME - 48
WW – 46
DDAY#1 - 04/20/13 – PA&EA
DDAY#2 – 07/06//13 - EA (so WW claims)
KIDS – (10&8)
M=10years
Trying to R

Suffering builds perseverance, perseverance character and character hope.


Posts: 27 | Registered: Apr 2013
TXMommy
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Member # 28857
Default  Posted: 12:24 PM, April 2nd (Wednesday)

October 28th :)


ME - BS - 35
WH - 31
13 years...
2 kids: D12, S6
D-Day: June 10th, 2010
H.O.P.E. -- Hold On, Pain Ends.

Posts: 596 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: TX
38yearstogether
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Member # 42845
Default  Posted: 1:27 AM, April 5th (Saturday)

On 7 April I will be 55. First birthday on my own....

I never thought I would get to be 55 and on my own. I have just been reading the co-dependency posts and my eyes have truly been opened. I am a classic rescuer...the hero...but I let myself down. Big mistake. Big lesson. I have arranged a massage for myself and hopefully will have dinner with my kids. I have decided to start learning to take care of myself.

Happy birthday to me! And everyone else today.


Me 54 (BS)Him 56 (WS)
Married 36 years
3 grown kids - 4 grandchildren
D-Day 11 March 2014
Cybersex multiple sites, partners
Porn addiction
Kicked him out on D-Day
Back home April 17
Both having counselling

Posts: 11 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Sydney
justasinger
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Member # 43031
Default  Posted: 5:12 PM, April 7th (Monday)

December 25th.... I'll be 39 this year


BSO -me 38
WSO - her 30
2x DD ages 6 and 4
D-day #1 APR08 (supposed ONS w/OM)
D-day #2 1JAN13 2x ONS w/OM and OW, and a ONS
D-day #3 22APR14 (admitted to another ONS that she didn't fess up to during DDay #2)

Posts: 164 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: New England
Adeahan
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Member # 43005
Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, April 8th (Tuesday)

May 18th, ill be 33 this year.


Me 33, H 31,D-Day 03/30/14, Together 12 years, married 2, 3 kids, 3 dogs, Working on R
"nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard you hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward"

Posts: 138 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Ontario, Canada
Adeahan
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Member # 43005
Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, April 8th (Tuesday)

May 18th, ill be 33 this year.


Me 33, H 31,D-Day 03/30/14, Together 12 years, married 2, 3 kids, 3 dogs, Working on R
"nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard you hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward"

Posts: 138 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Ontario, Canada
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 7:19 PM, April 10th (Thursday)

OK updating!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Nothanks
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Member # 43225
Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, April 24th (Thursday)

Dec. 4th

Posts: 59 | Registered: Apr 2014
devasted30
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Member # 39439
Default  Posted: 2:04 PM, April 27th (Sunday)

My birthday is December 8th


And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

Posts: 1878 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
Sparkle0504
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Member # 40379
Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

Mine is April 5th:)


Me 46 (BS) Him 54 (SAWH)
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011
His addiction is more important than me...and him. Divorcing.

Posts: 382 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: England
20WrongsVs1
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Member # 39000
Default  Posted: 11:25 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

Plenty of time to get me in, so take your time.

Feb. 23.


fWW: 42
BH: 52
DDay: April 21, 2013
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
Former motto: "Fake it till ya make it." Now: "You can't win if you don't play."

Posts: 1523 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: The First Coast
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Content  Posted: 6:38 AM, April 30th (Wednesday)

Updated!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
knightsbff
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Member # 36853
Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, May 1st (Thursday)

Dec 1


fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.

I edit often to fix stuff ☺️

Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.


Posts: 1814 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
Doubts
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Member # 40209
Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, May 10th (Saturday)

May 22

Posts: 79 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: CA
needadvise
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Member # 43218
Default  Posted: 11:38 PM, May 18th (Sunday)

May 22


BS: 48 Me
WH: 46 him
DD 17 Ours
DS 23 Mine

DDAY 4/17/2013 my father's anniversary death date.
2013 to present: TT big time
1 PA/EA
9 more women PAs all of our 17 years of marriage. Never had a clue until TT in the last year. Showe


Posts: 112 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Pennsylvania
needadvise
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Member # 43218
Default  Posted: 11:39 PM, May 18th (Sunday)

[This message edited by needadvise at 11:39 PM, May 18th (Sunday)]


BS: 48 Me
WH: 46 him
DD 17 Ours
DS 23 Mine

DDAY 4/17/2013 my father's anniversary death date.
2013 to present: TT big time
1 PA/EA
9 more women PAs all of our 17 years of marriage. Never had a clue until TT in the last year. Showe


Posts: 112 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Pennsylvania
twisted
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Member # 8873
Default  Posted: 3:29 PM, May 23rd (Friday)

May 30


"Hey, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?

Posts: 2840 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: Oklahoma
Guinness23
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Member # 42852
Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, May 25th (Sunday)

May 23


Me 48
Divorced 2010

1."'FOREVER' in love" lasts only 14 years.
2. Alcohol is NO solution just a bigger problem

My favorite drink is water. Call me Dasani23


Posts: 3212 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Indiana
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 10:13 PM, June 1st (Sunday)

============= UPDATED TO HERE ==============
don't forget to get your July birthdays in by June 30!

--BR


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Scubadoo
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Member # 43079
Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday)

October 7th.


BS (me) 42
WS (him) 48
OW (downgrade) 48
Married 11 yrs
DS 9
DD 8
D-day 10/27/13
8mth

Posts: 106 | Registered: Apr 2014
Angeles85
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Member # 42107
Default  Posted: 12:16 AM, June 17th (Tuesday)

August 5th, will be 29 :)

Posts: 163 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Los Angeles
ICTYFTITY
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Member # 43734
Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, June 17th (Tuesday)

My birthday is June 28 :)


Me: BW (31)
Him: WH (34)
3 Daughters
Married 9 years
DDays: Various in 2012
Working on R...?
I Can Throw You Further Than I Trust You.

Posts: 49 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Colorado
bravegirl19
Member
Member # 43539
Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, June 24th (Tuesday)

Celebrated my birthday yesterday, June 23…just turned 36. Thanks :)


Me (BS) – 37
WS – 36
Dday – 5/25/14
Together since 2003, married 6 1/2 years
EA and PA with COW for at least 3 months WHILE I WAS PREGNANT (still don’t know the truth of the length of this affair or possibly others)

Posts: 52 | Registered: May 2014
shygirl07
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Member # 42972
Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, June 26th (Thursday)

turning 28 on Oct 7 2014 .. yikes ! :(


me:27
him:30
7 years together
no children

OW was his ex he always convinced was his friend .. moved in her and knocked her up , got together behind my back


Ddays : many in 2009 and 2010
final dday : Sept 2012 after being broken up 3 w


Posts: 73 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: CA
painfulpast
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Member # 41038
Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, June 26th (Thursday)

September 17th, and I believe DeeplyScared has a birthday present all set for me


DDay - 12/2010
Fully R'd - I love my husband

Posts: 2246 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: East Coast
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, June 30th (Monday)

======UPDATED TO HERE========
--br


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
sudra
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Member # 30143
Default  Posted: 10:07 AM, July 2nd (Wednesday)

Can I still jump on? September 18!


Me (BW) (58), Him(SAWH) (61)
Married 24 years, 1 son (22), 1 stepdaughter (30)
DDay #1 January 2004
DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)
Working on R

Posts: 1781 | Registered: Nov 2010
AmSoDone
Member
Member # 43871
Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, July 8th (Tuesday)

Nov 2nd


BP(me) 53
WP (scumbag) 55
On-off for 32 years
1DD
1 DGD
Too many D Days to count. Same with OW.

Posts: 131 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: UK
deceivedguy
Member
Member # 44049
Default  Posted: 7:35 AM, July 11th (Friday)

July 16


Me (49), WW (44), 2 Awesome DDs
DDay 6/2/2014 - 16 years married
Possibly new or continuing A, currently.
Worst experience of my life. Still having a tough time dealing with this. I appreciate your support, more than I can express.

Posts: 178 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Midwest
BitterlyCynical
New Member
Member # 44091
Frustrated  Posted: 7:20 PM, July 14th (Monday)

July 14th... yay me


Betrayed Husband 32 (me)
(Wayward) Wifey Dearest 24
Other "Man" 25ish (WW's 'best friend'/'new roommate')
Separated 5/16/2014

Posts: 34 | Registered: Jul 2014
Mochagurl
Member
Member # 14660
Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, July 14th (Monday)

August 12


Me: BS-56
Him: WS-56
Married: 36 years
Divorced: 11-17-15
DD 36, DD 26, DS 23, DD 20
You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.

Posts: 312 | Registered: May 2007 | From: Ohio
inthedark14
Member
Member # 41924
Default  Posted: 12:56 AM, July 21st (Monday)

Tomoro July 21st!


WH: 39/BW:Me,32
Married 14 years in March, 2 Beautiful children 8 & 12
D-Day: Xmas Eve 2013-worst day of my life

"The most expensive thing in th world is TRUST, it takes years to earn and just a matter of seconds to lose"


Posts: 102 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: santa rosa ca
RMarred
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Member # 44242
Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, August 2nd (Saturday)

SparrowSoul - March 6
RMarred - May 9


Me: WBF
Her: BGF (SparrowSoul)
D-Day: 7/5/14

I was up above it. Now I'm down in it.


Posts: 102 | Registered: Jul 2014
IrishLass518
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Member # 34373
Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, August 7th (Thursday)

July 18th


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1858 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Lola2kids
Member
Member # 32789
Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, August 12th (Tuesday)

December 17


BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1813 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
SoLostStillNumb
Member
Member # 44248
Default  Posted: 3:13 PM, August 14th (Thursday)

November 23


Me: BS 30 Him: XH 30
Married: 5 years, together 7. No kids.
DDay: 6/3/14
Divorced: 04/2015!

"There is a crack in everything, that's how the light gets in."


Posts: 228 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: VA
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, August 25th (Monday)

UPdated as of today.
Will be obvious soon...


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Doubleblame
Member
Member # 44588
Default  Posted: 3:57 PM, September 3rd (Wednesday)

OCTOBER 6 big 50


hurt forever
Me BS
Him WS
Together 14 years
DD #1: 5/18/2014
DD #2: 8/20/2014
DSD 20
Status: Think it becomes clearer every day, still not trusting

Posts: 56 | Registered: Aug 2014 | From: MN
Cali123
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Member # 44570
Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, September 9th (Tuesday)

September 11- I'll be THIRTY!:)

Posts: 22 | Registered: Aug 2014
ItllGetBetter
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Member # 42776
Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, September 10th (Wednesday)

July 12 :)


Gotta work on this bitter-thing...
married 26 years, together 31,childhood sweethearts

2 kids, 18 + 20
divorce is happening - it can't not

june 5th,2015...divorced.


Posts: 352 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: connecticut
outtanowhere
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Member # 39001
Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, September 10th (Wednesday)

Sept. 15


Me-clueless BS
Dday - 2/19/13
“I can't go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.”
― Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland

Posts: 1022 | Registered: Apr 2013
krsplat
Member
Member # 43242
Default  Posted: 5:19 AM, September 23rd (Tuesday)

Today, Sept 23


Me & WH: 50, married 20+ years, 4 kids
DDay: 3/5/14, 7 yr LTA plus multiple ONS
Conclusion: Some things are too broken to be fixed.

Posts: 780 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Virginia
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, September 30th (Tuesday)

Updating today!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Allornothing
Member
Member # 42354
Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, October 1st (Wednesday)

May 2nd


Me- BS 44
Him- FWH 44
Married 20 years, Together 27
Kids- 24,23,16,15
D Day- 7 Sept 2013
OW- Irrelevant

Posts: 333 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Australia
Marathonmumof4
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Member # 42528
Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, October 15th (Wednesday)

31st January

Posts: 238 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Potters Bar
brknheartcanada
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Member # 45195
Default  Posted: 7:19 AM, October 18th (Saturday)

March 1

Posts: 72 | Registered: Oct 2014 | From: Canada
Giselle8
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Member # 45194
Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, October 21st (Tuesday)

October 25th

😀


BW

Me: BS, 40s
WH: WS, 50s
Married 18 years, Together 22
Two school aged daughters
D-day 9/28
Confronted H 10/24, H admitted to EA but not PA
11/14 Admitted to PA
In MC, attempting to R


Posts: 79 | Registered: Oct 2014
silentscream13
Member
Member # 41693
Default  Posted: 12:39 AM, October 27th (Monday)

May 2


ME: BS HIM: WS - lostmymind13; 4 kids
Sexting,OEA/NO PA (planning it b/f he got caught) w/ EX-GF; extreme porn use our entire relationship. Alcoholic (sober)
D-day - 11-14-13
Together: 20 years; Married: 17 years
Status: He wants to R. Me? Meh.

Posts: 356 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Nowhere and Everywhere
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 10:38 PM, October 31st (Friday)

Updated


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Macsecond
Member
Member # 43972
Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, October 31st (Friday)

Fun! Me too, please? September 6


Me - WW (40)
Him - BH (38)
Married 16 years.
2 amazing daughters (DD9 and DD4.5)
DDay - July 4, 2014 (I confessed to 5 month OEA)

Posts: 800 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Canada
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 10:43 PM, October 31st (Friday)

OK, you too.


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
GettingHappy
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Member # 42129
Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, November 5th (Wednesday)

My birthday is November 18th. Thanks.😊

Posts: 65 | Registered: Jan 2014
befuddledhubbie
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Member # 43990
Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, November 11th (Tuesday)

nov. 19. i'll be officially working on my 2nd quarter of a century.


BH 28 DD 4
xww- broke, married to Limpy A. POSer and expecting

NB coming soon to a Fud near you

I like the story of the prodigal son, but he didn't screw the pigs.


Posts: 409 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Michigan
InnerLight
Member
Member # 19946
Default  Posted: 12:40 AM, November 26th (Wednesday)

Ha! Just missed it for the year!

Nov 24


BS, 56 years
D-day 6-2-08
D after 20 years
The journey from Armageddon to Amazing Life happens one step at a time. Don't ever give up!

Posts: 6650 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, November 30th (Sunday)

Adding the three Novembers.


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
beachgirl29
Member
Member # 45220
Default  Posted: 7:04 AM, December 4th (Thursday)

Ooh something happy to look forward to on birthday. August 17.


Me: BS (46)
Him: WH (45)
Dday: 11/23/13
Reconciling

Posts: 110 | Registered: Oct 2014 | From: florida
forbetterorworse
Member
Member # 45683
Default  Posted: 3:59 PM, December 7th (Sunday)

December 17


You never know how strong you are until being strong is your only choice ~ story of my life ~ I don't want to play this game anymore.

Posts: 71 | Registered: Nov 2014 | From: USA
trustedg
Member
Member # 44465
Default  Posted: 4:02 PM, December 7th (Sunday)

October 5


Me BW
Him WH
DDay 12/2012
Married a long time, in R

Posts: 1827 | Registered: Aug 2014
Want2babettrme
New Member
Member # 43291
Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, December 7th (Sunday)

May 6 here. Thanks.

[This message edited by Want2babettrme at 10:00 PM, December 7th (Sunday)]


BC due to Dad's affair, BBF due to WX fiance's cheating in LDR. Likely BXH as XW had STD in 1st yr of M, we had unprotctd PIV for yr and half prior. XW was my only partner over previous 5yrs.

Posts: 36 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: The Sunny South
broken1873
Member
Member # 44564
Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, December 9th (Tuesday)

December 18th... a week before Christmas baby!


Partnered: 11 years
Me(female): 41
Her: 35
Dday: Aug 7, 2014 (one time event in June 2014)
Working on reconciliation.

Facing the most pain I've ever endured but will persevere no matter where that takes me.


Posts: 371 | Registered: Aug 2014 | From: PA - Currently La La Land
isthismynewlife
Member
Member # 43292
Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, December 9th (Tuesday)

Jan 11th here!


Me 42 BS
Him 42 FWS
DDay #1 11/28/13 - 7 months EA/a little PA with my supposed friend.
DDAy #2 8/25/14 - oops - did I forget to mention that it was a 15 month PA/EA? He thought the first version would hurt me less.
Things are improving daily!

Posts: 310 | Registered: Apr 2014
Skan
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Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 4:49 PM, December 14th (Sunday)

August 1


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 10189 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
intheblinkofaney
Member
Member # 45537
Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, December 14th (Sunday)

Jan 3rd


You and me, we made a vow
For better or for worse
I can't believe you let me down
But the proof is in the way it hurts
----------
10-12-14 D-Day
3-24-15 Giving R a chance

Posts: 623 | Registered: Nov 2014
Hopeful74
Member
Member # 44003
Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, December 29th (Monday)

December 18


Me: BW
2 DD: 18 & 5; 1 DS: 10
Divorced May 2015
'Everytime you get up and get back in the race, one more small piece of you starts to fall into place.' -

Posts: 539 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Hampton, VA
amomof4
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Member # 46140
Default  Posted: 5:32 AM, December 30th (Tuesday)

December 5th

Posts: 8 | Registered: Dec 2014
Not.the.Big.Easy
Member
Member # 2569
Default  Posted: 2:21 PM, December 30th (Tuesday)

January 9th


Me: BH (44)
Her: WW (37)(EAish)
Dday 7/23/14
Dday #2 9/9/14
TT #1 10/4/14
TT #2 10/14/14
Doubt I have the whole truth
D final 4/7/16

Posts: 201 | Registered: Oct 2003 | From: Vermont
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:41 AM, December 31st (Wednesday)

Got the new ones, thankyou!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Neverwudaguessed
Member
Member # 41884
Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, December 31st (Wednesday)

October 7th.


BW: 46 Me
WH:50
DDay1 9-9-13 (18th Wedding Anniversary) 6 wk EA, 1 wk PA
DDay2: 10-25-13 EA/PA with same OW 14 1/2 years ago for 2 or 3 months
OW: XGF Predator who never stopped pursuing WH
DS 15
DD 13

Posts: 1812 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: New York
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, December 31st (Wednesday)

Updated list as of today


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
ash79
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Member # 45981
Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, January 8th (Thursday)

August 4


Me BW, 36
Him WH, 34
2 OW
D-days in summer 2014
LOTS of TT
Trying to R, but I feel so defeated

Posts: 171 | Registered: Dec 2014
GiveTimeTime
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Member # 45868
Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, January 8th (Thursday)

April 17


Me: 49 Him: 58
Married 14 years, together 19.
D-day: 3/6/14
Me; loving, devoted, faithful wife
Him: lying, cheating, wh0re fu€king john
6/4/15 - Divorced. Done. I wasn't kidding, asshole.

Posts: 436 | Registered: Dec 2014 | From: Las Vegas
crackedvase
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Member # 46506
Default  Posted: 12:44 AM, January 26th (Monday)

June 14th. I will be 34


BS/WW- Me 33
BS/WH- Him 38
Married 9yrs, Together 12yr
His D-Day 9-22-14 LTA 3 months
My D-Day 9-23-14 Revenge ONS
2 Boys 10 months, 2.5yrs

Posts: 4 | Registered: Jan 2015 | From: Orlando, Fl
Whoa
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Member # 46523
Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, January 26th (Monday)

Jan 15


Is there a can of fix-a-flat for that?

Posts: 8 | Registered: Jan 2015 | From: pa
healingroad
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Member # 41920
Default  Posted: 1:18 PM, February 2nd (Monday)

Today, feb 2.


XBH 50, 2DS
M 20 years
Now remarried to a faithful wife

Posts: 1579 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, February 2nd (Monday)

Updated as of today.


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Whoami15
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, February 2nd (Monday)

August 27

Posts: 23 | Registered: Jan 2015 | From: Brisbane, Australia
UnhappyOhio
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Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, February 3rd (Tuesday)

My birthday is August 9, 1963

Posts: 4 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: OHIO
ImStillwaiting
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Member # 12580
Default  Posted: 8:28 AM, February 6th (Friday)

February 18th


♥ Me: 31

♥ HiM: 32

♥ Married: 11 years

♥Kids: 10 year old DS 7 year old DD 5 year old DS♥


Posts: 473 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: NY
earthangel
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Member # 44357
Default  Posted: 12:33 PM, February 6th (Friday)

March 31st


Never regret. If it's good, it's wonderful. If its bad - it's experience.

Posts: 1077 | Registered: Aug 2014 | From: England
matthesax
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Member # 42724
Default  Posted: 5:25 AM, February 9th (Monday)

March 31


Don't look back unless you can smile, don't look forward unless you can dream.

Posts: 57 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: england
HenryIIX
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Member # 46173
Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, February 9th (Monday)

April 27


BS - Me (46) WS - Him (46)
Married 19 yrs, together 25 yrs
DDay - 12/26/14
The Sweathog will now be referred to as the Warthog on occasion thanks to her gift to my WH.

~ Damaged people are dangerous. They know they can survive.


Posts: 1235 | Registered: Jan 2015 | From: Midwest
Lowlow
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Member # 38653
Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, February 11th (Wednesday)

February 14. Sigh, the most hated day on this site


Me (BS) 45 Him (FWS) 46
AP#2 (LTA EA/PA) DD #1 16 Feb 2013
AP#1 (LTA EA with my BF) DD #2 16 Nov2013
OW2 breaks no contact after 4.5 years! Back to square one
Reconciling

Posts: 798 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Neither here nor there
matthesax
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Member # 42724
Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, February 16th (Monday)

Sorry Lowlow

Not your fault, and now it's someone's birthday instead!javascript:AddSmily('%20%20')


Don't look back unless you can smile, don't look forward unless you can dream.

Posts: 57 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: england
CATransplant
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Member # 39567
Default  Posted: 4:30 PM, February 16th (Monday)

Febraury 18


Me BS
H FWS
M 3/27/12 together since 06'
A EA/PA 4/19/13/5/26/13
DD 6/12/13
Forced NC 6/13/13
MOW coworker-caught,TT for six months.

Posts: 161 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: United States
Mike26
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Member # 45062
Default  Posted: 11:54 PM, February 16th (Monday)

Feb. 26 I'll turn the big 3-0


WS, CSA survivor
Dday 9/13/14

"Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage." -Anais Nin


Posts: 136 | Registered: Sep 2014
bdb84
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Member # 46809
Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, February 17th (Tuesday)

December 31st


Me/BW (30)
WH (30)
Separated ("ILY but am no longer in love w/ you")- 01/15
DDay- 02/15
Three kids (8, 5, newborn)

Divorced 10/15


Posts: 24 | Registered: Feb 2015 | From: United States
NiagaraLax15
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Member # 46936
Default  Posted: 5:01 PM, February 25th (Wednesday)

May 6th!


Together: 12 yrs,Married: 9.5
1 Stepson (22), 1 son (9)
Filed for divorce prior to DDay- AP was a major factor in her filing - I didn't know he even existed!
Discovered Affair: 4/2/14 - old bf who dumped her.
Divorce Finalized: 8/7/14

Posts: 52 | Registered: Feb 2015 | From: United States (Western NYS)
BrokenRoad
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Cool  Posted: 5:21 AM, March 1st (Sunday)

Updated to here.

And to matthesax, that was very kind of you to try to make Lowlow feel better.


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
LuvsMeLuvsMeNot
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Member # 44963
Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, March 2nd (Monday)

February 22nd here


BW (ME) 55
FWH (HIM) 56
MARRIED 29 YRS
2 AWESOME Adult Kids
D-DAY #1 2/11/12-Told ME an EA
TT FOR 3 1/2 YRS
D-DAY #2 12/3/15-HE Confirms PA
OW 54 Exgf TwatFacedBitch
STATUS-ME IN EMDR W/PTSD


Posts: 580 | Registered: Sep 2014 | From: Midwest
globetrotter
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Member # 46685
Default  Posted: 7:58 AM, March 7th (Saturday)

April 20


D-Day: January 17, 2015
Me: 41
WH: 40
DS: 3
Friends for 27 years, married for 14
Blindsided by WH's confession of workplace affair while living abroad. DS and I are starting anew back home while WH continues to live in outer space.

Posts: 209 | Registered: Feb 2015 | From: WA
Didact
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Member # 42867
Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, March 10th (Tuesday)

September 20 for me. Will be 51 this next time.


No matter how painful, life either adapts or it dies.

BH (Me) 49
WW 48
Married 1985
D-Day Mar 19, 2014
1 year passionate EA/PA, ended by me on d-day.
Attempting to R


Posts: 446 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: PNW
Jomarion
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Member # 43659
Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, March 10th (Tuesday)

Mine is March 16. I will be 55! Holy Mackeral!


me:BGF, 54, American immigrant. one son. me and my ex get along great, the most amicable split imaginable!
him:WBF,43, Polish immigrant
together since 2006,
DDay:October28,2009,after his 3 teen kids push him to cheat with OW.
5 betrayed me

Posts: 298 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: UK
sandrac
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Member # 45208
Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, March 13th (Friday)

My birthday is today. 13 March.

Posts: 163 | Registered: Oct 2014 | From: hollywood, Florida
Rampage0409
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Member # 47087
Default  Posted: 10:11 AM, March 15th (Sunday)

February 20


Me: 33
WH: 36
OW1: Ho Worker
OW2: Another Ho Worker
DDay: 3/5/15
DDay 2: 2/14/17
Filed for D March 8, 2017
Divorced!
Married: 10years - Together: 17years
"Who ever said money can't buy happiness has never paid for a divorce!"

Posts: 152 | Registered: Mar 2015 | From: Pits of Hell, TN
SadieMae
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Member # 42986
Default  Posted: 1:34 PM, March 18th (Wednesday)

December 27th :)


Me: BW 43
Him: SA(?)WH 43 (FlawedBroken)
Together half our lives.
D-day 3/9/2014
TT until 8/2015
Details in Profile.

Posts: 992 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Sweet Tea in the Shade
crushedinpa
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Member # 46787
Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, March 20th (Friday)

Today March 20th for me.


Me 47: BS
Him 47: WS
M 22 yrs with 1 DD (age 17) and 13 year old twin DS
D-Day 1/28/2015 (1.5 mos. affair) EA/some PA (his TT story)
In R (I think)

Posts: 249 | Registered: Feb 2015
turtlehead
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Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, March 24th (Tuesday)

May 1 I'll be 37, my kids call me old and I believe them.

Posts: 16 | Registered: Dec 2014 | From: OKC
Riskybusiness
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Member # 43475
Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, March 26th (Thursday)

October 23


Me-42
Engaged 5/2017

Him-no longer matters
Married 22 years
Two DD-adults. DS-18, DD-14
DIVORCED

Rejoice in hope, persevere in tribulation, be devoted to prayer. Romans 12:12


Posts: 182 | Registered: May 2014 | From: Oregon
mozi
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Member # 47041
Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, March 29th (Sunday)

April 22!

Posts: 284 | Registered: Mar 2015 | From: Southwest
Tatika80
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Member # 45923
Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, April 15th (Wednesday)

July 20th :)


Me~ BS 32
Him~WF 35
Together~16yrs Engaged~6yrs
3 boys~12,9,2
D~Day~3rd Nov 14, ONS (so he says) with COW no exact date approx 4yrs ago (again, so he says)
Working on Reconciling (I'm still unsure on if I'm gong to stay or not, it's

Posts: 50 | Registered: Dec 2014 | From: Western Australia
MrsZ
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Content  Posted: 5:10 PM, April 19th (Sunday)

My birthday is August 1, I will be 33 this year

Posts: 1 | Registered: Apr 2015 | From: Pennsylvania
downtownblues
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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, April 22nd (Wednesday)

July 13th for me, not so sure that it is lucky though! Thanks

Posts: 25 | Registered: Dec 2014 | From: london ontario
BlueIris
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Member # 47551
Default  Posted: 4:46 AM, April 27th (Monday)

November 9
Dreading this year more than ever; will be a HUGE trigger day :(


fBS | M 20Y | DD FEB2015

The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off.


Posts: 1394 | Registered: Apr 2015 | From: State of Disbelief
StrongHeart
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Member # 45092
Default  Posted: 5:19 PM, April 27th (Monday)

April 3! This year was 30, woohoo!


BS: 32; XWH: 34; DS: 3
DDay: 3/8/2014; D: 8/31/2015

"There is little growing in comfort and little comfort in growing"-unknown

"Don't take your emotional temperature in the ass of a psychopath."-unknown


Posts: 1777 | Registered: Oct 2014 | From: Louisiana
n1028
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Default  Posted: 11:53 AM, May 1st (Friday)

July 9th


Me: B-GF
Him:W-EXBF
DDay- March 27, 2015

"Strangers become friends. Friends become lovers. Lovers become strangers. Strangers become friends once more, and over and over."


Posts: 17 | Registered: Mar 2015 | From: Florida, US
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, May 3rd (Sunday)

Updated to here


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Reflective
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Member # 46262
Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, May 5th (Tuesday)

May 5th...Oh, that ominous tug between remembrance of your start at life and thoughts of downplaying the date for different reasons- mainly due to aging:)

Whther other people are around to help you celebrate or not, loving yourself means you have your own "unique" situation..you have your own life's history that only you can uniquely relate to. And for whatever reason(s)people either do or do not join you in that celebration that special "you", take the time to be kind and loving to yourself. You deserve the same outpouring of love that you have given to others -even when no one else is around. Celebrate your heart and how good it has been to so many others. Celebrate your humanity and be proud of your contribution to so many others'lives and the happiness and joy of those unselfish gestures. You don't realize just how much you've done. Yes- you have done so and I am here to tell you that :)

Happy Birthday!


Humans have the capacity to treat others with kindness, respect and love. When we stop practicing that basic thinking, we become open to actions that may tear another's heart to shreds.

Posts: 108 | Registered: Jan 2015
nogoodap1
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Default  Posted: 10:31 PM, May 6th (Wednesday)

I hope I'm not over stepping boundaries here. But TrulySad's birthday is tomorrow (May 7th) and I want to know if she can be added to the list. I love her so dearly and I hope she has a wonderful day tomorrow.

Posts: 242 | Registered: Mar 2013
lost41
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Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, May 30th (Saturday)

june 22 i will be 62

Posts: 26 | Registered: Feb 2015
Want2babettrme
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Default  Posted: 6:42 PM, May 30th (Saturday)

My birthday is May 6. Just turned 56 y.o.


BC due to Dad's affair, BBF due to WX fiance's cheating in LDR. Likely BXH as XW had STD in 1st yr of M, we had unprotctd PIV for yr and half prior. XW was my only partner over previous 5yrs.

Posts: 36 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: The Sunny South
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, May 31st (Sunday)

ON birthdays for friends:
=========================
We really only do a birthday if they want to have a cake, themselves.
If you want, feel free to give them a cake on here, yourself, if they are not on the general list. There is a help thread on how to post pictures in FAQ.
I don't mind.
But I myself would not do one unless asked. Sometimes people dont like to have them acknowledged for whatever reason. I'd hate to step on toes.


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Cool  Posted: 9:30 PM, May 31st (Sunday)

updated to here.

Remember now I have my June list.
If you want to be added for June, make a note here, and I'll try to check on a weekly basis.
Thanks!

BR

[This message edited by BrokenRoad at 9:48 PM, May 31st (Sunday)]


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
sullymeishadomi
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Member # 16305
Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, May 31st (Sunday)

February 26


Time to be my own bff.

Posts: 9311 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: NJ
nme1
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Member # 44360
Default  Posted: 6:14 AM, June 8th (Monday)

June 9


Me: BS
Him: WS
M 14yrs, DS 10 & DS 5
D-Day 6th March 2014
In R

Posts: 1276 | Registered: Aug 2014 | From: Australia
NorthernDark
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Default  Posted: 10:24 PM, June 16th (Tuesday)

I guess I haven't been part of "the club" long enough to have had my birthday added to the list....tomorrow is my BIG 40!!! It's my first birthday alone...but I have had many of friends and family members already make it memorable...
Here's to "the new 30"!!!!

Posts: 8 | Registered: May 2015 | From: Toronto, Canada
lilies21
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Member # 35833
Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, June 18th (Thursday)

A little late but mine is coming up: June 21.

Thanks!


Me: 30s. Ex (Asshat): 30s.
One son.
Many D-Days for excessive porn, Craigslist ads, and EAs/PAs. Divorce final September 2015.

Posts: 3474 | Registered: Jun 2012
strongerdaybyday
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Member # 40264
Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, June 18th (Thursday)

December 4


Me-BW Him - WH
Married 6 years, together 15 years
3 awesome and beautiful children
OC discovered on Dday - born in 2005
D-Day Summer 2013

working towards D...I can't pretend anymore

**If I edit I'm correcting a typo!**


Posts: 509 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
Exit Wounds
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Member # 32811
Default  Posted: 2:02 PM, June 18th (Thursday)

December 18 I will be 29...again.


Exit Wounds
H of 17 years got gf pregnant, left our kids 9 & 11 and we never saw him again. -His choice.

Posts: 2691 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Texas
JanetS
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Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, June 19th (Friday)

Happy birthday to me! Today is my 63rd birthday. :)

Posts: 3061 | Registered: Nov 2003 | From: Niagara-on-the-Lake, Canada
serious
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Member # 46176
Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, June 26th (Friday)

June 10th. just turned 42.


Me(BS):43
WW:41 (lesbian AP friend's wife)
DDay: 10/22/14 confronted 4/9/15
DD-9 DS-12
Divorcing

Posts: 69 | Registered: Jan 2015 | From: New England
TheRealDeal
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Member # 39560
Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, June 29th (Monday)

November 10


Me (BS): 47 him (Xws): 55
together 18 years
DDay1, DDay2, Dday 3: March - June 2013
Dday4 + June 2015 through January 2016
Status: done I called it quits 1-6-2016
The hardest part of letting go is realizing there wasn't much left to hold on to

Posts: 481 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Northeast
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Funny  Posted: 9:21 PM, June 30th (Tuesday)

updated to here.
So much for checking weekly, that didnt happen!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
SMSA925
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Member # 43955
Default  Posted: 7:46 AM, July 7th (Tuesday)

Today is my 57th B'day. Yay. 🎂🎈🎉😢


Me: BS; b. 1958
Him: WH b. 1952
Together since 1982, Married 20yrs at DDay#1
DDay April 17, 2014; DD#2 2/15
Getting my ducks in a row

Posts: 700 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Phila. PA
SMSA925
Member
Member # 43955
Default  Posted: 7:46 AM, July 7th (Tuesday)

Today is my 57th B'day. Yay. 🎂🎈🎉😢


Me: BS; b. 1958
Him: WH b. 1952
Together since 1982, Married 20yrs at DDay#1
DDay April 17, 2014; DD#2 2/15
Getting my ducks in a row

Posts: 700 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Phila. PA
gggg
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Member # 48533
Default  Posted: 2:12 AM, July 9th (Thursday)

August 3.


Me: BW, I celebrate anniversaries of my 39th!
Him: WH, 63
Married: 30 years
D-day: 5/28/15,EA/PA
-------------
There is a difference between giving up and knowing when you've had enough.

Posts: 62 | Registered: Jul 2015 | From: Middle America
daybreaker
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Member # 48244
Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, July 18th (Saturday)

July 29th!


BW (me) 38
WH (him) 39 (deday76)
M 10/8/11 D 9/14/15
adopted my kids (12&14)
Dday #1 5/27/15 with TT
Dday #2 6/15/15 full truth on OW#2 but not the other A's
Dday #3 6/16/15 full truth, told about EA and OW#1
Tried R, couldn't forgive,

Posts: 276 | Registered: Jun 2015
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:25 PM, July 29th (Wednesday)

Updated to here.
Get ready for August birthdays!!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
SilverEagle
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Member # 47380
Default  Posted: 11:21 PM, July 31st (Friday)

October 17th!


Me:58 fBH
fWW:56
Married 24 years,LTA EA/PA
DDay:3/11/15
In R... but...
"Amidst the chaos and pains of Life, amazing joys can emerge that jolt us from the myopia of our struggles." Husburned

Posts: 733 | Registered: Mar 2015 | From: Okay. It's Tampa. Tampa, Florida
brokenyrs
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Member # 46554
Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, August 6th (Thursday)

Today..... the big 45


Me:BW
Him: WH
Too many Ddays to count and even more women

Posts: 532 | Registered: Jan 2015 | From: Canada
barryj
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Member # 48864
Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, August 8th (Saturday)

Mine is july 15th-just turned 30


6yrs in on june 23rd-IN,as in "in denial" or "indescribeable" or "inhumane" causing my state of "insanity" IN-a ltr i keep on breathing life into thru my wool mask,that i use to stay in position to feed my selfish glut

Posts: 14 | Registered: Aug 2015 | From: tacoma wa
burningmidnight
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Member # 48917
Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, August 12th (Wednesday)

June 2nd.


Per aspera ad astra

Posts: 45 | Registered: Aug 2015 | From: Virginia
mavis13simpson
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Member # 47394
Default  Posted: 9:24 PM, August 13th (Thursday)

Today. August 13


DDAY: Feb 9, 2015
ME: BSO 50
ASSHOLIO : XWSO 44
Together: 6 years
DD's (twins) 18: Mine not his.

“We are our own dragons as well as our own heroes, and we have to rescue ourselves from ourselves.”
-Tom Robbins


Posts: 381 | Registered: Apr 2015 | From: ohio
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, August 13th (Thursday)

[This message edited by risingfromashes at 9:46 PM, August 13th (Thursday)]


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.
After litigation, lawyers and courtrooms, I went back to school and recieved my Masters in Conflict Resolution. Now a Mediator helping people avoid what I went through!

Posts: 2115 | Registered: Mar 2004
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, August 13th (Thursday)

[This message edited by risingfromashes at 9:47 PM, August 13th (Thursday)]


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.
After litigation, lawyers and courtrooms, I went back to school and recieved my Masters in Conflict Resolution. Now a Mediator helping people avoid what I went through!

Posts: 2115 | Registered: Mar 2004
risingfromashes
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Member # 3903
Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, August 13th (Thursday)

My birthday is December 24th. A tough time of year to remember a birthday but would love and appreciate a post from my SI family!


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.
After litigation, lawyers and courtrooms, I went back to school and recieved my Masters in Conflict Resolution. Now a Mediator helping people avoid what I went through!

Posts: 2115 | Registered: Mar 2004
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, August 13th (Thursday)

[This message edited by risingfromashes at 9:48 PM, August 13th (Thursday)]


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.
After litigation, lawyers and courtrooms, I went back to school and recieved my Masters in Conflict Resolution. Now a Mediator helping people avoid what I went through!

Posts: 2115 | Registered: Mar 2004
risingfromashes
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Member # 3903
Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, August 13th (Thursday)

[This message edited by risingfromashes at 9:44 PM, August 13th (Thursday)]


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.
After litigation, lawyers and courtrooms, I went back to school and recieved my Masters in Conflict Resolution. Now a Mediator helping people avoid what I went through!

Posts: 2115 | Registered: Mar 2004
regretandshame
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Member # 48463
Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, August 15th (Saturday)

August 27 I'll be 30.


fWW:30 BH: 34 (brokenbuthealed)
XBf/OM: 33
DD: 9 DS 22m 12 weeks pregnant
Started Dating: February 2009
D-Day: August 13 2013
Reconciled: October 2013
Bought A House: April 2015
Getting Married: November 7 2015

Posts: 299 | Registered: Jul 2015
WowItsReallyReal
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Member # 46075
Default  Posted: 12:47 AM, August 19th (Wednesday)

#48 coming up on Sept.4!

Posts: 1801 | Registered: Dec 2014
UnlovedAndBroked
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Member # 47870
Default  Posted: 11:00 PM, August 20th (Thursday)

September 19.


"There are a million things in this universe you can have and there are a million things you can’t have. It’s no fun facing that, but that’s the way things are." - James T. Kirk

Posts: 757 | Registered: May 2015 | From: North Richland Hills, TX
Deirdre
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Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, August 22nd (Saturday)

January 17, I'll be 38 next year

Posts: 6 | Registered: Aug 2015
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, August 31st (Monday)

Okay, updated to here!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
1956
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Member # 33045
Default  Posted: 8:41 PM, September 5th (Saturday)

oct 10th for me

Posts: 99 | Registered: Aug 2011
HurtungWife123
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Member # 49496
Content  Posted: 5:09 PM, September 26th (Saturday)

My birthday is tomorrow, September 27. Thank you. This will give me something positive to look forward to on this year's birthday.


BW 49, WH 46, M 14 years, T 22 yrs
DS 25 (mine) DDs 11 and 13 (ours)
DDay 8/25/15, Headed for D
Working on R but keeping options open.
I take in stray animals, stray people, I'm kind of a sucker. Typo in name, meant HURTING

Posts: 34 | Registered: Sep 2015 | From: Pennsylvania
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 5:55 AM, October 8th (Thursday)

Updated!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
iamanidiot
Member
Member # 47257
Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, October 13th (Tuesday)

26 October, will be 58
Will also be be 10 months


BS = 57
WS = 55
2 LTA & 2 ONS 30+years ago
D-day 27/12/14
Coming to grips with it all
3 Adult children
Still married


Posts: 336 | Registered: Mar 2015 | From: South Africa
longtobecarefree
Member
Member # 48408
Default  Posted: 4:01 AM, October 18th (Sunday)

My 50th Birthday today. Had a lovely evening last night with my special friends and family who were there to support me. My husband made the most heart felt speech which I am so cross that I can't remember as I was concentrating so much not to cry.
This was my first evening out in a group setting since Dday and I felt safe and secure, knowing that my friends were there to support me.
Drank lots of wine and went to sleep easily for the first time in months- perhaps wine is the answer!!!


Me BW 49 Him WS 48
4 children
Together 15 years-thought he was my best friend
DD 01/15 Constant lies until 05/15
07/15 Another lie found out
Many more DD Days during that time
Massage parlours 25years
Many EAs via texts and calls
EA turned ON

Posts: 196 | Registered: Jun 2015 | From: UK
Yooper
Member
Member # 49913
Default  Posted: 10:26 PM, October 20th (Tuesday)

February 2


Me: BS (58)
Him: (57)
Married 24.5 years. Divorced.

Posts: 148 | Registered: Oct 2015 | From: Wisconsin
Bulldog63
Member
Member # 50113
Default  Posted: 5:41 PM, October 29th (Thursday)

01/01/1952, Yes I was #1 in Laramie Wyoming


New Policy
Ridged Flexability

Posts: 143 | Registered: Oct 2015 | From: Oregon
Itiswell2015
Member
Member # 49813
Default  Posted: 5:12 AM, October 31st (Saturday)

november 3


Me: BS (34)
Him: SA (35)
Married 5 years,2 Daughters (one is 4 months old)
dd#1 04/11 claimed ONS
dd#2 11/2014.Claimed ONS
dd#3 09/15: found out more than 40 women/prostitutes.
dd#4: 08/ 2017: saw old sextape from 2015 made before discovery

Posts: 150 | Registered: Oct 2015 | From: Middle East
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Cool  Posted: 6:13 AM, November 1st (Sunday)

Updated to here


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Frassati
Member
Member # 50213
Default  Posted: 7:36 AM, November 4th (Wednesday)

December 25th.


30-years-old. Married for almost 5 years. Together for 12.

Posts: 82 | Registered: Nov 2015 | From: DC
sparkysable
Member
Member # 3703
Default  Posted: 7:30 PM, November 8th (Sunday)

January 7th


BW - 40
DD - 7 years old
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.

Posts: 5491 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
EmbraceTheChange
Member
Member # 43247
Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, November 8th (Sunday)

November 13th. 21 as per usual. :)


Divorced and staying divorced.

Posts: 820 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Texas
Gettingoveritall
Member
Member # 46722
Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, November 9th (Monday)

February 4 here.


Me: BH 47
Her: WW 46 (Marcy70)
Married 22 years (1994)
4 kids.
Working on R.

Posts: 421 | Registered: Feb 2015 | From: United States
deepdarkocean
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Member # 48239
Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, November 9th (Monday)

December 25. Glad to see I'm not the only christmas baby around here.


Me:BW 40's
Him:WH 40's
DDay #1 12/2000 OEA became a 3month pa (rugswept everything)
DDay#2 3/25/15 pa with MUCH younger cow
DDay#3 3/28/15 discovered 3year long oea (over before discovery)
DDay#4 6/22/15 confessed to 2"sexchat only&

Posts: 43 | Registered: Jun 2015 | From: Northeast
Irishbrewer74
Member
Member # 48231
Default  Posted: 8:30 AM, November 12th (Thursday)

December 26...


Me: 42
Her: 41
Married:13 years (together close to 15)
Kids: two (8 and 5)
Separated since 8/1/15
Divorced: 02/08/16 (and loving it!!!)

Posts: 157 | Registered: Jun 2015 | From: Wisconsin
gottagetpastthis
Member
Member # 46645
Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, November 13th (Friday)

Coming up - November 17!


"What fresh Hell is this?" - Dorothy Parker
D-day: 6.1.14/ TT
Me: Betrayed
Him: WBF (Bipolar, NPD)
2 kitties
Living together in limbo

Posts: 223 | Registered: Feb 2015 | From: CA
Olivetree
Member
Member # 49704
Default  Posted: 3:32 AM, November 19th (Thursday)

April 24th

TY :)


Me: BW, Him: WH
D-Day: 5/27/2009
D-Day2: 9/22/2015
Together: 26yrs, Divorcing

Don't we all die someday and someday comes all too soon? What will you do with your own wild, glorious chance at this thing we call life -- Mary Oliver


Posts: 460 | Registered: Sep 2015 | From: UK
vixen13
Member
Member # 46149
Default  Posted: 11:30 AM, November 20th (Friday)

November 20


Me BS 31
Him WS 27
3 children, 1 together
Dday 1 Feb. 2013 (online, texts, caught before they could meet)
Dday 2 Oct. 2014 (affair in Aug. 2012)
Dday 3 June 2015 (polygraph said he was sexually assaulted)
Dday 4 Nov 2015 recovered texts that s

Posts: 229 | Registered: Dec 2014 | From: Canada
Done1423
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Member # 50444
Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, November 29th (Sunday)

April 27 1968


Me 47 bs
Him 48, ws
Found out 3/2014. LTA 7 years
Trickle truth all the day long

Posts: 32 | Registered: Nov 2015 | From: United States
Done1423
New Member
Member # 50444
Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, November 29th (Sunday)

April 27 1968


Me 47 bs
Him 48, ws
Found out 3/2014. LTA 7 years
Trickle truth all the day long

Posts: 32 | Registered: Nov 2015 | From: United States
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, December 4th (Friday)

Updated to here


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
risingfromashes
Member
Member # 3903
Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, December 4th (Friday)

Christmas eve baby here.


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.
After litigation, lawyers and courtrooms, I went back to school and recieved my Masters in Conflict Resolution. Now a Mediator helping people avoid what I went through!

Posts: 2115 | Registered: Mar 2004
BrokenAngelWings
Member
Member # 28790
Default  Posted: 12:07 AM, December 16th (Wednesday)

January 10th for me, I'll be 41!


BW (me) 42
WH 41
DD12, DS10, DD7, DS4
Married 21 years
D-Day 1 3/15/10 (denial)
D-Day 2 5/11/10
D-Day 3 6/8/10 (TT)
1-week OEA
1-1/2 yr. PA

I didn't do it, I just have to get through it.


Posts: 374 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: South Carolina
NotThe1stTime
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Member # 50197
Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, December 20th (Sunday)

Feb 2nd

Posts: 79 | Registered: Nov 2015
Moondancer
Member
Member # 50364
Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, January 8th (Friday)

February 12th.


WW me 34
BH 35
2 year off and on EA leading to PA
DDay 10/28/15
3 beautiful innocent girls 5,3,3
Married in 2005, but together since HS
Working hard on becoming the wife he deserves, striving to heal him so we can eventually R.

Posts: 160 | Registered: Nov 2015 | From: New York
ImGoneByTheDown
Member
Member # 49935
Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, January 10th (Sunday)

September 07th


ME: BH
Her: Remorseful STBXWW

And there I'll sit, and I'll admit
That I was only just a guest inside my skin
And by the dawn, I'll be gone
And I won't be holding on to anything again -
I'm just letting go


Posts: 270 | Registered: Oct 2015 | From: I'm from the West, not from the US
doggiediva
Member
Member # 33806
Default  Posted: 11:38 AM, January 23rd (Saturday)

Dec31st I will be 60


Don't tie your happiness to the tail of somebody else's kite

60 years young..


Posts: 3929 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Texas
husbandsinjail
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Default  Posted: 10:50 PM, January 25th (Monday)

January 26.

Posts: 4 | Registered: Sep 2015
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, January 31st (Sunday)

Updated to here!
( I can't believe its already February tomorrow! )


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Shatteredhearts
Member
Member # 51283
Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, February 21st (Sunday)

August 6


I don't need a life that's normal, that's way too far away. But something next to normal that would be okay.

BS (me):30
WH:33
Porn addiction for 14 years (found out day after we wed)
DDay1 EA 8/2
DDay2 EA, same COW 1/10


Posts: 78 | Registered: Jan 2016
MaryG
Member
Member # 48494
Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, February 28th (Sunday)

8 March.


25 years wasted on a lying, cheating whore-banger. But I have my DS who is a better man than XH could ever hope to be.

Posts: 257 | Registered: Jul 2015 | From: UK
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, February 29th (Monday)

Updating to here...


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
seachelles
Member
Member # 49868
Default  Posted: 11:54 AM, March 18th (Friday)

March 31. I will be 49!


Me- 50
Him-49
D-Day 9/17/15
5 year LTA with COW
2 dd's 23 and 20

Posts: 231 | Registered: Oct 2015 | From: United States
bbyg98
Member
Member # 51580
Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, March 23rd (Wednesday)

November 21st❤️


I ripped off the bandaid and I am free at last! :) Thank god & SI😋

Posts: 121 | Registered: Jan 2016 | From: USA
Jaybeecee
Member
Member # 50875
Default  Posted: 10:15 AM, April 12th (Tuesday)

April 20th


Me 42
WS 41
DS's 12 and 10
Married 17 years, together 21
"In love with a married OW"from 10/15 to present.
D-day 10/16/15, 11/01/15, 11/25, 11/28, 12/7, 1/10/16
No TT ever, found out everything myself
Divorcing

Posts: 330 | Registered: Dec 2015 | From: USA
NiceGuySF
Member
Member # 50244
Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, April 12th (Tuesday)

Mine just passed, but it was a good one, all things considered!

April 8th


“Closure is a myth but progress is not.” - Dr. Frank Ochberg
Me: BH (44), Her: STBXWW (41)
Son: awesome little guy (6)
DDay: October 2015
Separated March 2016, D slowly moving towards settlement

Posts: 465 | Registered: Nov 2015 | From: Bay Area
Skibunny
Member
Member # 52590
Default  Posted: 7:54 AM, April 14th (Thursday)

12 June.


Me: WW, 31, FOO issues, post natal depression, in IC
Him: BH, 31
Met 2004
Married 2011
EA/PA with COW 2015
DD Feb 2016

Posts: 82 | Registered: Apr 2016 | From: UK
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, April 16th (Saturday)

Updating up to here, today.

Welcome, new folks!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Hijabibutterfly
New Member
Member # 48364
Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, April 21st (Thursday)

June 1


BS (me) 27
WS 28 Sex Addict
2 children under the age of 3
Married 12/2008
Dday 2/17/2015
Affair with craiglist whore 4/2014-DDay
Status: confused

Posts: 27 | Registered: Jun 2015 | From: Houston, TX
Emotionalhell
Member
Member # 39902
Default  Posted: 3:10 PM, May 9th (Monday)

Mine is today. May 9th

Posts: 667 | Registered: Jul 2013
LadyLynn
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Member # 53214
Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, May 14th (Saturday)

June 15

Posts: 139 | Registered: May 2016 | From: Arkansas
MessyT
Member
Member # 51805
Default  Posted: 12:02 AM, May 25th (Wednesday)

August 24


Me BS 52
Him WS 65

2 DS

M 22 years

Giving it one last shot at R. Not sure if I'm fully in yet though. Watching and waiting mostly.

DDays: 2005, 11/2015, 2/2016 and 9/2016


Posts: 588 | Registered: Feb 2016
nothisfriend
Member
Member # 53171
Default  Posted: 9:56 AM, May 27th (Friday)

August 27


Me: BS 50 (52 now)
Him: WH 53 (55 now)
D-Day: 10/25/15
Married: 5/14/1988
One son, age 18 (19 now)
D final 9/13/16

Posts: 641 | Registered: May 2016 | From: Illinois
Furious1
Member
Member # 42970
Default  Posted: 7:10 AM, May 31st (Tuesday)

April 28th


BW (me): 43 WH (him): 51
3 adult kids (his, mine, and ours)
D-day: 10/4/13. Married 21 years. Numerous A's spanning 19 years and a 11 year PA with my sister. A went underground for a year after D-day. Polygraph on 1/11/17. He passed.

Posts: 6668 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: United States
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, May 31st (Tuesday)

Updating


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
dreamlife
Member
Member # 8142
Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, June 8th (Wednesday)

July 18th.


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25908 | Registered: Sep 2005
myownbestfriend
New Member
Member # 53513
Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, June 9th (Thursday)

June 24


BW (me) 29 WH (him) 34 DD 6yo
Met in 2006. Married in 2010
DDay1: 12/13 (OW1-my XBFF. Cheated 3x in 09 before marriage, while I was pregnant)
DDay2: 2/15 (OW2-coworker, 35 w/ no kids and now no husband, thanks to me. Cheated 1x 10/14)
Both PAs

Posts: 24 | Registered: Jun 2016
1brokengirl
Member
Member # 53324
Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, June 10th (Friday)

July 3


Let there be light at the end of the tunnel. I think i can see it

Posts: 193 | Registered: May 2016 | From: Australia
wisterya
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Member # 52454
Default  Posted: 11:17 AM, June 15th (Wednesday)

February 9th. :)


Me: F, MH, 38 EA/PA 9/2013-10/2013
Him: MH, 33 Many EA/PA 2009-2015
TT started 9/24/2015
Dday for both of us on 3/10/2016
Found out about a few more past EAs/sexting 4/2016.
Huge bump hit 7/12/2016. Lost a 'friend'.

Posts: 49 | Registered: Mar 2016 | From: PA
Esteban
Member
Member # 53606
Default  Posted: 7:12 AM, June 29th (Wednesday)

Novemeber 11th


You come first. Love and respect yourself.

Posts: 220 | Registered: Jun 2016 | From: Buenos Aires
summerdowling87
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Member # 46254
Default  Posted: 11:21 PM, July 7th (Thursday)

November baby 11-11


You deserve the truth.

Posts: 226 | Registered: Jan 2015 | From: Windy City
TheDarkestTime
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Member # 45104
Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, July 15th (Friday)

October 22. 2011

Posts: 207 | Registered: Oct 2014
HearMe
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Member # 52786
Default  Posted: 2:46 AM, July 19th (Tuesday)

July 19 here

Posts: 226 | Registered: Apr 2016 | From: SoCal
downtownblues
New Member
Member # 45881
Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, July 26th (Tuesday)

Downtownblues

July 13th


Posts: 25 | Registered: Dec 2014 | From: london ontario
GennyA
Member
Member # 53576
Default  Posted: 8:01 AM, July 27th (Wednesday)

January 22


BS: me 49
WH: him 49
Together 21yrs
2 amazing young men 17 and 20
DDay Apr 5, 2016
Serial cheater over 21 yrs together. Trying to R. One day at a time.

Posts: 174 | Registered: Jun 2016 | From: Canada
Leilehua
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Member # 50172
Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, July 30th (Saturday)

September 22


Live Aloha!

Posts: 41 | Registered: Nov 2015 | From: California
Leilehua
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Member # 50172
Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, July 30th (Saturday)

September 22


Live Aloha!

Posts: 41 | Registered: Nov 2015 | From: California
HurtNupset
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Member # 54002
Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, July 30th (Saturday)

April 9th..Aries baby!!

Posts: 21 | Registered: Jul 2016 | From: California
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, August 1st (Monday)

UPdated


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Jadore
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Member # 54577
Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, August 10th (Wednesday)

4 of june

Posts: 7 | Registered: Aug 2016 | From: Brisbane
Jadore
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Member # 54577
Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, August 10th (Wednesday)

4 of june

Posts: 7 | Registered: Aug 2016 | From: Brisbane
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, August 31st (Wednesday)

Updated to here!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, August 31st (Wednesday)

Updated to here!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Wool94
Member
Member # 53300
Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, September 1st (Thursday)

October 20


D-Day #1: April 7, 2016
D-Day #2: May 21, 2016
D-Day #3: June 7, 2016
Her:WW (amn8r) 1981
Son 2006
Daughter 2009

"God not only loves you, but He actually likes you. "-Stephen Hooks

I edit because mistakes on my phone drive me crazy!


Posts: 2092 | Registered: May 2016 | From: Roll Tide Country
StrongerThan
Member
Member # 52086
Default  Posted: 9:53 AM, September 3rd (Saturday)

I know this is spectacular timing; my birthday is September 2nd.
Yesterday. Lol


Not my circus, not my monkeys

Posts: 126 | Registered: Mar 2016
sicatrose
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Member # 52243
Default  Posted: 1:24 AM, September 11th (Sunday)

October 6


Better to be hurt by truth, than comforted with a lie.

Posts: 110 | Registered: Mar 2016 | From: United States
Starsurges
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Member # 55112
Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, September 12th (Monday)

My birthday is November 4th :)

Posts: 37 | Registered: Sep 2016 | From: GA
RoburCordis
Member
Member # 55218
Default  Posted: 4:01 PM, September 29th (Thursday)

July 17th!!


Me: BH 40
WW: 37
DD: Which one?
Separated and rebuilding my life.

'I’ve learned that life is one crushing defeat after another until you just wish Flanders was dead' - Homer Simpson.


Posts: 93 | Registered: Sep 2016 | From: Australia
AllButGone
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Member # 53847
Default  Posted: 4:34 AM, October 2nd (Sunday)

May 28th!


Me- BS 43
Him- WS 40
12 years
1st DD- Spring of 2009 and 5 years into our relationship
Subsequent DDs- I'm not good with dates and was still reeling from the first DD. Nothing but TT except for one.

Posts: 11 | Registered: Jun 2016
18yearsgone
Member
Member # 54809
Default  Posted: 10:32 PM, October 7th (Friday)

My birthday is tomorrow - oct 8!
47 and in my late 40s!


Me - 47
WH - 46
M - 18 years / together 22
Husband passed away suddenly in February.
Working on trust and betrayal stuff on my own now.
Dday 8/18 LTA online / sexting (18 months of secrets)
PA unknown

Posts: 197 | Registered: Aug 2016
Unhinged
Member
Member # 47977
Default  Posted: 10:05 PM, October 15th (Saturday)

March 2


Tomorrow is more important than yesterday.
(I edit often for clarity & grammar)

Posts: 3500 | Registered: May 2015 | From: Colorado
Isthereanyhope
Member
Member # 53948
Default  Posted: 9:35 PM, October 16th (Sunday)

October 29!


Me- MH
Him- MH
Together 20 years (married 18)
Divorced!!!

Posts: 199 | Registered: Jul 2016
TrustGone
Guide
Member # 36654
Default  Posted: 9:40 AM, October 25th (Tuesday)

Today!!!!! Happy Birthday to me!!!!


BS-55 XWH#2-No longer my monkey
M-11yrs LTA-5yrs Divorced 8/15
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"

Posts: 9221 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Cool  Posted: 10:45 PM, November 1st (Tuesday)

Updated to here!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
dejavu2
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Member # 54508
Default  Posted: 12:05 AM, November 3rd (Thursday)

November 10th I'll be 45. Right around the corner...ugh.

Posts: 208 | Registered: Aug 2016
GuyInPain
Member
Member # 55899
Default  Posted: 4:25 PM, November 3rd (Thursday)

August 7


GuyInPain

Me: BH, still very married to fWW & committed to her 'till death us do part'
DD1: 1983, EA, followed by TT & MC
DD2: 1999, original EA revealed as PA, followed by more TT & no MC
DD3: 2016, TT ended, now FT; R underway + my I


Posts: 57 | Registered: Nov 2016
GeoHeart
Member
Member # 55800
Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, November 6th (Sunday)

December 25


D-day: August 2016
Status: Trying R

Posts: 51 | Registered: Oct 2016
DixieDiamondfly
Member
Member # 34830
Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, November 22nd (Tuesday)

December 1st


BS: Me, 56 yrs. young
XWS: Him, 60 yo
KIDS: 33 yo son, 31 yo son, 25 yo daughter...and three wonderful grandsons and a beautiful granddaughter.
Married 34 yrs.
D-Day #1: 2/8/12
D-Day #2: 7/16/2012
D-Day #3: 3/29/2015
Divorced!

Posts: 182 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Gulf Coast
Lnlygirl1698
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Member # 55706
Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, November 27th (Sunday)

September 19


BW Me 48
WH 50
D-Day 5/16/16
OW Frmr HS GF
EA 1-2/2016 to 8/2016
M 18y tgthr 20y
2 DD's 17 & 15
Still in DEEP PAIN; not sure where the Winds will take me. Whether I get caught in the trees or I'm soaring to the clouds; I will be free.

Posts: 23 | Registered: Oct 2016 | From: Michigan
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 7:22 AM, December 3rd (Saturday)

Updating!


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
longforgotten
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Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, December 14th (Wednesday)

My birthday is very hard for people to remember. Because it's so ordinary. July 4th.

Posts: 866 | Registered: Aug 2015 | From: West Virginia
RisingFromTheAshes
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Member # 56142
Default  Posted: 8:41 AM, December 16th (Friday)

My bday is September 10. I'm already dreading it b/c pa started on the 9th. Oye.


You brought the flames and you put me through hell
I had to learn how to fight for myself
And we both know all the truth I could tell
I'll just say this is "I wish you farewell"

Posts: 150 | Registered: Nov 2016 | From: Earth
ont1throw
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Member # 56534
Default  Posted: 11:40 PM, December 27th (Tuesday)

December 6 ... it was fun as I didn't know yet


Me: M 41
WW: W38
Together 15 years, Married for 12
3 Kids under 10
DDay: Late Dec 2016
Affair: 11 months with COW, EA and then PA

Posts: 41 | Registered: Dec 2016
atalosss
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Member # 47882
Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, January 1st (Sunday)

Probably to late for an update but I feel like celebrating this year 🙌!

January 5th


"You can't ride two horses with one ass" Channel66

Posts: 1098 | Registered: May 2015 | From: canada
Backslider
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Member # 54066
Default  Posted: 4:15 PM, January 7th (Saturday)

December 30


Me - BW 57, WH 58, OW 65 ha
M 28 years, D day 1/2017
One of us is working on the D paperwork, the other is dragging his heels "in case things don't work out." Spare me, I ain't no Plan B woman!

Posts: 114 | Registered: Jul 2016 | From: California
tessthemess
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Member # 56395
Default  Posted: 7:58 AM, January 8th (Sunday)

August 27, I'm coming up on 35!


FBW, 35. H, 35.
EA confirmed Nov. '16, PA exposed Dec 11, 2016.
Rollercoaster R, working on converting to a train ride or getting off if unfeasible.
"It's a good life if you don't weaken." - Gord Downie

Posts: 1250 | Registered: Dec 2016 | From: The Great White North
pink carnation
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Member # 34310
Default  Posted: 1:32 AM, January 10th (Tuesday)

Mine is this Sunday, January 15!!!


2010 was Ddays galore and my INDEPENDENCE! Happily remarried to someone else!

Someone who cannot clearly choose you, is not worth you time or your tears.

Don't pass up on the chance on a do over, when it is handed to you on a silver


Posts: 2871 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: TX
Trippd
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Member # 56128
Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, January 10th (Tuesday)

April 4.


Me: BS; Him:XWF (jerkwad); DS: 4yo
Together 7 years; current in home separation.
Dday: 11/21/16; 3 yrs of cyber & phys hookups

Posts: 378 | Registered: Nov 2016 | From: California
AppleGirl
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Member # 50791
Default  Posted: 7:47 PM, January 12th (Thursday)

January 17th. Turning a fabulous 50 in 5 short days!


BS me -50+, fWH - 50+
DDay fall 2015, Reconciling one day at a time
"You express the truth of your character with the choice of your actions" - unknown
"Everyone deserves the chance to fly..."

Posts: 183 | Registered: Dec 2015
Thissucks5678
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Member # 54019
Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, January 12th (Thursday)

June 12:)


DDay: 6/2016
Me: BW Him: WH
Status: Watching and Waiting

"If a Relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it."


Posts: 996 | Registered: Jul 2016
TamBak
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Member # 56848
Default  Posted: 5:36 AM, January 13th (Friday)

My birthday is January 25th
just found out on the 10th
Also Anniversary on the 30th
So looking to be an interesting month.

[This message edited by TamBak at 5:38 AM, January 13th (Friday)]


Posts: 61 | Registered: Jan 2017 | From: Saskatchewan
wanted2believe
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Member # 55889
Default  Posted: 8:30 AM, January 13th (Friday)

February 12th


"Those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing."

Posts: 488 | Registered: Nov 2016 | From: USA
shellbean
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Member # 56536
Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, January 14th (Saturday)

July 7th


Me: BW/50 Him: WH/46
Together 24 years, M 16 years
DS 14 Adult Son 26 (previous M)
Dday1: 11/3/16, DDay2 11/1/17
9 mo A '96-'97, 15 mo A Aug. '15-Nov.'16 Same AP
"Fair is standing in monkey shit, while eating cotton candy"

Posts: 706 | Registered: Dec 2016 | From: Michigan
michelles
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Member # 49451
Default  Posted: 9:18 AM, January 16th (Monday)

November 21


ME: 37 years
WS: 38 years
Together: 7 years
separated 31st May 2015

DDAY: 05/15/2015; 05/30/2015


Posts: 12 | Registered: Sep 2015
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, January 16th (Monday)

Updating my notes today.


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Skan
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Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, January 16th (Monday)

August 1. A Leo, through and through!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 10189 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
HTheIs
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Member # 56058
Default  Posted: 10:20 AM, January 17th (Tuesday)

April 18th - Yay Aries! (though I know technically I'm on the cusp LOL)


D-Day 11-8-16
Together 6 years in 2/2017
Engaged since 2/2014
Me:33
WF:28
2 beautiful kids, ages 2 and 1

Posts: 99 | Registered: Nov 2016 | From: Maryland
Neznayou
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Member # 40654
Default  Posted: 11:53 AM, January 17th (Tuesday)

May 25. Gemini. Emeralds. Lilly of the Valley. Memorial Day weekend and the "official" beginning of summer.


Him: BH 1969
Me: WW 1973

Wedding: April 9, 1994

Son: 1998 (college freshman)
Son: 2002 (high school freshman)

Caught at AP's house: 10 Aug 2012

I do not have it all together.


Posts: 862 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Far, far away
Candyman66
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Member # 52535
Default  Posted: 2:28 PM, January 17th (Tuesday)

6 Sept 1949

Posts: 457 | Registered: Mar 2016 | From: SoCal
OrdinaryDude
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Member # 55676
Default  Posted: 12:47 AM, January 18th (Wednesday)

December 28th...I just turned the big Five - Oh!


Me - BH 50
Her - WW 50
Married 30 years, 2 adult kids
(1989) PA Rug-Swept
(2002) EA Rug-Swept
(2016) EA *Getting Out Of Infidelity*

**Working at Reconciling**


Posts: 2389 | Registered: Oct 2016 | From: The Big Easy
CheatedOn34
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Member # 56967
Default  Posted: 11:09 PM, January 18th (Wednesday)

November 17. I'll be turning the double nickel!

Just found this site; wish I had found it before. D-day 1 year anniversary coming up.


Posts: 1 | Registered: Jan 2017 | From: TN
HaggisBuff
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Default  Posted: 9:10 PM, January 27th (Friday)

HaggisBuff 7/13

Posts: 1 | Registered: Jan 2017 | From: Salt Lake City
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Cool  Posted: 6:53 PM, January 31st (Tuesday)

Updated to here.


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Numis67
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Member # 57209
Default  Posted: 11:05 PM, January 31st (Tuesday)

May 17th


Me: BH
D-Day 1: May, 2006
D-Day 2: November, 2016
Divorce is imminent.
-------------------------
"The trust of the innocent is the liar's most useful tool" - Stephen King

Posts: 64 | Registered: Jan 2017 | From: Missouri
ShovelGal
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Member # 57020
Default  Posted: 10:32 PM, February 1st (Wednesday)

February 2nd...just realized its tomorrow lol.


“If one dream should fall and break into a thousand pieces, never be afraid to pick one of those pieces up and begin again.”

The dream broke 3/29/16, still picking up the pieces


Posts: 178 | Registered: Jan 2017 | From: KS
trying2015
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Member # 48497
Default  Posted: 6:53 AM, February 4th (Saturday)

February 4th 1975...today!...lol


Me..MH.2011...6 encounters kissing/petting with old high school boyfriend Him..MH..LTA 15 mths with married COW
Him...2009 or 2010...3 week getting oral different COW
Together 15 years...married 9
2 amazing kids
My DDay..1/1/2015..his..1/3/2015

Posts: 91 | Registered: Jul 2015 | From: New York
Starboard
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Member # 55967
Default  Posted: 6:58 AM, February 4th (Saturday)

April 11

(And happy Bday trying2015!)


Are we there yet?

DDay July 2016


Posts: 181 | Registered: Nov 2016 | From: Northeastern US
Callmehappy
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Member # 57277
Default  Posted: 12:09 AM, February 16th (Thursday)

June 13 ( and I was born on a Friday)
Ain't I special?


Me: BW 58. Him: WH 58. WH diagnosed 3/16 Parkinson's/ Dementia Married 37 years 11 ONS / 2 brief affairs
Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life? - Mary Oliver

Posts: 101 | Registered: Feb 2017 | From: Pacific Northwest
Brokenhearted915
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Member # 54367
Default  Posted: 9:52 AM, February 19th (Sunday)

August 19

Posts: 15 | Registered: Jul 2016 | From: Pennsylvania
Sweetbutfoolish7
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Member # 57264
Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, February 26th (Sunday)

July 12 :)

Posts: 45 | Registered: Feb 2017 | From: Texas
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:41 PM, February 28th (Tuesday)

Added to here!

(March already?!)


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
RubixCubed
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Member # 51615
Default  Posted: 11:15 PM, March 10th (Friday)

March 27

Posts: 224 | Registered: Feb 2016
squid
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Member # 57624
Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, March 15th (Wednesday)

November 15. The big 5-0. Yeesh.


Me: BH
Her: WW
Married 17 years
3 awesome kids DD18, DS17, DS12
D-Day 1: 2-19-17 (6 week EA...so I thought)
DDay 2: 2-21-17 (TT revealed EA was PA)
4-7-17 NC Broken
More TT

Separated & Getting my ducks in a row...


Posts: 976 | Registered: Feb 2017 | From: Central Florida
Appletree
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Member # 40581
Default  Posted: 1:28 AM, March 17th (Friday)

I'm tomorrow!
Appletree March 17
St. Patrick's Day birthday! :)


Married 16 yrs
Husband PA 2013, EA Aug 2016 to Jan 2017 husband emotionally abusive
In house separation
2 kids,

Posts: 116 | Registered: Sep 2013
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:24 PM, March 31st (Friday)

Updated


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
MissDiana
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Member # 58043
Funny  Posted: 1:51 PM, April 6th (Thursday)

New here ... birthday was April Fools Day!

Posts: 1 | Registered: Mar 2017
Lost8
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Member # 56985
Default  Posted: 9:10 PM, April 8th (Saturday)

September 17

Posts: 8 | Registered: Jan 2017 | From: Mn
happyplace
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Member # 56071
Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, April 9th (Sunday)

April 8..yesterday!

Posts: 331 | Registered: Nov 2016
BearlyBreathing
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Member # 55075
Default  Posted: 1:54 AM, April 14th (Friday)

April 14!


Me: BS 50!!
Him: WH. 60
D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA
Separated and Going for D. — should be done in 2017.

“I just wasn’t done lying, I guess”. WH


Posts: 680 | Registered: Sep 2016 | From: Northern CA
LilBlackCat
Member
Member # 57470
Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, April 19th (Wednesday)

Tomorrow April 20


At the beginning of the nightmare which was DDay 1: BS 43 (me), WW 37
18 M, 19 Together
4 Children, youngest is now 5.
D-Day #1 Jan. 2015
D-Day #2 March 2015
R attempted (was fake)
D-Day #3 Sept. 2015
D-Day #4 Sept. 2015 and currently in LTR

Posts: 563 | Registered: Feb 2017 | From: San Diego
Lost73
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Member # 57035
Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, April 29th (Saturday)

July 17


Me (BS) 44
HIM (WH) 50
Divorced 6/8/17
Too many D-Days to count 😪

Posts: 464 | Registered: Jan 2017 | From: Tennessee
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, April 29th (Saturday)

Updated to here


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
TearDownTheWall
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Member # 57835
Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, April 30th (Sunday)

May 6


Me: 39 MH
BW: 37 MH
DDay: 8/28/16

First, you have to fix yourself!

R is going very well, much better than I could have ever asked for, which shows how amazing she is as a person.


Posts: 354 | Registered: Oct 2016 | From: Rocky Mountains
janewilliams
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Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, May 2nd (Tuesday)

No soliciting.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 7:57 AM, May 2nd (Tuesday)]


Posts: 25 | Registered: May 2017
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, May 6th (Saturday)

Updated to here.


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
runner128
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Member # 58401
Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, May 11th (Thursday)

june 29

Posts: 12 | Registered: Apr 2017
thatbpguy
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Member # 58540
Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, May 16th (Tuesday)

Feb 30th


ME: BH
Her: WW
DDay 1, R; DDay 2, R; DDay 3, I left
Divorced
Remarried to a wonderful woman

"There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." C.S. Lewis

As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly...


Posts: 2053 | Registered: May 2017 | From: Vancouver, WA
ALostOne
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Default  Posted: 8:29 AM, May 27th (Saturday)

June 2

Posts: 6 | Registered: May 2017
Chrysalis
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Member # 54420
Default  Posted: 11:26 PM, May 31st (Wednesday)

Feb 16


Me: BW (50)
WH (53): Way too many women to count (ONS, multiple LTAs)
Together 22 years, married 18
Separated late 2014

Posts: 1 | Registered: Jul 2016 | From: Toronto
theaterguy
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Member # 58778
Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, June 1st (Thursday)

November 8th


Head held high...Mistakes don't define us, how we handle them does.

Posts: 244 | Registered: May 2017 | From: Washington
Adlham
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Member # 53358
Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, June 1st (Thursday)

June 20th


If you want a happy ending, that depends, of course, on where you stop your story ~Orson Welles
Setting fire to my insides for fun

Posts: 913 | Registered: May 2016 | From: Pacific Northwest!
CharliB
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Member # 59007
Default  Posted: 8:40 PM, June 8th (Thursday)

June 25th


The truth doesn't cost you anything but a lie could cost you everything

Posts: 424 | Registered: May 2017
WhatsRight
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Member # 35417
Default  Posted: 3:04 AM, June 10th (Saturday)

Also. June 25. 😊

June babies are the sweetest! 😎

[This message edited by WhatsRight at 3:04 AM, June 10th (Saturday)]


"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt

I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy


Posts: 4619 | Registered: Apr 2012
4kids
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Member # 57436
Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, June 24th (Saturday)

🎂 is on January 2nd. ☺❤

Posts: 1344 | Registered: Feb 2017 | From: Canada
theakronborg
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Member # 55770
Default  Posted: 6:40 PM, June 26th (Monday)

July 2


Me (call me Thea): BW - 40s
WH - 40s
2 teens
M 18 years at DDay Aug 2016
Currently S, mediating D

Posts: 831 | Registered: Oct 2016 | From: So Cal
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, July 5th (Wednesday)

Updated. Sorry it took so long.


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
MrsM
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Member # 59223
Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, July 25th (Tuesday)

December 26


BS: 34
WH:39
2 children together 13 years married 6
Dday Oct 2, 2016 (1 day before having last child)

Posts: 41 | Registered: Jun 2017 | From: Nj
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 10:25 PM, July 31st (Monday)

Added


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
MysteryM0802
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Member # 59969
Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, August 6th (Sunday)

This is a lovely idea.

My birthday is 8th February...typical hippy Aquarius

I'll be 34 next year and hopefully in a much better place.


Posts: 26 | Registered: Aug 2017 | From: England
Twicecrushed
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Member # 50258
Default  Posted: 4:39 PM, August 8th (Tuesday)

August 23rd will be my 50th or as DDs point out often that I will be half a century old.


Me-BH 50
The Princess-WW 47
Married 23 years
2 DDs 14 and 11
1st DDday June 1998 - 2.5 year PA
2nd DDay April 2015 - 3 month PA
False R for 13 months the A never ended, just deep underground.
Divorced 8-31-2017

Posts: 158 | Registered: Nov 2015 | From: Louisiana
CantSleepCantEat
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Member # 59577
Default  Posted: 11:36 PM, September 12th (Tuesday)

January 17


"All good is hard, all evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy."

Me: WW, 32
BH: 32
A: 6/2016 - 6/2017
AP: COW, MM
Married 3 years, together 13
DDay: 6/30/17


Posts: 269 | Registered: Jul 2017 | From: CA
lostinoklahoma
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Member # 59646
Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, September 27th (Wednesday)

April 5th I will be 51


Me-BS-50
WW-45
5 PA (one with a female) since 2007. Sexting with about 15 guys since 2007.
1 DS 26, 1 DD 24
1 DGD born 5/22/17
Married 20 years
Together 26 years
Dday 5/30/17

Posts: 81 | Registered: Jul 2017 | From: Oklahoma
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, October 5th (Thursday)

Updated to here


{Him}FBH - 45 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 46
2 kids: 10 & 15
Reconciled :)
*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

Posts: 12027 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Leamop
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Member # 59859
Default  Posted: 9:07 AM, November 18th (Saturday)

My birthday is November 30th
His A had just slipped into the physical abyss a few days before, and my birthday feels very tainted now.

Posts: 41 | Registered: Jul 2017
SonyaR
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Member # 61486
Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, November 21st (Tuesday)

June 27th - I'll be 39


Me: 38 BS
Him:38 STBXWH
Married only 3 years. No kids.
Dday: There were multiple. Last in August 2016
Currently S with plan to D

Posts: 86 | Registered: Nov 2017 | From: Canada
steadychevy
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Member # 42608
Default  Posted: 3:11 PM, November 25th (Saturday)

I's getting close to 4 years that I've been on SI. I only came to see what this thread was just now. So now I know how the Birthday Greetings come about.

Mine: May 4, 1951


BH(me)66; WW 60; M 40 yrs
DDay1-01/09/13;DDay2-26/10/13;DDay3-19/12/13;DDay4-21/01/14
LTA-09/02-06/06? OM - COW
"dates" w/3 lovers post engagement;ONS w/stranger post commitment, lies, lies, lies
Separated 23/09/2017

Posts: 2098 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Canada
BlueNC
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Member # 61468
Default  Posted: 5:30 AM, December 5th (Tuesday)

December 16th

Posts: 22 | Registered: Nov 2017
undertherug
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Default  Posted: 4:47 AM, December 6th (Wednesday)

June 9

Posts: 757 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: United States
Topic Posts: 503