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BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:07 PM, October 4th (Thursday)

Okay if you are new or if you're old, please share your birthday with us so we can give you a proper cake in Fun and Games. Birthday cakes get posted the evening before your special day so that you can wake up to wonderful cake for breakfast.
****If you have not posted at SI in the 2 months prior to your birthday...your birthday will not be posted in Fun and Games and you will be removed from the list...****

****The Birthday List is updated once a month. I will post on this thread when it has been updated.****
Thanks for your understanding.


JANUARY

01 Mangled Heart
01 Alex CR
01 iwillNOT
02 Weatherly
02 fraeuken
03 intheblinkofaney
04 booger bear
04 Brandon808
05 Wodnships
06 LoveActually
06 Wayflost
07 dirk pitt
07 hurting2much
07 33years
07 Guss
08 silverhopes
08 Flatlined123
08 plainsong
09 Not.the.Big.Easy
15 Whoa
11 isthismynewlife
18 bluelady
21 ajsmom
24 What2do
25 cantlivewithouth
27 k94ever
28 soverybetrayed
29 Want2help
29 Secrets Kept
31 metamorphisis
31 Marathonmumof4

FEBRUARY

01 mommy22
02 mhca
03 nowiknow23
04 Mom4ever
06 trying to smile
06 pass
07 travels
07 Tesa
14 Lowlow
16 HUFI-PUFI
16 unbreak_my_heart
18 WarehouseGuy
18 CATransplant
18 ImStillwaiting
19 jackie89
20 Rampage0409
21 gypsybird87
22 joannie
22 LuvsMeLuvsMeNot
23 20WrongsVs1
24 cinnamongurl
26 foxglove
26 little turtle
26 Mike26
26 sullymeishadomi
28 gardenparty
28 angryorsad
29 leapyearbaby

MARCH

01 brknheartcanada
02 Mama_of_3_Kids
05 realgood2u
08 sadone29
12 scared&stronger
13 Drowninginitall
13 sandrac
14 SecondHelping
15 Ashland13
16 41andthankful
16 Jomarion
19 jackie89
19 Bebba1171
20 crushedinpa
21 BMC0415
23 Deeply Scared
23 WastedTime12
24 Bobbi_sue
25 deeplysad
27 crazycatlady
29 LAFA
31 Crumbled324
31 matthesax
31 earthangel

APRIL

02 poopylala
03 CLRhope4her
03 still2suspicious
03 inNOoutNOinNOout
04 Crumbled324
05 Sparkle0504
06 looking forward
17 lorilook
17 cantbelieve
17 GiveTimeTime
20 globetrotter
20 Rampage0409
22 brohl5
22 mozi
26 sadcat
26 pizzalover
27 HenryIIX
28 deena
28 cass
29 Lalagirl


MAY
01 turtlehead
01 sunsetslost
02 silentscream13
02 Allornothing
03 SandAway
05 Reflective
06 NiagaraLax15
06 Want2babettrme
07 Too_Trusting
11 Eranda
14 WhiteWolfWinning
16 Edie
16 caregiver9000
17 GabyBaby
19 Listeningclosely
19 worried_lady
19 scaredyKat
20 Trying2Survive1
22 invictus
22 Jrazz
23 Kalleigh
23 lieshurt
23 Guinness23
24 bufffalo
27 mainlyinpain
29 incredulous
30 twisted
31 itainteasy


JUNE

01 movingforward777
01 neverendinghurt
04 fourever
06 5454real
09 painpaingoaway
09 nme1
10 serious
10 WalkinOnEggshelz
12 lordhasaplan?
13 Dagny07
17 gma56
17 NorthernDark
19 JanetS
21 lilies21
22 lost41
22 philly172
24 okaynow
24 purplejacket4
25 curiouswiz
25 bitterandlost
25 FightingBack
26 imwideawake
28 miadianna
29 thebighurt

JULY

01 BritChick
05 ladyvorkosigan
06 stretch13
07 traditoperanni
09 n1028
12 ItllGetBetter
13 TrustedHer
13 downtownblues
14 BitterlyCynical
15 UKgirl
16 cantbelieve
16 deceivedguy
18 luvbug0915
18 IrishLass518
19 jo2love
19 TheHardWay
19 inhishands55
20 Mommato4
20 Tatika80
21 inthedark14
22 Jpapageorge
23 sisoon
24 Ellejay
25 wifehad5
25 epiphany2006
26 SweetheartVixen
26 Violated
28 MissesJai
29 jrc1963


AUGUST
01 MrsZ
01 Catwoman
01 Skan
02 PiQue
02 stillinshockx2
03 NWfleur
04 ash79
05 mel88
05 stupidstupidme
05 mellie99
05 Angeles85
06 deathbybetrayal
08 Sad in AZ
08 confused615
08 faithfool
09 UnhappyOhio
11 Ascendant
12 amitheow
12 Mochagurl
13 woundedby2
15 MovingUpward
17 Laura28
17 beachgirl29
19 Crushed1
22 achingheart
23 cryingdaily
23 phoenixrivers
23 Kajem
24 Naive Again
24 honesttoafault
25 meaniemouse
27 Whoami15
28 annb
31 juki
31 dindy

SEPTEMBER

04 Confused Dad (Do not delete, the birthday thread was his baby to begin with.)
04 wanauld
04 foreverchanged61
05 Unagie
06 Macsecond
07 Junebug0525
09 ISPIFFD
10 BrokenRoad
11 Cali123
13 lostsuol
13 sharim
15 click4it
15 tired girl
15 spond
15 LostSamurai
15 outtanowhere
16 SoHappyNow
16 welcome14
17 painfulpast
18 sudra
20 Didact
21 HeavyE
21 sunfish
23 unarmbears
23 areyoukidding
23 momentintime
23 Dawn58
23 krsplat
24 Mack9512
26 Fallen
26 Jessy1501
27 Kodi
27 damncutekitty
29 two2muchpain
30 aLadypilot
30 isadora
30 heartbroken30
30 Dazed In Dixie


OCTOBER

01 awesomedamaged
04 TrulyReconciled
05 trustedg
06 Doubleblame
06 childofcheater
07 need_hope
07 Scubadoo
07 shygirl07
07 Neverwudaguessed
08 Angelstar5
10 lynnm1947
10 AFrayedKnot
12 foggedin
12 sadtoo
12 FoggedIn
14 cantaccept
15 avicarswife
19 brokenpromise
21 EvenKeel
21 DCP21
22 HurtYetHealing
23 Riskybusiness
25 imagoodwitch
30 lingerdog
30 WPaul
31 Chrysalis123

NOVEMBER
02 AmSoDone
03 momoffive
03 velvethammer
04 luvedmypbear
09 BlueIris
10 TheRealDeal
11 gahurts
12 MovingAhead
12 yewtree
12 RippedSoul
13 yoshi7268
15 crushedtulips
15 ItHappened2Me2
16 ruby44
18 GettingHappy
18 openedupmyeyes
19 befuddledhubbie
20 Luv2Fleamarket
20 Hotmama
21 SurprisinglyOkay
21 simplydevastated
22 wildbananas
23 influx
23 SoLostStillNumb
24 InnerLight
25 Giselle8
26 sportsfan
26 betrayed13yrs
28 katiej
30 trustagain

DECEMBER

01 teach5
01 knightsbff
02 She-Ra
04 Nothanks
04 strongerdaybyday
05 steadfast1973
05 amomof4
07 brokensunflower
08 SerJR
08 devasted30
09 MadeOfScars
10 ThoughtIKnewYa
11 sad12008
13 njgal480
16 Snapdragon
17 GotPlayed
17 Lola2kids
17 forbetterorworse
18 broken1873
18 Hopeful74
18 Exit Wounds
19 MakingLemonade
20 solus sto
22 Authenticnow
24 Tred
25 whatjusthappened
26 FeelsSoRight
27 hurtbs
27 HFSSC
27 trumanshow
27 SadieMae
29 punky
30 Waiting4Daylite
31 bdb84

[This message edited by BrokenRoad at 9:26 PM, June 30th (Tuesday)]


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
UR_AN_IDIOT
Member
Member # 18764
Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, October 4th (Thursday)

Bump


Me:BW 49
FWH: 51
DS: 22
DD: 24

Married 25 years
DD 23 DS 21
Reconciled


Posts: 12696 | Registered: Mar 2008
Jrazz
Moderator
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 11:59 PM, October 4th (Thursday)

Thank you so much for doing this, BR!


"When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro." Hunter S. Thompson

Posts: 24428 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
HurtYetHealing
Member
Member # 34376
Default  Posted: 6:55 AM, October 5th (Friday)

October 22nd I'll be 32


Me-34 BW, Him-36 fWH
5 amazing children
Dday: December 2, 2011
M: 14 years(13@JFO), together for 18 (17@JFO) Status: Roller coaster of R
It takes a heart to forgive, and a brain to move on.

Posts: 706 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
lynnm1947
Member
Member # 15300
Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, October 5th (Friday)

October 10 and I will still be officially OLD: 66.

[This message edited by lynnm1947 at 7:47 AM, May 1st (Wednesday)]


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 8145 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
click4it
Member
Member # 209
Default  Posted: 2:19 PM, October 5th (Friday)

Sept 15. I used to be on the old birthday thread, but I'm so old that I fell off.


Me: 42
Two boys: 18 and 15
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25680 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, October 5th (Friday)


Ok the dates here were updated....checking other birthday threads just in case....

whatnow8, avicarswife, and angryorsad, I've added you three as well.

[This message edited by BrokenRoad at 10:24 PM, October 5th (Friday)]


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
OnAnIsland
Member
Member # 34319
Default  Posted: 1:29 AM, October 6th (Saturday)

December 7


D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013

Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful sons

You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou


Posts: 1486 | Registered: Dec 2011
silverhopes
Member
Member # 32753
Default  Posted: 11:53 AM, October 6th (Saturday)

Mine is January 8th.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 4104 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
AFrayedKnot
Member
Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 6:18 AM, October 9th (Tuesday)

October 10th


BS 40
fWS 37 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2822 | Registered: Aug 2012
openedupmyeyes
Member
Member # 27871
Happy  Posted: 6:20 AM, October 9th (Tuesday)

November 18th here!


Me:55 BS
Him:55 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
Years married:37
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.

Posts: 770 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: The Great State of Texas
confusedkitty
Member
Member # 33824
Default  Posted: 6:49 AM, October 9th (Tuesday)

March 1st

Posts: 98 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Louisiana
foreverchanged61
Member
Member # 36931
Default  Posted: 7:07 AM, October 9th (Tuesday)

September 4th, I have lots of company!


me:BS-41
Him:WS-41
Married 18 years
DS-16
DD-14
D-Day 11/2010
Trying hard at R
OW 29 (27 then) SAHM pure white trash

Posts: 60 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: South Carolina
Tred
Member
Member # 34086
Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, October 9th (Tuesday)

Christmas Eve. Yes, it sucks.


Married: 18 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 4525 | Registered: Dec 2011
soverybetrayed
Member
Member # 32948
Default  Posted: 5:08 PM, October 9th (Tuesday)

October 28th


Me-53
DDay 10/16/2010 DDay2 5/22/2011
Divorced 8/23/2012
I will get stronger and better but no matter where he goes, there he is....

Posts: 1264 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Texas
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, October 9th (Tuesday)

OK, adding:

OnAnIsland
December 7

silverhopes
January 8th.

Chicho
October 10th

openedupmyeyes
November 18th

confusedkitty
March 1st

foreverchanged61
September 4th

Tred
Dec 24

soverybetrayed
oct 28

Thanks!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
tired girl
Member
Member # 28053
Default  Posted: 10:06 AM, October 10th (Wednesday)

Sept 15, just turned 44


Me 46 Him 46 Hardlessons DS 26,24,21
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

Posts: 5913 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: az
wifeno2
Member
Member # 31529
Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, October 10th (Wednesday)

January 13. I will be 45.


Me-BW (45)
Him-WS (42)
DS 19 (prior relationship)
DS-8
DDay #1- 10/22/2010 EA/PA with MOW coworker
Dday#2:11/17/2010 beginning secret emails with potential OW#2
DDay #3 11/22/2010 still seeing OW#1
Too many DD's to count: Now up to OW #6.

Posts: 696 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: the south
Angelstar5
Member
Member # 35276
Default  Posted: 2:04 PM, October 10th (Wednesday)

my birthday was Monday oct 8 :)


Me 47,WH 46 alcoholic/Married 25y
2 kids age 16 and 28
DDay #1-7/3/94 hooker, DDAY #2,2/10/12 found 100's of calls to a hooker gaslighting begins. DDay#3 3/26/12 proof/TT DDay#4 3/28/12 weekly sex with 2 hookers Dec-Feb. Several EAs

Posts: 754 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Fort Worth TX
Aubrie
Member
Member # 33886
Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, October 10th (Wednesday)

October 12


"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

Posts: 7135 | Registered: Nov 2011
time2grow
Member
Member # 35983
Default  Posted: 10:32 PM, October 11th (Thursday)

Na Na Naa Na Na There is only 1 on SI that knows and she’s not going to tell ya my b-day!!!

Posts: 1752 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Missouri
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 10:16 AM, October 12th (Friday)

Catching up now....


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, October 12th (Friday)

Updated as of Oct 12


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Lost333
Member
Member # 35182
Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, October 19th (Friday)

My Bday is Nov. 1st.


Me:29,WS/BS Him:27, BS/WS (DontTreadOnMe) His Dday 2/19/12. My Dday 9/29/12
Married: 2 yrs, together 4 1/2

"And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight inside the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom" Anais Nin


Posts: 689 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: Midwest
Hard2Breathe
Member
Member # 36905
Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, October 22nd (Monday)

May 5th, el cinco de mayo


BW - Me
Married - 4 1/2 years - Togethor almost 9
DS and DD - born Nov 24th, 2012
DDAY - 3/1/12 - EA/PA

Dear OW: "Do not get in the business of dragon's, for you are crunchy and tasty with ketchup"


Posts: 56 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Dallas
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, October 23rd (Tuesday)

Updated October 23!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Chili
Member
Member # 35503
Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, October 23rd (Tuesday)

May 2nd!


Me: BSO
Him: Assclown
Too many years tied up with him.
April-May 2012 pretty much sucked.
"I'd love to give a dog a bone, but I'm not gonna stick around to help you" - Jack White

Posts: 243 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Reality
crushedtulips
New Member
Member # 37269
Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, October 25th (Thursday)

I'm new to the site, and my birthday is November 15th. I'll be 23.

Posts: 5 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: Copperas Cove
SecondHelping
Member
Member # 36796
Default  Posted: 6:55 AM, October 28th (Sunday)

14 Mar


D-Day 1: Feb 1990
D-Day 2: 3 Sep 2012 (3 month EA/3 week PA)
BS 49, fWW 43 (Amibroken)
OP- Police Chief (Age 37)
M 25 Yrs, 3 Kids (17, 14, 11)
I initated the relationship at the Railway Tavern, she tried to end it at Scrap Tavern

Posts: 558 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Delmarva
Brwneyes
Member
Member # 34147
Default  Posted: 12:01 PM, October 28th (Sunday)

February 2nd!


Me- BS 34
Him WS 33

Together 15 years Married 12 1 child 3


Posts: 121 | Registered: Dec 2011
momto7
New Member
Member # 37294
Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, October 28th (Sunday)

Hello..
my birthday is July 4.
I am a new member just finding my way around

Posts: 5 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: Southern Ontario
tryingagain74
Member
Member # 33698
Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, October 28th (Sunday)

I'm November 30th.


FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3866 | Registered: Oct 2011
TrappedUnderIce
Member
Member # 37313
Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, November 1st (Thursday)

Nov. 7th for me. I will be 36.


Me BS 36
Wife WS 34 ( pinchme )
4 beautiful children
D-day 10/27/2012

"Dig me up from under, what's covering the better part of me."


Posts: 60 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: IL
She-Ra
Member
Member # 36033
Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, November 2nd (Friday)

Mine is December 2nd!


Madhatters / mid 30s
2 year old beautiful daughter

Posts: 994 | Registered: Jul 2012
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 6:38 AM, November 5th (Monday)

Welcome new birthday people!!
I'm adding you today.

Updated!!

[This message edited by BrokenRoad at 12:17 PM, November 6th (Tuesday)]


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
yoshi7268
Member
Member # 35519
Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, November 8th (Thursday)

November 13.......the big 40


ME-BS-42 WH-46
Married 24 years-together 28
5 beautiful children ages 16-26
Dday1-late June 2011
Dday2-early July 2011-TT
Dday3- early August 2011-TT
Another affair 7 years before.
R going well

Posts: 293 | Registered: May 2012 | From: yoshi7268
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 7:53 AM, November 9th (Friday)

added yoshi7268


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
heartstabber
Member
Member # 34079
Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, November 12th (Monday)

Ah, May 3rd I hit the big 5.0


Me: WW
Married: 15 years
DD: November 2011

Let's eat Grandma. Let's eat, Grandma. Commas save lives.


Posts: 164 | Registered: Dec 2011
RyeBread
Member
Member # 37437
Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, November 13th (Tuesday)

December 23 - I'll be 37


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

Posts: 1035 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Midwest
SurprisinglyOkay
Member
Member # 36684
Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, November 20th (Tuesday)

November 21!! 35


FWS me 37 (recovering addict)
BS him 40 AFrayedKnot
Together 8 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


Posts: 1165 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
RyeBread
Member
Member # 37437
Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, November 21st (Wednesday)

Happy B-Day broevil!


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

Posts: 1035 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Midwest
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, November 21st (Wednesday)

Updated as of today - remember I usually only update once at the beginning of the month.


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
SoyLatte
Member
Member # 37634
Default  Posted: 4:24 AM, November 29th (Thursday)

Feb. 27


Me: BS, 50
Him: WH, 50, serial cheater and compulsive liar, possible SA and NPD
Married 17 years, together 26
3 kids: 10, 13, and 15
Was afraid to confront while overseas, now home safely and can decide next step

Posts: 251 | Registered: Nov 2012
WPaul
New Member
Member # 35166
Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, December 3rd (Monday)

30th October


me=47 yr old FWH
wife=43 yr old BS
DS 3

Posts: 42 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: Southern UK
lostgirl79
New Member
Member # 35860
Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, December 7th (Friday)

My birthday is tomorrow!
December 8th.


DD~May 30, 2012
Currently working on R
Me~33
WH~32
My 3 beautiful children~~16, 12, and 9.

Posts: 36 | Registered: Jun 2012
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, December 8th (Saturday)

Updated as of December 8, 2012. Happy birthday lostgirl79!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
sportsfan
Member
Member # 9918
Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, December 14th (Friday)

Nov 26

Posts: 2044 | Registered: Feb 2006 | From: PA
little turtle
Member
Member # 15584
Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, December 23rd (Sunday)

I thought I was on this list already, but I don't see me!!

February 26

Thanks, BR.


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4420 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
SoVerySadNow
Member
Member # 36711
Default  Posted: 5:27 PM, December 23rd (Sunday)

June 27


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
WarehouseGuy
Member
Member # 6037
Default  Posted: 5:35 PM, December 23rd (Sunday)

February 18


WHG


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 5956 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
FeelsSoRight
Member
Member # 28377
Default  Posted: 6:00 AM, December 26th (Wednesday)

Today! December 26th


Me - W - 48
Him - H - 47
Together since we were 14/15
Married 27 yrs in August (renewed our vows in 2011-H's idea!)
DD-23, DS-15
Separated for 7 mos & were 3 wks from divorce when we reconciled
Happily R for almost 4 years

Posts: 1451 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: MO
SandAway
Member
Member # 37775
Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, December 31st (Monday)

May 3


fWW
BH Tred
M 18yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


Posts: 443 | Registered: Dec 2012
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 7:31 AM, January 1st (Tuesday)

Adding new ones to the list:

sportsfan - Nov 26
little turtle - February 26
SoVerySadNow - June 27
WarehouseGuy - February 18
FeelsSoRight - December 26th
SandAway - May 3

Let me know if I missed one!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
cinnamongurl
Member
Member # 37879
Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

Feb 24 and I'll be 35! Yikes! When did that happen?


Me: 37 fWGF He: 36 fBSO and my heart
Together 19 yrs. Final dday late 8/12 "Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it." Tori Amos



Posts: 540 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: by the sea
GullibleGirl
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Member # 33580
Default  Posted: 11:02 AM, January 10th (Thursday)

I am January 22nd. No outdoor birthday parties for me....waaahhhhh!


Me-FWW-50 He-BH-53 Separated
No kids/M 26yrs/D-Day: 4/20/11
'You & I go hard at each other like we're going to war...You & I go rough-we keep throwing things & slamming the doors'-M5

Posts: 667 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: The third loop of the bowels of Hell
Kayfay
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Member # 38098
Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, January 12th (Saturday)

I'm brand spanking new here...January 19th for me!


D-day 12/24/2012
Twin daughters together 18 mo 11 yr son from previous
He stayed w ow
Ex Fiancé 8 yrs

Posts: 4 | Registered: Jan 2013
Chrysalis123
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Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, January 13th (Sunday)

October 31....Boo


Why are you going to the hardware store and expecting to buy bread?

Posts: 3261 | Registered: Jan 2010
BwayBaby
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Member # 38136
Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, January 15th (Tuesday)

December 6


BS
DD 10/29/12 Superstorm Sandy
Married 8 Years; trying to stay married.

Posts: 1 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Long Island
Issaquah
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Member # 34484
Default  Posted: 3:14 PM, January 15th (Tuesday)

June 24th


BS - Me, 41 SAHM back in grad school
WS - Husband, 43 SA dx in March 2013
T-20, M-18 college sweethearts
Multiple DDays since 1999 - OW's all the way back to engagement
Most recent DDay 8-12,false R 1/13
DD-11, DS 13 with ASD

Posts: 807 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Virginia
wantreallove
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Member # 37534
Default  Posted: 7:05 AM, January 17th (Thursday)

March 28


Me,BS 33
SA fWH (masame5) 35
Married 13 yrs, 7 kids
D-day 10/9/12 (caught him through fb chat) D-day #2 11/19/12 thru 11/21/12 (found out about all the rest of the A's.)
8 AP

Posts: 196 | Registered: Nov 2012
wantreallove
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Member # 37534
Default  Posted: 7:06 AM, January 17th (Thursday)

March 28


Me,BS 33
SA fWH (masame5) 35
Married 13 yrs, 7 kids
D-day 10/9/12 (caught him through fb chat) D-day #2 11/19/12 thru 11/21/12 (found out about all the rest of the A's.)
8 AP

Posts: 196 | Registered: Nov 2012
CLRhope4her
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Member # 37243
Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, January 28th (Monday)

April 3


BW- Me 35 & WH- Him 38
OW- My BFF for 25 years
DDay- 6/28/12 Final truth- 7/28/12
“We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.”

Posts: 177 | Registered: Oct 2012
mommy22
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Member # 25962
Default  Posted: 4:22 AM, January 30th (Wednesday)

February 1


Me-BS
DS- 4ys
DD- 1yr

Posts: 47 | Registered: Oct 2009
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, January 31st (Thursday)

I don't see me on the list.

Let's try again!!
February 26


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4420 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 6:35 AM, February 1st (Friday)

Updated as of today!
Remember to read the rules so you know how it works.

Happy February!

--BR


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Faithful w/Love
Member
Member # 33128
Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, February 5th (Tuesday)

Well shit, I'm not on there.
Feb 10. Please add this woman to it. Thank you


BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"


Posts: 2943 | Registered: Aug 2011
jackie89
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Member # 38271
Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, February 5th (Tuesday)

Feb 19


~~When people show you who they are believe them ~~ Maya Angelou

Posts: 709 | Registered: Jan 2013
harry&george
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Member # 34554
Default  Posted: 1:37 AM, February 9th (Saturday)

February 11


ME: FBW 38
3 gorgeous kids
Divorced!!!

Posts: 121 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Australia
NoTriangles
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Member # 35985
Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, February 15th (Friday)

July 26


Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

Posts: 1253 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness
confused82402
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Member # 34616
Default  Posted: 7:34 PM, February 27th (Wednesday)

May 6


Me- BW
Him - WH
Dday - 1/16/2012

~Honey, don't try to make sense out of nonsense...you'll drive yourself crazy in the process ~ my momma :-)


Posts: 507 | Registered: Jan 2012
StrongestGirl
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Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, February 27th (Wednesday)

March 5


BS (me) - 30
WH - 31
M - 9 years
2 kids - 6 & 4
DDay 12/27/12
Status - Trying to R and put me back together.

When you think something hurts to much to forgive, then you realize you have to forgive BECAUSE it hurts so much.


Posts: 10 | Registered: Jan 2013
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, March 1st (Friday)

Updated for March!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
tryinghard2013
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Member # 37981
Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, March 1st (Friday)

August 15th

Posts: 130 | Registered: Jan 2013
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, March 2nd (Saturday)

September 5


Madhatter. Separated.

"You must try to generate happiness within yourself. If you aren't happy in one place, chances are you won't be happy anyplace." Ernie Banks


Posts: 3402 | Registered: Oct 2012
Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, March 5th (Tuesday)

March 15

I will be 40


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


Posts: 2589 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
KBeguile
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Member # 38348
Default  Posted: 8:51 AM, March 7th (Thursday)

I'm April 4.


Me: WS 34
Her: BS 37 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 6yo
M: 9 years
DDays: 2012/11/14-2013/02/05, 2013/03/09, 2014/12/23

Posts: 810 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
Tiredofitall41
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Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, March 7th (Thursday)

Mine is today! I wish I were happier....Glad I found this forum though!


D-Day 07/22/2012
Why do people really suck sometimes??

Posts: 11 | Registered: Mar 2013
sadone29
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, March 7th (Thursday)

Probably too late for me, but I turn 36 this Friday, March 8th.


DDay Feb. 28, 2013
"It is an act of self-respect and preservation to not forgive."

Posts: 944 | Registered: Mar 2013
sadone29
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Member # 38597
Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, March 7th (Thursday)

Happy b-day Tiredofitall41!


DDay Feb. 28, 2013
"It is an act of self-respect and preservation to not forgive."

Posts: 944 | Registered: Mar 2013
Tiredofitall41
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Member # 38664
Default  Posted: 1:24 PM, March 7th (Thursday)

Happy Birthday to you too Saddone!!


D-Day 07/22/2012
Why do people really suck sometimes??

Posts: 11 | Registered: Mar 2013
sadone29
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Member # 38597
Default  Posted: 10:55 PM, March 7th (Thursday)

Thanks! :)


DDay Feb. 28, 2013
"It is an act of self-respect and preservation to not forgive."

Posts: 944 | Registered: Mar 2013
41andthankful
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Member # 38650
Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, March 8th (Friday)

March 16th

Posts: 245 | Registered: Mar 2013
brokensunflower
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Member # 38674
Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, March 12th (Tuesday)

dec 7th ill be 32


me 33
him 32
6 wonderful kids 12 yrs 8 yrs 5 yrs 4 yrs and 2 yrs ..and new baby
married 10 years together for 12 yrs
working on R

my give a damn is busted


Posts: 230 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: cold ohio
dlmos
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Member # 36839
Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, March 18th (Monday)

March 18th for me!


BH (32)
DS - 7, DD - 6
Divorced

Posts: 461 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Fort Worth,Texas
keeponkeepingon
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Member # 32935
Default  Posted: 11:07 AM, March 19th (Tuesday)

Today is my birthday! Happy birthday to me! Another day of disappointment.....


"I know you and you know me and I know you can see. So help me get my way back to you"

Posts: 1005 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: On the corner of Grey St at the end of the world
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, March 19th (Tuesday)

So many new march birthdays, I had to do them today!
Check for yours if you mentioned one!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
MilitaryFairy
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Member # 38762
Default  Posted: 1:38 AM, March 20th (Wednesday)

June 16,I will be 34


Would you still call them Heroes if you knew how they treated their spouses?

Posts: 8 | Registered: Mar 2013
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 1:49 AM, March 20th (Wednesday)

June 6th. Big 50!


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 21(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 3908 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Stillhurting1977
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Member # 37247
Default  Posted: 1:52 AM, March 20th (Wednesday)

I am April 17 and I will be 29! Kidding, lol. I'll be 36


D day Sept 2011
D Day # 2 March 15, 2013 (he never stopped the first affair, it went underground)
Me BW 36
Him WH 37
One little guy: 26 months
Status: Seperated, Divorcing

" Noone can make you feel inferior without your consent" Eleanor Ro


Posts: 159 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: Canada
pizzalover
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Member # 38336
Default  Posted: 6:21 PM, March 27th (Wednesday)

April 26. I'll be 38


Trying to rebuild each day

Me - WW 40
Him - BH 40 (mpb1974)
2 Furrbabies - sweet cats

Met - 8/13/99
Started dating - 9/11/99
Moved in together - 3/03
Engaged - 6/5/09
Married - 8/21/10
D-Day - 1/24/13
Affair started 5/09


Posts: 740 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
MYBOYSMOM
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Member # 26318
Default  Posted: 10:27 PM, March 27th (Wednesday)

Tomorrow, March 28, I'll turn 50. I have to say that this bday will be immensely better than number 40!


BW 49(me)
WH - doesn't matter anymore
Married: 23 years; DS18, DS16
D-Day: 9/1/2009, D:12/21/2009

"It's a new dawn, It's a new day, It's a new life, for me, and I'm feeling good..." Michael Buble


Posts: 780 | Registered: Nov 2009
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Cool  Posted: 7:18 PM, March 30th (Saturday)

Updated as of March 30


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Crumbled324
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Member # 33902
Default  Posted: 6:00 AM, April 4th (Thursday)

45 today.

2 years ago a little less than 2 weeks after DDay I spent my birthday sitting in a Bankruptsy Attourny's office and all I could think about was how the hell did my life get here?

This year R is going well, and it looks like we are going to be able to keep the house. Things CAN get better.


BH: 46
fWW: 45
Beautiful 8 year old daughter
Married 22 years, Together 28 - High School Sweethearts
Reconciling

Save yourself. I've taken off my cape, and the only thing the S on my chest stands for is SURVIVNG this.


Posts: 91 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Michigan
Stronglost9977
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Question  Posted: 4:44 PM, April 17th (Wednesday)

Stonglost9977
July 1

Posts: 3 | Registered: Apr 2013
heyjules2012
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Member # 38349
Default  Posted: 10:19 PM, April 21st (Sunday)

My bday is June 5. It will be a tough one to get thru as I share same month as OW.


BS(me)38 WH(him)38
D-Day 12/1/12
Together 15, married 11
Trying to R

Posts: 28 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: WI
BetrayedinWIHusb
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Member # 11999
Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, April 30th (Tuesday)

January 14......many, many years ago


My goals are simple: being a good person and a great husband.

Posts: 189 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: Wisconsin
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, April 30th (Tuesday)

It's that time again!
Get your entries in soon if you have May birthdays!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Sad in AZ
Guide
Member # 24239
Default  Posted: 5:56 AM, May 1st (Wednesday)

Updating my birthday: 8/8/1984--that's right; I'm only 29. Stop laughing.


May your 2015 be more FUCK YEAH! than fuck this

Posts: 22013 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
Laura28
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Member # 28997
Default  Posted: 6:14 AM, May 1st (Wednesday)

Hi BR

Thanks so much for organising this thread

My birthday is listed as the 17th August (1956 but don't tell anyone )

I'm actually the 18th.

But then again, when it falls in Oz on the 18th it is actually the 17th in the US.

So if my birthday really falls on the 18th but you list it as the 17th, my Oz friends will wish me happy birthday a day early and my US and UK friends on the day.

Mmmmm. What to do????

Just joshing.

I really don't mind either way. It is such a great thing for you to do.

Thanks and BIG HUGS

Laura


Married 32yrs Me BW 58Yrs Him FWH 60yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

Posts: 2772 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Australia
Chria
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Member # 14090
Default  Posted: 7:05 AM, May 1st (Wednesday)

July 29th. I will be 21 (again)


There is never a single right solution. But there are always multiple wrong ones.

Posts: 4701 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Lurch's Lunatic Asylum
sad12008
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Member # 18179
Default  Posted: 11:40 AM, May 1st (Wednesday)

Still December 11th...comes around faster & faster w/each passing year!

Thanks BR


You can't fill a cup with no bottom.

Posts: 4051 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: a new start together
need_hope
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Member # 23989
Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, May 1st (Wednesday)

Still here...still Oct. 7th.


Me - happily single
Him - no longer matters
Married 28 yrs
Filed for D 1/10
DIVORCED 12/12

Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.
Don't fuck with me, I fuck back.


Posts: 1976 | Registered: May 2009 | From: East Coast
OneFootForward
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Member # 39136
Default  Posted: 3:03 PM, May 2nd (Thursday)

June 15th


Me: 42 BS
Her: 41 EMA
Married: 16 years
D-Day#1: 04/17/13
D-Day#2: 05/8/13
Children: 9,5 (girls)
Om: High School Flame
"Marital problems doesn't make someone a cheater just like financial problems doesn't make someone a thief"

Posts: 71 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Mobile, AL
Chili
Member
Member # 35503
Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, May 2nd (Thursday)

Still May 2nd!


Me: BSO
Him: Assclown
Too many years tied up with him.
April-May 2012 pretty much sucked.
"I'd love to give a dog a bone, but I'm not gonna stick around to help you" - Jack White

Posts: 243 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Reality
SurprisinglyOkay
Member
Member # 36684
Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, May 2nd (Thursday)

November 21!!


FWS me 37 (recovering addict)
BS him 40 AFrayedKnot
Together 8 years
2 children


"Your secrets keep you sick"


Posts: 1165 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: 221B
Too_Trusting
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Member # 99
Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

Today and still here!


"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

Posts: 2763 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

Sorry, on the way!!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
phoenixrivers
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Member # 38314
Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, May 11th (Saturday)

August 23


Me: xBetrayedBF (xBBF)
Her: xWaywardGF (xWGF)
TT: 12/21/12
Splitsville: 1/6/13
DDay: 7/20/13
Done: 8/16/14
"Nobody knows anybody...not that well." Tom Reagan, "Miller's Crossing"

Posts: 149 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: New Orleans, LA
curiouswiz
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Member # 34405
Default  Posted: 7:29 AM, May 14th (Tuesday)

Well, gall dang it! I'll be 60 this June 25!

Oh nooo.....


God bless us, everyone.

Posts: 633 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Boston
Elaine2012
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Member # 36099
Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, May 17th (Friday)

June 28th


Me- 54
WH-who cares
Divorced - May 22, 2014
Dday - Blindsided July 2012
Married 35 years
4 adult DD's, 2 SIL, 3 grandchildren

Posts: 294 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: I'm surrounded by majestic mountain ranges
scaredyKat
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Member # 25560
Default  Posted: 8:05 AM, May 19th (Sunday)

Crap. 59 today... How did that happen?


Me-BS-61
HIM-SAFWH-64
Damn autocorrect is responsible for the silly errors, sorry!

Posts: 4524 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: In my head
whatabummer
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Member # 38825
Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

November 6

Posts: 6 | Registered: Mar 2013
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, May 30th (Thursday)

UPdated!!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
ninebark
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Member # 24534
Default  Posted: 6:06 AM, May 31st (Friday)

Today ...29 with 12 years experience...lol


BS (me) 40
WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
D-day 06/21/09
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.

Posts: 630 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Canada
fourever
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Member # 30631
Default  Posted: 8:34 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

56 today, think I'll pick another number and just keep having anniversaries of that. Say, 36 maybe.


In R since shortly after DD.
Discovered what was right in front of him and nearly lost.

Always, tell the other BS! Always!

"It's hard to be in love when you can't tell lies"!


Posts: 917 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Northeast
merrmeade
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Member # 36180
Default  Posted: 8:01 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Somehow I haven't really gotten hooked in here the way I have been on Loveshack but today (June 5) - my birthday - I happened to see a PM I got some months ago. The message shocked me in its similarity to the status of my growth post-A.

I started poking around again and saw this thread. Happy birthday to me! This is better than the lies and insincerity around me.

[This message edited by merrmeade at 8:07 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)]


Posts: 1 | Registered: Jul 2012
spldbrt614
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Member # 39467
Default  Posted: 3:12 PM, June 6th (Thursday)

Birth day is July 6th

Posts: 8 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Anne Arundel Co Md
FightingBack
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Member # 34770
Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, June 8th (Saturday)

Mine is June 25th


Me 53
WH 58
Married 25 years
4 children S30,D24, S23,S21
D-Day Nov. 29, 2011
15 year affair with married employee.
Together trying to make sense of it all!

Posts: 1090 | Registered: Feb 2012
huRtZ413
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Member # 39214
Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

july 25



me_BW
him_WH


I'M ON THE FENCE



Posts: 278 | Registered: May 2013
toomanyregrets
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Member # 37740
Default  Posted: 11:24 AM, June 28th (Friday)

July 8.
3 more years and I can retire and work at Walmart as a greeter. Beats the job I have now.


BH - 65
fWW - 62

"Affairs are not mistakes, they are a series of deliberate choices." - CrappyLife
"Regret is when you realize you broke your own heart.
Remorse is when you realize you broke someone else's." - Blakesteele


Posts: 599 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Upstate NY
letitout
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Member # 38288
Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday)

My Birthday is July 14


BW 55, WH 64
2 years of prostitutes.

Posts: 283 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: California
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Cool  Posted: 10:53 PM, July 8th (Monday)

Updated today.


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
soveryalone1
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Member # 39807
Default  Posted: 5:35 PM, July 11th (Thursday)

<< June 14


jao

Posts: 75 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Vermont USA
Mommato4
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Member # 15906
Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)

I'm still here. July 20th. I do see that I'm still on the list too.


Updated 2014:
BS-me 41
XH-doesn't matter
4 kids
Divorced-7/25/08

SO-5 years together-he decided to end it by cheating too


Posts: 1399 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: PNW country
inhishands55
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Member # 9454
Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, July 17th (Wednesday)

My birthday isn't on there...It is July 19th....I will be 58yrs young with a younger man this yr....

Posts: 408 | Registered: Jan 2006 | From: The Tarheel State, in the mts.
RedRaven
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Member # 39993
Default  Posted: 8:24 AM, July 27th (Saturday)

August 15

Posts: 9 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Texas
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, August 1st (Thursday)

Updated


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
roadtorecovery21
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Member # 40009
Default  Posted: 4:39 PM, August 2nd (Friday)

yay my birthday is August 21st....Leos are strong!! and Im sure as heck going to fight to get myself back on track! I am so grateful for this website. It has really helped me to relate, vent and sympathize!!!

Posts: 6 | Registered: Jul 2013
Kandi
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Default  Posted: 3:47 AM, August 3rd (Saturday)

April 27

Posts: 2 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Virginia
lovelymrsm
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Member # 40077
Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, August 5th (Monday)

June 29


BS me 38,fWS him 40
Married 2004
4 kids S21,S7,twinsS/D4
DDay1-PA-Nov17,04 ow1 xgf
DDay2-PA-Jan07 ow2 my co-worker
DDay3-PA-Aug11 ow3 5x/2wks hooker
DDay4-E/PA-Aug13 ow4 (Jan-Apr13)
TT Aug13, working on R

Posts: 7 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Canada
FoolontheHill
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Member # 40225
Default  Posted: 6:43 AM, August 8th (Thursday)

September 2.


Me BH 46
WW 42

Dday 1: 10/20/2010 -- 3 month physical affair
Dday2: 7/7/2013 -- 3 year emotional affair but I think it was more.


Posts: 83 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Florida
confused615
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Member # 30826
Default  Posted: 6:49 AM, August 8th (Thursday)

Well...today is my birthday...


BS(me)42
FWH 46
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 9899 | Registered: Jan 2011
FaithFool
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Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 5:01 PM, August 12th (Monday)

Lots of Lions

August 8 (rowr!)


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 18612 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
krazy8516
Member
Member # 40076
Default  Posted: 12:54 PM, August 15th (Thursday)

Is there really nobody on the list yet who shares my birthday??

It's December 12


me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day

married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m

"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."


Posts: 368 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Texas
DWBH
Member
Member # 35512
Default  Posted: 5:59 AM, August 28th (Wednesday)

February 19


Me: BH, 44
Her: FWW, 43 (ThornyRose)
M: 17 years, together 20
2 Daughters: 15 and 13
D Day: 9/25/2011; Lies & TT to 5/4/2012
~Double betrayal; caught them in the act~

Posts: 747 | Registered: May 2012 | From: WI
dindy
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Member # 38424
Default  Posted: 6:03 AM, August 28th (Wednesday)

31 August

Posts: 459 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: uk
BrokenRoad
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Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, September 2nd (Monday)

August is cleaned up.
Working on the new ones...

Remember, I only check the new ones at the beginning of the month so if yours is in October, don't wait to add it or you'll get a belated.

Also, please read the rules on page one and keep up on your postings!

[This message edited by BrokenRoad at 8:15 PM, September 2nd (Monday)]


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, September 2nd (Monday)

OK all set!!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
brknwmn
Member
Member # 40603
Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, September 10th (Tuesday)

August 10th


Me: 26 BS Him: 29 WH
Together since Dec 2005
officially done 10-30-13

Never be ashamed of a scar. It simply means you were stronger than whatever tried to hurt you.


Posts: 78 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: United States
odiebluesky
Member
Member # 22606
Default  Posted: 11:19 PM, September 15th (Sunday)

July 29th


BS 50
WS - NO LONGER EXISTS IN MY WORLD
3 Children - 28,22,21
3 Precious Grandchildren
DIVORCED - DECEMBER 2010

Posts: 117 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Ontario Canada
megs56
Member
Member # 40791
Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, October 1st (Tuesday)

January 17th :)


Me: BGF - 29
Him: WBF - 32

I broke up with him and now I am trying to heal.

Hurt me with the truth, but never comfort me with a lie.


Posts: 118 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Sacramento, Ca
SurelyNOT
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Member # 40617
Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday)

March 24th

Posts: 95 | Registered: Sep 2013
Dawn58
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Member # 37656
Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday)

Just celebrated my 55th

September 23


I got into the marriage, because I loved him. I got out of the marriage, because I love me.

Posts: 491 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Southern California
NoAnswers37
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Member # 40592
Default  Posted: 11:12 AM, October 2nd (Wednesday)

20 March


Live without pretending
Love without depending
Listen without defending
Speak without offending

Posts: 122 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: England
mellie99
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Member # 39712
Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, October 4th (Friday)

Aug 5 here :)


Me: BW (32)
Him: WS (31)-Multiple ONS
Married: 1/3/05 Together since 5/2002
D-Day #1-3/2009 (4 years after the fact)
D-Day #2 3/2013(he confessed to 3 more ONS, 1 the month I found out I was pregnant)

Posts: 66 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: United States
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, October 6th (Sunday)

<---------UPdated to here


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
suposd2btheonly1
Member
Member # 40753
Default  Posted: 4:44 PM, October 6th (Sunday)

May 16


Me: BW 31
Him: WH 30
OW: 22yo whore who is still planning her wedding
Married 3yrs, together 5
4 kids, all boys 14, 11, 4 and 8mos...I hope like hell they don't hurt someone the way he hurt their mama
Dday: August 9, 2013
S, until his head

Posts: 206 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma
cantaccept
Member
Member # 37451
Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, October 8th (Tuesday)

October 14th.

After last year, it has to be better, right???


"So often times it happens, that we live our lives in chains and we never even know we have the key"

I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh deleted
I attempted R, he was a lie

Divorced!


Posts: 2279 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Connecticut
FoggedIn
Member
Member # 40329
Default  Posted: 1:24 PM, October 9th (Wednesday)

October 12th

39 this year!
XO


BW (40)
WH (55)
Blended family, 6 kids, 1 dil & i gd
Dday 1 8/10/13 PA ONS CL whore
DDay 2 8/15/15 -TT 3 Other PA w/escorts from 2004-2013? Not sure on dates. Status - No Clue!! Calling D attorney for advice

Posts: 242 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Southwest US
velvethammer
Member
Member # 40437
Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, October 9th (Wednesday)

November 3rd. Turning 40!

Posts: 110 | Registered: Aug 2013
kickboxer
Member
Member # 39858
Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, October 10th (Thursday)

10/9 - Yesterday!


BW - 42 (Me)
WH - 39 (2 ONS, 6m EA)
Married 13 years, 3 children
DD: 7/13/13
Status: Rugsweeping, I guess.

Posts: 251 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Somewhere Out There
lordhasaplan?
Member
Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, October 10th (Thursday)

June 12th.


BS- Me (43)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

Posts: 2028 | Registered: Nov 2010
DCP21
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Member # 40061
Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, October 11th (Friday)

October 21st (my 50th!)


BS: 49
WS: 53
Girl/Boy - 25/20
Married 26 years

Posts: 30 | Registered: Jul 2013
Drowninginitall
Member
Member # 40968
Default  Posted: 10:21 AM, October 18th (Friday)

March 13 is my bday


BW 39
Married 2000
DDay 1 10/2013
DDay 2 4/2014
DDay 3 6/2014
With a whole lot of TT, lies, gas lighting and false R in between.
2 DDs 6.5
DS 3.5
Divorcing

Posts: 167 | Registered: Oct 2013
MakingLemonade
Member
Member # 41143
Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, October 31st (Thursday)

December 19th


Me: 40's; XBS Him: 40's; XWS/NPD/SA
D-day 1: 5/2007- A #1; 7/2007 A #1 continued-R
D-day 2: 3/2013 A #2/multi-ONSs; 4/2013 A #2 continues to present
D: 7/2013 (25 yrs together; days shy of 22nd anniversary-GOAL MET!)
Our kids: teen & tween

Posts: 168 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Southern US
ruby44
Member
Member # 41135
Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, November 1st (Friday)

November 16th


Me BW 52, Him WH 48
Married 13 years,
2 DDs (12 and 10)
D-Day Confirmed 10/24/13 suspected before that but did not want to believe it.
WH filed for D 11/12/13
2/8/14 WH asked if he could come home.

Posts: 277 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Midwest
Bebba1171
Member
Member # 33857
Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, November 9th (Saturday)

march 19


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 54Me) / XWW 52
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 734 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Western Kentucky
Flatlined123
Member
Member # 35862
Default  Posted: 5:17 AM, November 15th (Friday)

January 8. I'm ageing like a fine wine.


Me: BS H: WS
4 kids
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

Posts: 804 | Registered: Jun 2012
LMomof2
Member
Member # 41064
Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, November 15th (Friday)

Thank you for this thread. My birthday is May 11


LMomof2
Me - BW - 59
Him - WH - 59
35 yrs - 2 daughters 17, 21
DDay - 10-15-13
ONS - 9-20-13 and probably YEARS of gaslighting - signs were there.

Posts: 81 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
Hotmama
New Member
Member # 41374
Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, November 17th (Sunday)

November 20th if you are still updating.

Posts: 5 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Ohio
steadfast1973
Member
Member # 24719
Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, November 28th (Thursday)

December 5th. In exactly a week.


Me- 40- BS Him- 36- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 3 mo. EA d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute 11/5/13 in R
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah."- Leonard Cohen

Posts: 2290 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Midwest
33years
Member
Member # 41053
Default  Posted: 3:20 PM, November 28th (Thursday)

January 7


Me (BS) 59
Him (WH) 58
DD July 10, 2013
My Motto: "I'm fairly certain that nothing is certain anymore"

Posts: 81 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Middle of USA
momof1girl
Member
Member # 41074
Default  Posted: 12:16 AM, November 30th (Saturday)

February 17


D-Day: Oct. 1, 2013

Together 15 years, married 7, 1 child, age 7.

WH: 37 y.o., EA/PA since March
OW: 26, 1 child (not WH's)
Me: 34, BS
Separated Nov. 16, 2013

Does a wedding anniversary still count if you are separated?


Posts: 82 | Registered: Oct 2013
iwillNOT
Member
Member # 40605
Default  Posted: 12:28 AM, November 30th (Saturday)

January 1, thank you:-)


Me: BS, 43
Him: WH, 44
Together 21 years
Married 14 years
Kiddos 2,6,8,10
Dday#1 2004, 3 years after EA/PA co-worker MOW
Dday#2 8-6-13, 13 months EA/9months PA with co-worker MOW - caught not confessed
Rugsweep now, pay later. Ask me how I know.

Posts: 632 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, November 30th (Saturday)

Updated again today 11/30/13.


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Getting to Happy
Member
Member # 35200
Default  Posted: 12:09 AM, December 2nd (Monday)

Hi everybody!

August 1. 56 next year!!

My, how time flies when your having fun!!!


WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown


Posts: 1254 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: La La Land
betrayed13yrs
Member
Member # 40343
Helpless  Posted: 10:54 AM, December 2nd (Monday)

Mine is November 26th. I just turned 30

Posts: 74 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: CA
brokensoul75
New Member
Member # 41473
Default  Posted: 11:12 PM, December 2nd (Monday)

Feb. 5, I'll be 39.



You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you. ~Walt Disney

We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey. ~Kenji Miyazawa


Posts: 25 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: New England
Livia1776
New Member
Member # 41546
Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, December 5th (Thursday)

December 22, in a little over two weeks!

Posts: 10 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Los Angeles
GotPlayed
Member
Member # 41294
Default  Posted: 7:23 PM, December 13th (Friday)

Dec 17


Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
XBH
Divorcing. If we can ever get a final conference.

Posts: 920 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: California
spond
Member
Member # 41686
Default  Posted: 12:32 PM, December 18th (Wednesday)

September 15th


BH(me) | fWW
2 Kids - Married 2002
D-Day TT & EA | D-Day #2 PA
Reconciling

Posts: 437 | Registered: Dec 2013
ItHappened2Me2
Member
Member # 32503
Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, December 26th (Thursday)

November 15


BS - me (53 now); WS - him (53 now)
DD 17yo, DS 13 yo
Married 25 years (together 27+/-)
DDay #1 - March 18, 2011
DD #2 (after 3 + month TT and false R -- the affair had gone underground) - June 28,2011
DD3: June 19, 2013
DIVORCED!!!! and doing well

Posts: 248 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Texas
Mack9512
Member
Member # 38619
Default  Posted: 7:41 PM, December 26th (Thursday)

September 24th


"If you're brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello." - Paulo Coehlo

Posts: 431 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: East Coast
LostSamurai
Member
Member # 41347
Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, December 27th (Friday)

November 15th


I am the wandering samurai, and I found my freedom...

Posts: 1044 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Maryland
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 10:34 AM, January 1st (Wednesday)

UPdated!!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
hangingonin
Member
Member # 29530
Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, January 1st (Wednesday)

Mine is the 9th February

Posts: 77 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: SE England, UK
Ascendant
Guide
Member # 38303
Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, January 2nd (Thursday)

August 11th. I'll be 31.


Me: 32 Her: 30
DDAY: Jan. 2nd, 2013

"Make each day your masterpiece."


Posts: 4081 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: North of Chicago, Illinois
goodbye_virginia
Member
Member # 16321
Default  Posted: 11:20 PM, January 2nd (Thursday)

January 19!


Me- BW 35
Him - WH 43

Posts: 53 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: Texas
sunsetslost
Member
Member # 39885
Default  Posted: 7:22 AM, January 4th (Saturday)

May 2. I'll be 37


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 798 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
Wayflost
Member
Member # 41583
Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, January 6th (Monday)

January 6th, spent it here.


"Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly."

Posts: 718 | Registered: Dec 2013
plainsong
Member
Member # 37826
Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, January 8th (Wednesday)

Hi!

I am officially sharing my birthday, which is January 8. Thanks so much for taking the unofficial registration from my husband, and for doing this. Great birthday so far.


Me,WW,just turned 70 - the new 50!
Him,BH,70
Dday,12/22/2010
I use capital letters for emphasis, not yelling.

Posts: 101 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Chicago area
sisoon
Member
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, January 9th (Thursday)

July 23. Thanks so much in advance!


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 70 (22 in my head), Married 45+, together since 1965, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

Posts: 11972 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
scarednbroken
Member
Member # 41961
Default  Posted: 12:35 AM, January 10th (Friday)

April 15


BS: Me 44 WH: 51 Kids: 14, 16, 18, 29 DD: every yr Ow: tons Status: fed-up. A woman should never invest in a relationship she wouldn't want for her daughter, nor should she allow any man to treat her in a way she would scold her son for

Posts: 422 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Midwest
focusupward
New Member
Member # 42008
Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, January 13th (Monday)

June 11, thanks


ME - 44
WW - 31
DDAY#1 - 11/15/10 - EA
DDAY#2 - 5/11/13 - PA

Suffering builds perseverance, perseverance character and character hope.


Posts: 37 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas
TheAgonyOfIt
Member
Member # 39114
Default  Posted: 10:14 AM, January 18th (Saturday)

January 20th
Thanks


Me BS 49, ExWS: narcissist! Jekyll Hyde. Left in secret early July, moved states. Left home, job, whole life behind and difficult** adjusting. Dog injured and too much to handle. Supremely bummed out.

Posts: 557 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: theagonyofit
BAB61
Member
Member # 41181
Default  Posted: 9:21 PM, January 18th (Saturday)

Feb 3, I'll be 19 yo with 34 years experience!


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
No12turn2
Member
Member # 40996
Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, January 29th (Wednesday)

30 January. I'll be 35 this year


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 533 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
Secrets Kept
Member
Member # 40630
Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, January 31st (Friday)

Just had mine on Wednesday.....January 29th.
I turned 46!! Ughh!!


Marriage #1=BW-47 (now)
XWH-Deceased on his 36 bday
Divorced in 1996
Marriage #2= Married in 2003
Unknown BH-45 Me-WW-47
2 kids together-DS15 & DD13
"All this time I was finding myself & I didn't know I was lost"

Posts: 247 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Midwest USA
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, February 1st (Saturday)

UPdated as of today.
Sending Belateds to the January ones!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Ascendant
Guide
Member # 38303
Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, February 2nd (Sunday)

I think you missed me, BR. August 11th.


Me: 32 Her: 30
DDAY: Jan. 2nd, 2013

"Make each day your masterpiece."


Posts: 4081 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: North of Chicago, Illinois
WalkinOnEggshelz
Guide
Member # 29447
Default  Posted: 4:29 PM, February 2nd (Sunday)

June 10th for me!


Me: WS 42
Him: BH 44(HoldingTogether)
M: 18years, together 22
2 Daughters: 14 and 11
D Day: 7/24/2010; TT to 10/17/10
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.

Posts: 1859 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Texas
MarcoJohn
New Member
Member # 42280
Revenge  Posted: 12:32 PM, February 8th (Saturday)

My birthday was 5 days ago.

Posts: 2 | Registered: Jan 2014
StuckinNJagain
Member
Member # 42140
Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, February 9th (Sunday)

Feb 17, I will be 47


BH-46 (me)
WS-44
DD-16
DS-12
First Dday-2/09
Sec Dday-1/14
Married 17 yrs. Together 26

Posts: 58 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NJ
Pass
Member
Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 10:42 PM, February 10th (Monday)

February 6.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 12 and 15
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!


Posts: 2247 | Registered: Jan 2013
MadeOfScars
Member
Member # 42231
Default  Posted: 3:03 PM, February 15th (Saturday)

December 9th here.


“Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength.”

Posts: 2231 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas
gypsybird87
Member
Member # 39193
Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, February 21st (Friday)

Shared my birthday before... but nothing happened? Is there somewhere I need to look?

It's today.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords


Posts: 1536 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
4everfaithful83
Member
Member # 41761
Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, February 21st (Friday)

February 17 - just celebrated 31! :)


Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...

ME: 32
WBF: 29
Together 8 years
1 doggie
DDay: June 24, 2013
IN R...


Posts: 783 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
joannie
Member
Member # 42486
Default  Posted: 7:16 AM, February 23rd (Sunday)

February 22nd


me BS 56yr
Him WS 55yr
Married 34 years 2 sons 4 grandchildren

Posts: 217 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: France
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Shocked  Posted: 7:17 PM, February 23rd (Sunday)

Sorry sorry sorry!
I woke up in a panic on my vaca to Florida this morning realizing I didnt get a backup in place.

I'm putting in the belated birthdays now.
I'll be going on vaca for the G2G in Texas in 3 weeks and will ask several people for reminders this time!!!

BR.


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 7:19 PM, February 23rd (Sunday)

gypsybird87 - Its possible that one of two things happened:

Either I missed it or if you weren't on the forum for more than 2 months before your birthday I remove you from the list (see instructions at the first post).

I'll add you back in and send a belated!
BR


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
RippedSoul
Member
Member # 40055
Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, February 23rd (Sunday)

November 12


BW: 50; SLAWH: 47; M: 23 yrs
DD#1--11/30/12 (prostitute #1)
DD#2--1/29/13 (AP, escorts #1 & #2)
DD#3--9/13 (trolling MILF site)
DD#4--10/8/13 (EA with AP cont'd)
DD: 21; DD: 19; DS: 17; DS: 15
PS: I've NEVER NOT edited my posts

Posts: 541 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: West
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, February 23rd (Sunday)

Also, look in Fun and Games for your birthday cakes, by the way.


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Trying2Survive1
Member
Member # 40022
Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, February 23rd (Sunday)

May 20


Madhatters, M 33 yrs
Late 50's
His DDay,11/07.False R since 07. My DDay,7/5/13. Finally in R! I might have been born at night, but it wasn't last night...

Posts: 216 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: United States
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:13 PM, February 23rd (Sunday)

Updating now


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, February 23rd (Sunday)

Ok, check it out. I'll make corrections again on March 1.


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
mainlyinpain
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Member # 39134
Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, February 25th (Tuesday)

May 27

Posts: 597 | Registered: Apr 2013
still2suspicious
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Member # 31722
Default  Posted: 5:59 PM, February 27th (Thursday)

April 3rd.


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1409 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, February 28th (Friday)

updated to here


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Mom4ever
Member
Member # 40516
Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, March 8th (Saturday)

February 4.


BW - me 44. WH - 46
Married - 24 years. Dated - 2 years. Engaged - 2 years
D-Day - 6/13/2013
2 DSs and 1 DD
Divorcing (Have reached a settlement, but still not final... Ugh!)
Actions never lie. Words do! Choices have consequences.

Posts: 172 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Southeast
Wodnships
Member
Member # 42750
Default  Posted: 3:31 PM, March 13th (Thursday)

I wasn't going to post until I saw that no one else had my birthday.

January 5th.


me: BH 36
Her: WW 28

Married 5 years. Dating 9. Living together 8.

If a man took his time on earth
to prove be for he died
what on man's life could be worth
I wonder what would happen to the world

- Harry Chapin


Posts: 859 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: California
WastedTime12
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Member # 34767
Happy  Posted: 9:15 PM, March 21st (Friday)

March 23rd.


Life is meant to be lived, not numbed!

In his quest for freedom, he set me free!


Posts: 267 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Dallas, TX
hpv50
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Member # 39703
Default  Posted: 9:41 PM, March 26th (Wednesday)

March 31, the end of the quarter.

In another life, I was an accountant. :)


Me: BS - 50; Him: WH - 51, vulnerable NPD with BPD features
married 19 years, 3 kids, 25 17 13
DD1 4/22/13 (hpv diagnosis)
DD2 5/9/13; DD3 6/30/13
DD4 7/7/13 admits "trying to date other women" for 3 years

Posts: 336 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: DC area
LAFA
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Member # 31868
Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, March 28th (Friday)

Tomorrow, March 29. I'll be 56.


When you put someone on a pedestal, they quickly learn two things. The view is mighty good from up there, and it is a fine vantage from which to kick.

Posts: 247 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: Hawaii
Guss
New Member
Member # 39113
Default  Posted: 12:10 PM, April 2nd (Wednesday)

January, 7, thanks


ME - 48
WW – 46
DDAY#1 - 04/20/13 – PA&EA
DDAY#2 – 07/06//13 - EA (so WW claims)
KIDS – (10&8)
M=10years
Trying to R

Suffering builds perseverance, perseverance character and character hope.


Posts: 25 | Registered: Apr 2013
TXMommy
Member
Member # 28857
Default  Posted: 12:24 PM, April 2nd (Wednesday)

October 28th :)


ME - BS - 33
WH - 30
Married 9 years, together 11
2 kids: D8, S2
D-Day: June 10th, 2010
Trudging through R.

Posts: 593 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: TX
38yearstogether
New Member
Member # 42845
Default  Posted: 1:27 AM, April 5th (Saturday)

On 7 April I will be 55. First birthday on my own....

I never thought I would get to be 55 and on my own. I have just been reading the co-dependency posts and my eyes have truly been opened. I am a classic rescuer...the hero...but I let myself down. Big mistake. Big lesson. I have arranged a massage for myself and hopefully will have dinner with my kids. I have decided to start learning to take care of myself.

Happy birthday to me! And everyone else today.


Me 54 (BS)Him 56 (WS)
Married 36 years
3 grown kids - 4 grandchildren
D-Day 11 March 2014
Cybersex multiple sites, partners
Porn addiction
Kicked him out on D-Day
Back home April 17
Both having counselling

Posts: 11 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Sydney
justasinger
Member
Member # 43031
Default  Posted: 5:12 PM, April 7th (Monday)

December 25th.... I'll be 39 this year


BSO -me 38
WSO - her 30
2x DD ages 6 and 4
D-day #1 APR08 (supposed ONS w/OM)
D-day #2 1JAN13 2x ONS w/OM and OW, and a ONS
D-day #3 22APR14 (admitted to another ONS that she didn't fess up to during DDay #2)

Posts: 164 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: New England
Adeahan
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Member # 43005
Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, April 8th (Tuesday)

May 18th, ill be 33 this year.


Me 33, H 31,D-Day 03/30/14, Together 12 years, married 2, 3 kids, 3 dogs, Working on R
"nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard you hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward"

Posts: 138 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Ontario, Canada
Adeahan
Member
Member # 43005
Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, April 8th (Tuesday)

May 18th, ill be 33 this year.


Me 33, H 31,D-Day 03/30/14, Together 12 years, married 2, 3 kids, 3 dogs, Working on R
"nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard you hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward"

Posts: 138 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Ontario, Canada
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 7:19 PM, April 10th (Thursday)

OK updating!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Nothanks
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Member # 43225
Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, April 24th (Thursday)

Dec. 4th

Posts: 59 | Registered: Apr 2014
devasted30
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Member # 39439
Default  Posted: 2:04 PM, April 27th (Sunday)

My birthday is December 8th


And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

Posts: 1644 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
Sparkle0504
Member
Member # 40379
Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

Mine is April 5th:)


Me 44 (BS) Him 52 (SAWH)
DDay (too many to mention), but 1st 06/2011

The truth hurts, but nowhere near as much as the lies
"Sounds harsh, but she's my wife and I'm supposed to be there when she's having sex" Sal1995


Posts: 273 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: England
20WrongsVs1
Member
Member # 39000
Default  Posted: 11:25 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)

Plenty of time to get me in, so take your time.

Feb. 23.


fWW: 42
BH: 52
DDay: April 21, 2013
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
Former motto: "Fake it till ya make it." Now: "You can't win if you don't play."

Posts: 1438 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Redneck land
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Content  Posted: 6:38 AM, April 30th (Wednesday)

Updated!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
knightsbff
Member
Member # 36853
Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, May 1st (Thursday)

Dec 1


fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 23, 16, 11. 2 dogs.

I edit often to fix stuff ☺️

Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.


Posts: 1688 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
Doubts
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Member # 40209
Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, May 10th (Saturday)

May 22

Posts: 77 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: CA
needadvise
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Member # 43218
Default  Posted: 11:38 PM, May 18th (Sunday)

May 22


BS: 48 Me
WH: 46 him
DD 17 Ours
DS 23 Mine

DDAY 4/17/2013 my father's anniversary death date.
2013 to present: TT big time
1 PA/EA
9 more women PAs all of our 17 years of marriage. Never had a clue until TT in the last year. Showe


Posts: 112 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Pennsylvania
needadvise
Member
Member # 43218
Default  Posted: 11:39 PM, May 18th (Sunday)

[This message edited by needadvise at 11:39 PM, May 18th (Sunday)]


BS: 48 Me
WH: 46 him
DD 17 Ours
DS 23 Mine

DDAY 4/17/2013 my father's anniversary death date.
2013 to present: TT big time
1 PA/EA
9 more women PAs all of our 17 years of marriage. Never had a clue until TT in the last year. Showe


Posts: 112 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Pennsylvania
twisted
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Member # 8873
Default  Posted: 3:29 PM, May 23rd (Friday)

May 30


"Hey, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?

Posts: 1144 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: Oklahoma
Guinness23
Member
Member # 42852
Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, May 25th (Sunday)

May 23


Me 48
Divorced 2010

1."'FOREVER' in love" lasts only 14 years.
2. Alcohol is NO solution just a bigger problem

My favorite drink is water. Call me Dasani23


Posts: 3212 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Indiana
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 10:13 PM, June 1st (Sunday)

============= UPDATED TO HERE ==============
don't forget to get your July birthdays in by June 30!

--BR


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Scubadoo
Member
Member # 43079
Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, June 3rd (Tuesday)

October 7th.


BS (me) 42
WS (him) 48
OW (downgrade) 48
Married 11 yrs
DS 9
DD 8
D-day 10/27/13
8mth

Posts: 106 | Registered: Apr 2014
Angeles85
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Member # 42107
Default  Posted: 12:16 AM, June 17th (Tuesday)

August 5th, will be 29 :)

Posts: 152 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Los Angeles
ICTYFTITY
New Member
Member # 43734
Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, June 17th (Tuesday)

My birthday is June 28 :)


Me: BW (31)
Him: WH (34)
3 Daughters
Married 9 years
DDays: Various in 2012
Working on R...?
I Can Throw You Further Than I Trust You.

Posts: 49 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Colorado
bravegirl19
Member
Member # 43539
Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, June 24th (Tuesday)

Celebrated my birthday yesterday, June 23…just turned 36. Thanks :)


Me (BS) – 37
WS – 36
Dday – 5/25/14
Together since 2003, married 6 1/2 years
EA and PA with COW for at least 3 months WHILE I WAS PREGNANT (still don’t know the truth of the length of this affair or possibly others)

Posts: 51 | Registered: May 2014
shygirl07
Member
Member # 42972
Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, June 26th (Thursday)

turning 28 on Oct 7 2014 .. yikes ! :(


me:27
him:30
7 years together
no children

OW was his ex he always convinced was his friend .. moved in her and knocked her up , got together behind my back


Ddays : many in 2009 and 2010
final dday : Sept 2012 after being broken up 3 w


Posts: 73 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: CA
painfulpast
Member
Member # 41038
Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, June 26th (Thursday)

September 17th, and I believe DeeplyScared has a birthday present all set for me


DDay - 12/2010
Fully R'd - I love my husband

Posts: 2246 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: East Coast
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, June 30th (Monday)

======UPDATED TO HERE========
--br


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
sudra
Member
Member # 30143
Default  Posted: 10:07 AM, July 2nd (Wednesday)

Can I still jump on? September 18!


Me (BW) (55), Him(SAWH) (58)
Married 22 years, 1 son (19), 1 stepdaughter (27)
DDay #1 January 2004
DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)
Working on R

Posts: 1617 | Registered: Nov 2010
AmSoDone
Member
Member # 43871
Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, July 8th (Tuesday)

Nov 2nd


BP(me) 50
WP (scumbag) 52
On-off for 32 years
1DD
1 DGD
Too many D Days to count. Same with OW.

Posts: 131 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: UK
deceivedguy
Member
Member # 44049
Default  Posted: 7:35 AM, July 11th (Friday)

July 16


Me (49), WW (44), 2 Awesome DDs
DDay 6/2/2014 - 16 years married
Possibly new or continuing A, currently.
Worst experience of my life. Still having a tough time dealing with this. I appreciate your support, more than I can express.

Posts: 178 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Indiana
BitterlyCynical
New Member
Member # 44091
Frustrated  Posted: 7:20 PM, July 14th (Monday)

July 14th... yay me


Betrayed Husband 32 (me)
(Wayward) Wifey Dearest 24
Other "Man" 25ish (WW's 'best friend'/'new roommate')
Separated 5/16/2014

Posts: 34 | Registered: Jul 2014
Mochagurl
Member
Member # 14660
Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, July 14th (Monday)

August 12


Me: BS-56
Him: WS-56
Married: 36 years
DD 36, DD 26, DS 23, DD 20
You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.

Posts: 297 | Registered: May 2007 | From: Ohio
inthedark14
Member
Member # 41924
Default  Posted: 12:56 AM, July 21st (Monday)

Tomoro July 21st!


WH: 39/BW:Me,32
Married 14 years in March, 2 Beautiful children 8 & 12
D-Day: Xmas Eve 2013-worst day of my life

"The most expensive thing in th world is TRUST, it takes years to earn and just a matter of seconds to lose"


Posts: 102 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: santa rosa ca
RMarred
Member
Member # 44242
Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, August 2nd (Saturday)

SparrowSoul - March 6
RMarred - May 9


Me: WBF
Her: BGF (SparrowSoul)
D-Day: 7/5/14

I was up above it. Now I'm down in it.


Posts: 102 | Registered: Jul 2014
IrishLass518
Member
Member # 34373
Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, August 7th (Thursday)

July 18th


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1858 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Lola2kids
Member
Member # 32789
Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, August 12th (Tuesday)

December 17


BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1765 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
SoLostStillNumb
Member
Member # 44248
Default  Posted: 3:13 PM, August 14th (Thursday)

November 23


Me: BS 26 Him: WH 27
Married: 5 years, together 7. No kids.
DDay: 6/3/14 and TT till 9/5/14
Separated, headed for divorce
Trying to accept this nightmare is real every morning.
Hold on, this will hurt more than anything has before

Posts: 224 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: VA
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, August 25th (Monday)

UPdated as of today.
Will be obvious soon...


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Doubleblame
Member
Member # 44588
Default  Posted: 3:57 PM, September 3rd (Wednesday)

OCTOBER 6 big 50


hurt forever
Me BS
Him WS
Together 14 years
DD #1: 5/18/2014
DD #2: 8/20/2014
DSD 20
Status: Think it becomes clearer every day, still not trusting

Posts: 56 | Registered: Aug 2014 | From: MN
Cali123
New Member
Member # 44570
Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, September 9th (Tuesday)

September 11- I'll be THIRTY!:)

Posts: 22 | Registered: Aug 2014
ItllGetBetter
Member
Member # 42776
Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, September 10th (Wednesday)

July 12 :)


Gotta work on this bitter-thing...
married 26 years, together 31,childhood sweethearts

2 kids, 18 + 20
divorce is happening - it can't not

june 5th,2015...divorced.


Posts: 267 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: connecticut
outtanowhere
Member
Member # 39001
Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, September 10th (Wednesday)

Sept. 15


Me-clueless BS
Dday - 2/19/13
“I can't go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.”
― Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland

Posts: 851 | Registered: Apr 2013
krsplat
Member
Member # 43242
Default  Posted: 5:19 AM, September 23rd (Tuesday)

Today, Sept 23


Me & WH: pushing 50, married 20+ years, 4 kids
DDay: 3/5/14, 7 yr LTA plus multiple ONS
Status: Tentative R, carefully watching what happens next.

Posts: 579 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Virginia
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, September 30th (Tuesday)

Updating today!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Allornothing
Member
Member # 42354
Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, October 1st (Wednesday)

May 2nd


Me- BS 44
Him- FWH 44
Married 20 years, Together 27
Kids- 24,23,16,15
D Day- 7 Sept 2013
OW- Irrelevant

Posts: 320 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Australia
Marathonmumof4
Member
Member # 42528
Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, October 15th (Wednesday)

31st January

Posts: 135 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Potters Bar
brknheartcanada
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Member # 45195
Default  Posted: 7:19 AM, October 18th (Saturday)

March 1

Posts: 62 | Registered: Oct 2014 | From: Canada
Giselle8
Member
Member # 45194
Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, October 21st (Tuesday)

October 25th

😀


BW

Me: BS, 40s
WH: WS, 50s
Married 18 years, Together 22
Two school aged daughters
D-day 9/28
Confronted H 10/24, H admitted to EA but not PA
11/14 Admitted to PA
In MC, attempting to R


Posts: 79 | Registered: Oct 2014
silentscream13
Member
Member # 41693
Default  Posted: 12:39 AM, October 27th (Monday)

May 2


ME: BS HIM: WS - lostmymind13; 4 kids
Sexting,OEA/NO PA (planning it b/f he got caught) w/ EX-GF; extreme porn use our entire relationship. Alcoholic.
D-day - 11-14-13
Together: 19 years; Married: 16 years
Status: He wants to R. Me? Meh.

Posts: 351 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Nowhere and Everywhere
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 10:38 PM, October 31st (Friday)

Updated


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Macsecond
Member
Member # 43972
Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, October 31st (Friday)

Fun! Me too, please? September 6


Me - WW (38)
Him - BH (37)
Married 14 years.
2 amazing daughters (DD7 and DD2.5)
DDay - July 4, 2014 (I confessed to 5 month OEA)
In IC for SA (among other things).
Working on R.

Posts: 448 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Canada
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 10:43 PM, October 31st (Friday)

OK, you too.


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
GettingHappy
Member
Member # 42129
Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, November 5th (Wednesday)

My birthday is November 18th. Thanks.😊

Posts: 62 | Registered: Jan 2014
befuddledhubbie
Member
Member # 43990
Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, November 11th (Tuesday)

nov. 19. i'll be officially working on my 2nd quarter of a century.


BH 26 DD 2
xww- broke and with Limpy A. POSer

NB coming soon to a Fud near you

I like the story of the prodigal son, but he didn't screw the pigs.


Posts: 362 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Michigan
InnerLight
Member
Member # 19946
Default  Posted: 12:40 AM, November 26th (Wednesday)

Ha! Just missed it for the year!

Nov 24


BS, 54 years
D-day 6-2-08
D after 20 years
The journey from Armageddon to Amazing Life happens one step at a time. Don't ever give up!

Posts: 6307 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, November 30th (Sunday)

Adding the three Novembers.


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
beachgirl29
Member
Member # 45220
Default  Posted: 7:04 AM, December 4th (Thursday)

Ooh something happy to look forward to on birthday. August 17.


Me: BS (46)
Him: WH (45)
Dday: 11/23/13
Reconciling

Posts: 101 | Registered: Oct 2014 | From: florida
forbetterorworse
Member
Member # 45683
Default  Posted: 3:59 PM, December 7th (Sunday)

December 17


You never know how strong you are until being strong is your only choice ~ story of my life ~ I don't want to play this game anymore.

Posts: 71 | Registered: Nov 2014 | From: USA
trustedg
Member
Member # 44465
Default  Posted: 4:02 PM, December 7th (Sunday)

October 5


Me BW
Him WH - 1 yr PA, 25 yrs ago, with a "friend" of mine
ONS, 35 yrs ago (came out TT a few days after DDay)
DDay 12/2012
Married a long time, in R

Posts: 815 | Registered: Aug 2014
Want2babettrme
New Member
Member # 43291
Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, December 7th (Sunday)

May 6 here. Thanks.

[This message edited by Want2babettrme at 10:00 PM, December 7th (Sunday)]


BC due to father's infidelity,
BBF due to WX fiance's infidelity while in LDR.
Probable BH as STBXW had an STD in 1st yr of M, we had unprotected PIV for yr and half prior. STBXW was only sex partner over the

Posts: 34 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: The Sunny South
broken1873
Member
Member # 44564
Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, December 9th (Tuesday)

December 18th... a week before Christmas baby!


Partnered: 11 years
Me(female): 41
Her: 35
Dday: Aug 7, 2014 (one time event in June 2014)
Working on reconciliation.

Facing the most pain I've ever endured but will persevere no matter where that takes me.


Posts: 371 | Registered: Aug 2014 | From: PA - Currently La La Land
isthismynewlife
Member
Member # 43292
Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, December 9th (Tuesday)

Jan 11th here!


Me 42 BS
Him 42 FWS
DDay #1 11/28/13 - 7 months EA/a little PA with my supposed friend.
DDAy #2 8/25/14 - oops - did I forget to mention that it was a 15 month PA/EA? He thought the first version would hurt me less.
Things are improving daily!

Posts: 260 | Registered: Apr 2014
Skan
Member
Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 4:49 PM, December 14th (Sunday)

August 1


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 6203 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
intheblinkofaney
Member
Member # 45537
Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, December 14th (Sunday)

Jan 3rd


You and me, we made a vow
For better or for worse
I can't believe you let me down
But the proof is in the way it hurts
----------
10-12-14 D-Day
3-24-15 Giving R a chance

Posts: 478 | Registered: Nov 2014
Hopeful74
Member
Member # 44003
Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, December 29th (Monday)

December 18


Me: BW 40 Him:WH 38 (M)12 years; (T)18 years -2 DD: 17; 4; 1 DS: 9
Separated, headed for Divorce-he's not strong enough for me
'Everytime you get up and get back in the race, one more small piece of you starts to fall into place.' -

Posts: 530 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Hampton, VA
amomof4
New Member
Member # 46140
Default  Posted: 5:32 AM, December 30th (Tuesday)

December 5th

Posts: 8 | Registered: Dec 2014
Not.the.Big.Easy
Member
Member # 2569
Default  Posted: 2:21 PM, December 30th (Tuesday)

January 9th


Me: BH (44)
Her: WW (37)(EAish)
Dday 7/23/14
Dday #2 9/9/14
TT #1 10/4/14
TT #2 10/14/14
Doubt I have the whole truth
now just waiting for D

Posts: 167 | Registered: Oct 2003 | From: Vermont
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 8:41 AM, December 31st (Wednesday)

Got the new ones, thankyou!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Neverwudaguessed
Member
Member # 41884
Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, December 31st (Wednesday)

October 7th.


BW: 44 Me
WH:48
DDay1 9-9-13 (18th Wedding Anniversary) 6 wk EA, 1 wk PA
DDay2: 10-25-13 EA/PA with same OW 14 1/2 years ago for 2 or 3 months
OW: XGF Predator who never stopped pursuing WH
DS 15
DD 13

Posts: 1385 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: New York
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, December 31st (Wednesday)

Updated list as of today


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
ash79
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Member # 45981
Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, January 8th (Thursday)

August 4

Posts: 152 | Registered: Dec 2014
GiveTimeTime
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Member # 45868
Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, January 8th (Thursday)

April 17


Me: 47, Him: 55
Married 14 years, together 19.
D-day: 3/6/14
Me; loving, devoted, faithful wife
Him: lying, cheating, wh0re fu€king john
6/4/15 - Divorced. Done. I wasn't kidding, asshole.


Posts: 242 | Registered: Dec 2014 | From: So Cal
crackedvase
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Member # 46506
Default  Posted: 12:44 AM, January 26th (Monday)

June 14th. I will be 34


BS/WW- Me 33
BS/WH- Him 38
Married 9yrs, Together 12yr
His D-Day 9-22-14 LTA 3 months
My D-Day 9-23-14 Revenge ONS
2 Boys 10 months, 2.5yrs

Posts: 4 | Registered: Jan 2015 | From: Orlando, Fl
Whoa
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Member # 46523
Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, January 26th (Monday)

Jan 15


Is there a can of fix-a-flat for that?

Posts: 8 | Registered: Jan 2015 | From: pa
healingroad
Member
Member # 41920
Default  Posted: 1:18 PM, February 2nd (Monday)

Today, feb 2.


BH, STBXWW
M 20 years
Divorce Pending

Posts: 1345 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, February 2nd (Monday)

Updated as of today.


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Whoami15
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Member # 46342
Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, February 2nd (Monday)

August 27

Posts: 23 | Registered: Jan 2015 | From: Brisbane, Australia
UnhappyOhio
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Member # 29670
Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, February 3rd (Tuesday)

My birthday is August 9, 1963

Posts: 4 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: OHIO
ImStillwaiting
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Member # 12580
Default  Posted: 8:28 AM, February 6th (Friday)

February 18th


♥ Me: 30

♥ HiM: 31

♥ Married:9 years

♥Kids: 9 year old DS 6 year old DD 3 year old DS♥


Posts: 473 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: NY
earthangel
Member
Member # 44357
Default  Posted: 12:33 PM, February 6th (Friday)

March 31st


Never regret. If it's good, it's wonderful. If its bad - it's experience.

Posts: 384 | Registered: Aug 2014 | From: England
matthesax
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Member # 42724
Default  Posted: 5:25 AM, February 9th (Monday)

March 31


Don't look back unless you can smile, don't look forward unless you can dream.

Posts: 57 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: england
HenryIIX
Member
Member # 46173
Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, February 9th (Monday)

April 27


BS - Me (43) WS - Him (43)
Married 16 yrs, together 22 yrs
DDay - 12/26/14
Working on R, so far so good

~ Damaged people are dangerous. They know they can survive.


Posts: 603 | Registered: Jan 2015 | From: Midwest
Lowlow
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Member # 38653
Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, February 11th (Wednesday)

February 14. Sigh, the most hated day on this site


Me (BS) 43 Him (FWS) 44
AP#2 (LTA EA/PA) DD #1 16 Feb 2013
AP#1 (LTA EA with my BF) DD #2 16 Nov 2013
Married 12 years, T 20 years
Reconciling

Posts: 415 | Registered: Mar 2013
matthesax
Member
Member # 42724
Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, February 16th (Monday)

Sorry Lowlow

Not your fault, and now it's someone's birthday instead!javascript:AddSmily('%20%20')


Don't look back unless you can smile, don't look forward unless you can dream.

Posts: 57 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: england
CATransplant
Member
Member # 39567
Default  Posted: 4:30 PM, February 16th (Monday)

Febraury 18


Me BS
H FWS
M 3/27/12 together since 06'
A EA/PA 4/19/13/5/26/13
DD 6/12/13
Forced NC 6/13/13
MOW coworker-caught,TT for six months.

Posts: 155 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: United States
Mike26
Member
Member # 45062
Default  Posted: 11:54 PM, February 16th (Monday)

Feb. 26 I'll turn the big 3-0


WS, CSA survivor
Dday 9/13/14

"Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage." -Anais Nin


Posts: 136 | Registered: Sep 2014
bdb84
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Member # 46809
Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, February 17th (Tuesday)

December 31st


Me/BW (30)
WH (30)
Separated ("ILY but am no longer in love w/ you")- 01/15
DDay- 02/15
Three kids (8, 5, newborn)

Posts: 24 | Registered: Feb 2015 | From: United States
NiagaraLax15
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Member # 46936
Default  Posted: 5:01 PM, February 25th (Wednesday)

May 6th!


Together: 12 yrs,Married: 9.5
1 Stepson (22), 1 son (9)
Filed for divorce prior to DDay- AP was a major factor in her filing - I didn't know he even existed!
Discovered Affair: 4/2/14 - old bf who dumped her.
Divorce Finalized: 8/7/14

Posts: 52 | Registered: Feb 2015 | From: United States (Western NYS)
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Cool  Posted: 5:21 AM, March 1st (Sunday)

Updated to here.

And to matthesax, that was very kind of you to try to make Lowlow feel better.


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
LuvsMeLuvsMeNot
Member
Member # 44963
Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, March 2nd (Monday)

February 22nd here


BW (ME) 53
FWH (HIM) 54
Married 26 1/2 Years
DD-25 DS-23
Dump-Day FEB 2012 2yr EA Exgf Contacted Him Via FB
OW/Exgf-52-TrailerTrash Slutdumpster Who ONLY Cheats W/ MM!
7/4/2015 UPDATE:Karma Gave Me My Wish & Kicked OW 5 States Away!

Posts: 313 | Registered: Sep 2014 | From: Midwest
globetrotter
Member
Member # 46685
Default  Posted: 7:58 AM, March 7th (Saturday)

April 20


D-Day: January 17, 2015
Me: 41
WH: 40
DS: 3
Friends for 27 years, married for 14
Blindsided by WH's confession of workplace affair while living abroad. DS and I are starting anew back home while WH continues to live in outer space.

Posts: 208 | Registered: Feb 2015 | From: WA
Didact
Member
Member # 42867
Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, March 10th (Tuesday)

September 20 for me. Will be 51 this next time.


No matter how painful, life either adapts or it dies.

BH (Me) 49
WW 48
Married 1985
D-Day Mar 19, 2014
1 year passionate EA/PA, ended by me on d-day.
Attempting to R


Posts: 436 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: PNW
Jomarion
Member
Member # 43659
Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, March 10th (Tuesday)

Mine is March 16. I will be 55! Holy Mackeral!


me:BGF, 54, American immigrant. one son. me and my ex get along great, the most amicable split imaginable!
him:WBF,43, Polish immigrant
together since 2006,
DDay:October28,2009,after his 3 teen kids push him to cheat with OW.
5 betrayed me

Posts: 287 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: UK
sandrac
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Member # 45208
Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, March 13th (Friday)

My birthday is today. 13 March.

Posts: 144 | Registered: Oct 2014 | From: hollywood, Florida
Rampage0409
Member
Member # 47087
Default  Posted: 10:11 AM, March 15th (Sunday)

February 20


Me: 31
WH: 34
OW: Ho Worker aka Cumm Catching Whore
DDay: March 5, 2015
Married: 8 years
Together: 15 years
"Does the knife in my back make my ass look big?"

Posts: 95 | Registered: Mar 2015 | From: Pits of Hell, TN
SadieMae
Member
Member # 42986
Default  Posted: 1:34 PM, March 18th (Wednesday)

December 27th :)


Me: BW 41
Him: SAWH 41 (FlawedBroken)
Together half our lives.
D-day 3/9/2014
TT until 2/2015

Posts: 380 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Sweet Tea in the Shade
crushedinpa
Member
Member # 46787
Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, March 20th (Friday)

Today March 20th for me.


Me 45: BS
Him 45: WS
M 20 yrs with 1 DD and 11 year old twin DS
D-Day 1/28/2015 (1.5 mos. affair) EA/some PA (his TT story)
In R (I think)

Posts: 242 | Registered: Feb 2015
turtlehead
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Member # 45845
Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, March 24th (Tuesday)

May 1 I'll be 37, my kids call me old and I believe them.

Posts: 16 | Registered: Dec 2014 | From: OKC
Riskybusiness
Member
Member # 43475
Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, March 26th (Thursday)

October 23


Me-40
Him-no longer matters
Married 22 years
DD-20, DD-18, DS-16, DD-12
DIVORCED

Rejoice in hope, persevere in tribulation, be devoted to prayer. Romans 12:12


Posts: 157 | Registered: May 2014 | From: Oregon
mozi
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Member # 47041
Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, March 29th (Sunday)

April 22!

Posts: 232 | Registered: Mar 2015
Tatika80
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Member # 45923
Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, April 15th (Wednesday)

July 20th :)


Me~ BS 32
Him~WF 35
Together~16yrs Engaged~6yrs
3 boys~12,9,2
D~Day~3rd Nov 14, ONS (so he says) with COW no exact date approx 4yrs ago (again, so he says)
Working on Reconciling (I'm still unsure on if I'm gong to stay or not, it's

Posts: 46 | Registered: Dec 2014 | From: Western Australia
MrsZ
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Member # 47595
Content  Posted: 5:10 PM, April 19th (Sunday)

My birthday is August 1, I will be 33 this year

Posts: 1 | Registered: Apr 2015 | From: Pennsylvania
downtownblues
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Member # 45881
Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, April 22nd (Wednesday)

July 13th for me, not so sure that it is lucky though! Thanks

Posts: 22 | Registered: Dec 2014 | From: london ontario
BlueIris
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Member # 47551
Default  Posted: 4:46 AM, April 27th (Monday)

November 9
Dreading this year more than ever; will be a HUGE trigger day :(


“Don't tell me the moon is shining; show me the glint of light on broken glass.”
~Anton Chekhov

{ BS | M 17.5Y | DD 2.20.15 }


Posts: 514 | Registered: Apr 2015 | From: USA
inNOoutNOinNOout
Member
Member # 45092
Default  Posted: 5:19 PM, April 27th (Monday)

April 3! This year was 30, woohoo!


BS: Me 30
STBXWH: Him 32
DS: 2

"We Are As Healthy As We Are Ready To Take Responsibility For Our Own Thoughts And Behaviors"-Lynne Namka, Ed. D.


Posts: 388 | Registered: Oct 2014 | From: Louisiana
n1028
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Member # 47355
Default  Posted: 11:53 AM, May 1st (Friday)

July 9th


Me: B-GF
Him:W-EXBF
DDay- March 27, 2015

"Strangers become friends. Friends become lovers. Lovers become strangers. Strangers become friends once more, and over and over."


Posts: 17 | Registered: Mar 2015 | From: Florida, US
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, May 3rd (Sunday)

Updated to here


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
Reflective
Member
Member # 46262
Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, May 5th (Tuesday)

May 5th...Oh, that ominous tug between remembrance of your start at life and thoughts of downplaying the date for different reasons- mainly due to aging:)

Whther other people are around to help you celebrate or not, loving yourself means you have your own "unique" situation..you have your own life's history that only you can uniquely relate to. And for whatever reason(s)people either do or do not join you in that celebration that special "you", take the time to be kind and loving to yourself. You deserve the same outpouring of love that you have given to others -even when no one else is around. Celebrate your heart and how good it has been to so many others. Celebrate your humanity and be proud of your contribution to so many others'lives and the happiness and joy of those unselfish gestures. You don't realize just how much you've done. Yes- you have done so and I am here to tell you that :)

Happy Birthday!


Humans have the capacity to treat others with kindness, respect and love. When we stop practicing that basic thinking, we become open to actions that may tear another's heart to shreds.

Posts: 108 | Registered: Jan 2015
nogoodap1
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Member # 38595
Default  Posted: 10:31 PM, May 6th (Wednesday)

I hope I'm not over stepping boundaries here. But TrulySad's birthday is tomorrow (May 7th) and I want to know if she can be added to the list. I love her so dearly and I hope she has a wonderful day tomorrow.


Me: SAWBF
Her: BGF
Status: I'll let you know when I know. working on us and I'm becoming a whole new and improved me.
D-day #1 2-18-13
D-day #2 6-13-14
D-day #3 8-17-14
*Only PM with men, thanks*

Posts: 225 | Registered: Mar 2013
lost41
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Member # 46702
Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, May 30th (Saturday)

june 22 i will be 62

Posts: 15 | Registered: Feb 2015
Want2babettrme
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Member # 43291
Default  Posted: 6:42 PM, May 30th (Saturday)

My birthday is May 6. Just turned 56 y.o.


BC due to father's infidelity,
BBF due to WX fiance's infidelity while in LDR.
Probable BH as STBXW had an STD in 1st yr of M, we had unprotected PIV for yr and half prior. STBXW was only sex partner over the

Posts: 34 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: The Sunny South
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, May 31st (Sunday)

ON birthdays for friends:
=========================
We really only do a birthday if they want to have a cake, themselves.
If you want, feel free to give them a cake on here, yourself, if they are not on the general list. There is a help thread on how to post pictures in FAQ.
I don't mind.
But I myself would not do one unless asked. Sometimes people dont like to have them acknowledged for whatever reason. I'd hate to step on toes.


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Cool  Posted: 9:30 PM, May 31st (Sunday)

updated to here.

Remember now I have my June list.
If you want to be added for June, make a note here, and I'll try to check on a weekly basis.
Thanks!

BR

[This message edited by BrokenRoad at 9:48 PM, May 31st (Sunday)]


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
sullymeishadomi
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Member # 16305
Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, May 31st (Sunday)

February 26


Time to be my own bff.

Posts: 9309 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: NJ
nme1
Member
Member # 44360
Default  Posted: 6:14 AM, June 8th (Monday)

June 9


Me: BS
Him: WS
M 13 yrs with 2 DS 9 & 4
D-Day 6th March 2014
In R

Posts: 535 | Registered: Aug 2014 | From: Australia
NorthernDark
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Member # 47980
Default  Posted: 10:24 PM, June 16th (Tuesday)

I guess I haven't been part of "the club" long enough to have had my birthday added to the list....tomorrow is my BIG 40!!! It's my first birthday alone...but I have had many of friends and family members already make it memorable...
Here's to "the new 30"!!!!

Posts: 8 | Registered: May 2015 | From: Toronto, Canada
lilies21
Member
Member # 35833
Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, June 18th (Thursday)

A little late but mine is coming up: June 21.

Thanks!


Me: 33; DH: 33. Married since 2003. 5-year-old son.
Many D-Days for excessive porn, Craigslist ads, and EAs/PAs. Divorcing.

Posts: 2186 | Registered: Jun 2012
strongerdaybyday
Member
Member # 40264
Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, June 18th (Thursday)

December 4


Me-BW Him - WH
Married 6 years, together 15 years
3 awesome and beautiful children
OC discovered on Dday - born in 2005
D-Day Summer 2013

working towards D...I can't pretend anymore

**If I edit I'm correcting a typo!**


Posts: 509 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
Exit Wounds
Member
Member # 32811
Default  Posted: 2:02 PM, June 18th (Thursday)

December 18 I will be 29...again.

Posts: 2551 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: With my dad...and my dogs.
JanetS
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Member # 2766
Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, June 19th (Friday)

Happy birthday to me! Today is my 63rd birthday. :)

Posts: 2774 | Registered: Nov 2003 | From: Niagara-on-the-Lake, Canada
serious
Member
Member # 46176
Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, June 26th (Friday)

June 10th. just turned 42.


Me(BS):41
WW:39 (lesbian AP friend's wife)
DDay: 10/22/14 confronted 4/9/15
DD-8 DS-11
Divorcing

Posts: 59 | Registered: Jan 2015 | From: New England
TheRealDeal
Member
Member # 39560
Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, June 29th (Monday)

November 10


Me (BS): 46 him (ws): 54
together 18 years
DDay1, DDay2, Dday 3: March thru June 2013
Dday4 - June 13 2015
False R
Never lose yourself trying to hang onto someone who doesn't care about losing you.

Posts: 393 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Northeast
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Funny  Posted: 9:21 PM, June 30th (Tuesday)

updated to here.
So much for checking weekly, that didnt happen!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
SMSA925
Member
Member # 43955
Default  Posted: 7:46 AM, July 7th (Tuesday)

Today is my 57th B'day. Yay. 🎂🎈🎉😢


Me: BS; 56
Him: WH 62
Together 32 yrs, Married 20
DDay April 17, 2014

Posts: 416 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Phila. PA
SMSA925
Member
Member # 43955
Default  Posted: 7:46 AM, July 7th (Tuesday)

Today is my 57th B'day. Yay. 🎂🎈🎉😢


Me: BS; 56
Him: WH 62
Together 32 yrs, Married 20
DDay April 17, 2014

Posts: 416 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Phila. PA
gggg
Member
Member # 48533
Default  Posted: 2:12 AM, July 9th (Thursday)

August 3.


Me: BW, I celebrate anniversaries of my 39th!
Him: WH, 63
Married: 30 years
D-day: 5/28/15,EA/PA
-------------
There is a difference between giving up and knowing when you've had enough.

Posts: 62 | Registered: Jul 2015 | From: Middle America
daybreaker
Member
Member # 48244
Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, July 18th (Saturday)

July 29th!


BW (me) 38
WH (him) 39 (deday76)
Married 10/8/11
adopted my kids (12&14)
Dday #1 5/27/15 with TT
Dday #2 6/15/15 full truth on OW#2 but not the other A's
Dday #3 6/16/15 full truth, told about EA and OW#1
Tried R, couldn't forgive, now D

Posts: 275 | Registered: Jun 2015
BrokenRoad
Member
Member # 15334
Default  Posted: 9:25 PM, July 29th (Wednesday)

Updated to here.
Get ready for August birthdays!!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 8 & 13
Reconciled :)
Go to your house. --MH

Posts: 11279 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
SilverEagle
Member
Member # 47380
Default  Posted: 11:21 PM, July 31st (Friday)

October 17th!


Me:56 BH
WW:54
Married 24 years, 15year EA, 2year PA
DDay:3/11/15, 48hour TT
NC:immediate and ongoing
3 adult DS's: His, Hers, and Ours
In an optimistic R
"I refuse to take on the Victim role."

Posts: 85 | Registered: Mar 2015 | From: West Central Florida
brokenyrs
Member
Member # 46554
Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, August 6th (Thursday)

Today..... the big 45


Me:BW
Him: WH
Too many Ddays to count and even more women

Being honest may not get you many friends, but it'll always get you the right one. - John Lennon


Posts: 196 | Registered: Jan 2015 | From: Canada
barryj
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Member # 48864
Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, August 8th (Saturday)

Mine is july 15th-just turned 30


30Yrs old w/26 yr old gf of 4+ yrs-i. suspect her of cheating-off and on for 2yrs-but already confronted her and was lied to.now she's a world class concealer of her infidelity,but her obvious guilt right after gives her away

Posts: 8 | Registered: Aug 2015 | From: tacoma wa
burningmidnight
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Member # 48917
Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, August 12th (Wednesday)

June 2nd.


Per aspera ad astra

Posts: 35 | Registered: Aug 2015 | From: Virginia
mavis13simpson
Member
Member # 47394
Default  Posted: 9:24 PM, August 13th (Thursday)

Today. August 13


DDAY: Feb 9, 2015
ME: BSO 49
HIM : XWSO 44
Together: 6 years

“We are our own dragons as well as our own heroes, and we have to rescue ourselves from ourselves.”
-Tom Robbins


Posts: 251 | Registered: Apr 2015 | From: ohio
risingfromashes
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Member # 3903
Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, August 13th (Thursday)

[This message edited by risingfromashes at 9:46 PM, August 13th (Thursday)]


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1925 | Registered: Mar 2004
risingfromashes
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Member # 3903
Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, August 13th (Thursday)

[This message edited by risingfromashes at 9:47 PM, August 13th (Thursday)]


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1925 | Registered: Mar 2004
risingfromashes
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Member # 3903
Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, August 13th (Thursday)

My birthday is December 24th. A tough time of year to remember a birthday but would love and appreciate a post from my SI family!


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1925 | Registered: Mar 2004
risingfromashes
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Member # 3903
Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, August 13th (Thursday)

[This message edited by risingfromashes at 9:48 PM, August 13th (Thursday)]


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1925 | Registered: Mar 2004
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, August 13th (Thursday)

[This message edited by risingfromashes at 9:44 PM, August 13th (Thursday)]


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1925 | Registered: Mar 2004
regretandshame
Member
Member # 48463
Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, August 15th (Saturday)

August 27 I'll be 30.


fWW:30 fBH: 34 (brokenbuthealed)
XBf/OM: 32
DD: 9 DS 18M
Started Dating: February 2009
D-Day: August 13 2013
Reconciled: October 2013
Getting Married: November 7 2015

Posts: 208 | Registered: Jul 2015
WowItsReallyReal
Member
Member # 46075
Default  Posted: 12:47 AM, August 19th (Wednesday)

#48 coming up on Sept.4!


Me 47
STBXWH 49
M 28 yrs
DS27 & DD24

3/02 PA MCoW1
10/12 ILYBINILWY,IHS
6/30/14 PA MCoW2= LTA 2011-now
12/31/14 I filed D
3/21/15 I move out &
OW hires STBX a D lawyer
6/15 I'm HPV+
7/5/15 OW living @ our house
7/13/15 I get a Lawyer


Posts: 808 | Registered: Dec 2014 | From: CA
UnlovedAndBroked
Member
Member # 47870
Default  Posted: 11:00 PM, August 20th (Thursday)

September 19.


DDay - April 10, 2015
BH - 32
WW - Eating my dust
Married - 10 Years
Son - 18
Divorced and starting over.

Posts: 479 | Registered: May 2015 | From: North Richland Hills, TX
Deirdre
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Member # 49100
Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, August 22nd (Saturday)

January 17, I'll be 38 next year

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