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WhiteWolfWinning
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Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, January 7th (Monday)

I haven't been posting much, but I've been around.

I've been wondering about:
Willowiris?
Marzipan?
Hope24?

Does anybody know how these folks - or any other MIA NB folks are doing?

Wolf

Mods - any chance you might correct my spelling in the Topic?

[This message edited by WhiteWolfWinning at 4:54 PM, January 7th (Monday)]


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 4:59 PM, January 7th (Monday)

Tamarack
Tammy Jean and GSG


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 5:02 PM, January 7th (Monday)

Fixed the title

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 5:02 PM, January 7th (Monday)

Willow was on last week.

Marzipan is no longer on SI. She was banned for starting a thread that was solely for political talk.

Hope was on today.

[This message edited by jo2love at 5:27 PM, January 7th (Monday)]


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WhiteWolfWinning
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Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, January 7th (Monday)

Thanks for fixing the title, Jo2!
Clearly, I haven't been around much if I missed willow and hope being here so recently!


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, January 7th (Monday)

Tamarack hasn't been on in a few mos.

Tammy Jean100 was on over the weekend.

gsg?


[This message edited by jo2love at 5:23 PM, January 7th (Monday)]


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Hope24
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Default  Posted: 5:26 PM, January 7th (Monday)

Hi Wolfie.

I''m here. Just not much to say lately.


She packed up her potential and all she had learned and headed out to change a few things.

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Catwoman
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Default  Posted: 5:29 PM, January 7th (Monday)

Good to see you both, Hope and Wolfie!

Cat


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WhiteWolfWinning
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Default  Posted: 5:29 PM, January 7th (Monday)

Good to see you, Hope!


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rcantbleveit
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Default  Posted: 5:29 PM, January 7th (Monday)

I saw willowiris a few nights ago and she was doing quiet well.

She looks good, has a great attitude and seems happy


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Hope24
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Default  Posted: 5:31 PM, January 7th (Monday)

Hi Cat.


She packed up her potential and all she had learned and headed out to change a few things.

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WhiteWolfWinning
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Default  Posted: 5:45 PM, January 7th (Monday)

Cat,
We posted at the same time. Always good to see you!
Red Sox Nation?
Polar checked in awhile back after a long absence. Has he been back?


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 5:48 PM, January 7th (Monday)

She was ASG (Afraid She's Gone) when she signed on. We changed it to GSG (Glad She's Gone). :)


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20 years of OWs, WTF?
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to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, January 7th (Monday)

I still want to hear about Captain America. I've been waiting patiently for a long time.


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Dark Inertia
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Default  Posted: 6:51 PM, January 7th (Monday)

Pink Carnation was someone I was following for a long time. The first story I read was Geek Girl... last I heard her husband was reading her threads and had gone back to OW... never heard anything from her again.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, January 7th (Monday)

I still want to hear about Captain America. I've been waiting patiently for a long time
Yeah, me too. I miss Lisa. She had the best writing style.


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trumanshow
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Default  Posted: 8:36 PM, January 7th (Monday)

I think Marzipan was banned over a political posting


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GullibleGirl
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Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, January 7th (Monday)

Pink Carnation was someone I was following for a long time.

Dark Inertia....I don't mean to intrude on your guys' thread, but I have a little info that you were wondering about.

Pink's D was final last year and she and her girls are moving forward. Haven't spoken to her in quite some time, but believe it or not, Glitterpig turned out to have been mislead and taken in by Pink's XWH, and she made peace with Glitter.

From what I can tell, she is enjoying her job and life in general.


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BrideisGone
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Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, January 7th (Monday)

Been here since 2006 or so... drama is cool once in while... checked back in make sure I never go through with any heart ache again.. I no longer have hangovers, headaches, and SCREAM free life... Really impressed with what I created in my Marriage and what it has now become... she thinks she is SUPER SINGLE MOM and the "only" woman who parades in greed(YA RIGHT)... you gotta see the u tube demo... anyway... after the trauma healed I have to pop in once in while... GOOD stuff!!.. Be Happy Joyous and free.. Everyone!! Much easier!!

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Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, January 7th (Monday)

Any updates on Alexmama?


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okaynow
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Default  Posted: 11:06 PM, January 7th (Monday)

Basic_guy? Bpositive?


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island_girl
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Default  Posted: 11:49 PM, January 7th (Monday)

ahem. I'm here.

You can all simmer down now.


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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 11:55 PM, January 7th (Monday)

I had forgotten about Pink Carnation. Glad for the update, thanks.

Still miss Marzi and wish Lisa would come back and update us.


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OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 12:20 AM, January 8th (Tuesday)

island_girl, 'fess up, have you been lurking?

You'll be pleased to know I'm just as neurotic as ever. It's comforting to know some things never change.

I'll add GroundZero to the list of "where'd they go?" Always thought she was a brave soul, being a FWS that swam the General Forum waters.

[This message edited by OnceInALifetime at 12:23 AM, January 8th (Tuesday)]


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island_girl
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Default  Posted: 12:30 AM, January 8th (Tuesday)

nope, OIAL, I just have impeccable timing. :) I am glad to know that you haven't lost that neurotic feeling though. I can't imagine how you'd live with yourself otherwise. (for the record, I'm a fan that your neurosis led you to edit that 3 sentence post just 3 minutes after you posted it).

I'm connected with GZ on the book of faces and last time we talked, she was doing great!


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OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 1:07 AM, January 8th (Tuesday)

Hah, what you didn't know is that I edited it *twice* within three minutes.


BH, now divorced

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need_hope
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Default  Posted: 5:35 AM, January 8th (Tuesday)

CluelessBlonde? Has anybody seen her?

There was also the one poster (I wish I could remember her name) who was posting about how she thought her WH had possibly tried to hire someone to kill her. And then she stopped posting. Does anybody remember her name and has anyone heard from her?


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Filed for D 1/10
DIVORCED 12/12

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island_girl
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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, January 8th (Tuesday)

oial, if you needed to edit it twice, I'm surprised you didn't edit your 3 sentences 3 times in 3 minutes. Just to stick with the threme.


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stupidstupidme
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Default  Posted: 9:54 AM, January 8th (Tuesday)

I am friends with B+ and Willow on FB. They both are around and seem to be well :)

I often wonder about CB. Kidsbane was close with her here, and I recently asked her if she's heard from her, and she hasn't. I really wish she'd check in


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WhiteWolfWinning
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Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, January 8th (Tuesday)

island girl,
So good to hear from you! I have wondered about you.. and so many of the others mentioned.

I trust if anyone had heard from New York Jerry, we'd know...

Wolf


Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens


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OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 11:01 AM, January 8th (Tuesday)

island_girl, would you edit your post please?

You had a typo, and it's really bothering me (threme).


BH, now divorced

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Fireball72
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, January 8th (Tuesday)

I've been wondering about iwantamiracle for a while. Hope she's doing well.


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aesir
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Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, January 8th (Tuesday)

island_girl, would you edit your post please?
You had a typo, and it's really bothering me (threme).


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


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Helen of Troy
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Default  Posted: 5:12 PM, January 8th (Tuesday)

I'm concerned about SkeerdButHopeful.

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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 5:32 PM, January 8th (Tuesday)

need_hope,
You're thinking of BetrayedByLove. She's alive and doing as best as she can. She stopped coming to SI due to OW stalking issues. She tried to get a PPO against her, but the case failed. :(


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persevere
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, January 8th (Tuesday)

Great update to see that some of those who were actively posting when I first joined almost two years ago are alive and well. Life does go on after infidelity and SI offers so much support and a whole new family in some respects.


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Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

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It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
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island_girl
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Default  Posted: 8:15 PM, January 8th (Tuesday)

But I left that extra "r" there just for you!


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OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, January 8th (Tuesday)

Oh, I get it know:

three -> threme

Play on words? Please tell me you meant it that way. Then I'll be able to stop chewing my nails.


BH, now divorced

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island_girl
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Default  Posted: 12:23 AM, January 9th (Wednesday)

Yep. It was supposed to be a very bad pun...

And WWW, it's good to see you on here still too!


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need_hope
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Default  Posted: 7:45 AM, January 9th (Wednesday)

Thanks little turtle. I've been worried about her but couldn't remember the user name.


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Him - no longer matters
Married 28 yrs
Filed for D 1/10
DIVORCED 12/12

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Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

I have. *Waving hand in the air*

I wondered about LisaBrandNew and Marzi.

Is there somewhere in the forums that tell you who has been banned and why so that I don't make the same mistake.

I mostly lurk in D/S and NB.
I would also like to know if there is a way that you can follow certain posters.
It seems like some posters get way more responses than I do when I post.

Just wondering.


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Kids: twins DD(10)
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Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 12:27 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

banned and why so that I don't make the same mistake

Lola,

Basically, what I have found is that if you treat people with respect, respect their opinions and respectfully disagree when appropriate without making personal attacks you will be OK. Also don't talk politics or religion. If you have a question just ask for a Mod and they will help you.

I've been disappointed too that many of my posts don't receive too many comments, although the best was when I only got a few hugs when I was really triggering. Those hugs meant more than a dozen opinions that day.

I've heard that if you put "TMI", "sex" or "off the bus" in your title it will attract a lot of attention


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smokeandmirrors
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Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

I haven't been on for awhile and just came on today because I found a very helpful quote from my therapist I wanted to post in JFO.

I lurked more than I posted. Same story as most of you. 34 year marriage down the tubes. D final 2 years ago. I'm very comfortable by myself, a bit lonely but enjoying solitude. Tried web dating for 3 months and had zero dates. When you're over 60 and female, it's slim pickens. It's truly a couples world...even some of my girlfriends aren't as close because they spend weekends with spouses or sig others.

Just became a grandma, and put my house on the market last week to move closer to my daughter and new DGS.

I think what I enjoyed most was all the cute quotes and taglines. I made a journal list of them all and still read them on low days. Some of you are pretty good writers, and all were good friends when I needed some. Thanks.

Quote I'm putting on FJO: "Every moment that you spend upset, despaired, anguished, angry or gurt because of the behavior of anybody else in your life is a moment in which you've given up control of your life."


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Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

Thanks gahurts!!

Sometimes I just respond to lonely posts that I see sitting with no responses. Even if I don't have anything very helpful to say.

This all sucks and I give what support I can.


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Kids: twins DD(10)
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Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

Lola-read the Guidelines and the pinned notes at the top of each forum. From those resources you can glean most of the information that will keep you from getting banned. Also, if you feel anything is questionable, you can always request a PM from a mod before you post.


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sad12008
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Default  Posted: 1:32 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

I'm not in a NB, but I realized there hasn't been anything from Crossbow in a while....maybe just really busy with the baby?


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Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

Thanks Sad.

I'm a follow the rules kind of girl and I ask so that I don't cross the line.

I read the Guidlines and of course there is the NO POLITICS right up at the top of this post screen.

I was just wondering if some of the poofers have actually been banned and if there is a list of those that have been banned to warn everyone to mind their P's and Q's.


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D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
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Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

Neither Lost333 nor DontTreadOnMe have posted since November/beginning Dec. Hope all is OK. They were going through some very tough times.


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

Crossbow is doing well; I don't know whether he's posted lately or not. Busy with the kids, naturally. Baby Girl is adorable as ever.


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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

Lola,

There is no published list of banned members. If you have questions about anyone, feel free to PM a mod


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aesir
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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

I've heard that if you put "TMI", "sex" or "off the bus" in your title it will attract a lot of attention
So will the term BOB.

As for how not to get banned, I would add the following, which is probably the most important part. Don't be a dick in PM's with the moderators. Don't publicly post things to or about moderators that would be considered being a dick if it was in a PM.

Whatever you do, don't do it regularly. I think I have infrequently broken most of the rules, including the ones I just added above.


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 3:02 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

Crossbow was banned, as was Marzipan to answer Lola's first question.


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aesir
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Default  Posted: 3:10 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

Whaaaa????
I missed that!!!


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 3:20 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

Crossbow is not banned.



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aesir
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Default  Posted: 3:25 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

Crossbow is not banned.
But Sad in AZ's PM box is full.

I was wondering if his thread about cloth diapers was considered political or something.


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 3:41 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

Sorry! He told me himself that he was...


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

I was wondering if his thread about cloth diapers was considered political or something.

Hahahaha

Aesir you crack me up.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 9:31 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

Sad, I understood it was reversed after a conversation about what happened.


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bpositive
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Content  Posted: 10:14 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)

Hi! Thanks for thinking of me. I do check in periodically.

Nothing to post of late. Working a lot and just being happy with life. Chaired a fundraising walk which doubled the goal. Keeping life in balance which is wonderful.

[This message edited by bpositive at 10:14 PM, January 9th (Wednesday)]


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Default  Posted: 12:14 AM, January 10th (Thursday)

L2HM,

Sneaking in here...

Lost333 is fine and doing well. Taking time for herself and healing.


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trumanshow
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Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, January 10th (Thursday)

also-from what I've noticed-the banned members received warning(s) that they then ignored...


Your ex wanting to be friends is like asking a kidnapper to stay in touch when they let you go.

The type of fierce loyalty that I possess made me incapable of comprehending the level of disloyalty that he possessed


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cass
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, January 10th (Thursday)

I sometimes have thoughts about

amott - I think she was heading for divorce. She had three beautiful little girls. I hope she is doing well.

betterdaysahead - I think she needed to take break from SI. I hope she is making good progress too. Anyone hear from her?

jooby - I wonder if she was able to reconcile with her H?

wymylady used to post from time to time but not seen anything for a while.

howcouldhe1 - haven't heard or seen anything from her for ages. Hope she is thriving.

I miss simplydevastated and wish her well.

Oh I hope dear Crossbow wasn't banned :(

Basicguy gave me great support when I first came here.

Oh and I really miss 'Chief'

[This message edited by cass at 4:26 PM, January 10th (Thursday)]


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4965 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
hill
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Default  Posted: 7:05 PM, January 10th (Thursday)

I've been around this week after another hobby forum I frequent had a thread about infidelity. Made me wonder about old "friends" here.

Mostly LizXJS. It was one of her posts that finally got me to register here and post.

I was sad to see JoePike is having some trouble in his new marriage- I was really rooting for him. I hope all is worked through and they find happiness :)

At this point I am taking long breaks from SI, occasionally popping in. However, I find when I visit here I mentally go back to that pretty painful time. I'm very happy in my new life and I don't want that energy coming back, so not sure how much longer I can lurk. But I do like to see the old familiar "faces."

[This message edited by hill at 7:05 PM, January 10th (Thursday)]


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Edie
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, January 13th (Sunday)

@ Cass,

Crossbow doesn't look very banned to me:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=478594&AP=21&HL=



Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 DDs 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) Feb 09 16 other OW confessed. OW17 tried her unedifying hardest until Aug 09. R'd.

Posts: 5120 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
cayc
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Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, January 13th (Sunday)

Has anyone heard from ElisabethAnn? Or know how she is? She hasn't posted in a year.


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, January 13th (Sunday)

Elisabeth Ann was banned due to making multiple generalizations and attacking a mod.

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Cookie7088
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Default  Posted: 3:04 PM, January 13th (Sunday)

I still miss Marzipan....her little "story" things were soooo funny...made you forget your problems for a brief minute! I never forget "three cheese lasagna"..."suck a golf ball though a garden hose"....and "soulmate shmoopies"....

...Oh, those were the days!!

[This message edited by Cookie7088 at 3:08 PM, January 13th (Sunday)]


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jamiep
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Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, January 17th (Thursday)

whatever happened to damncutekitty? her posts always made me laugh


Me: BS
Him: WH
Together 8 years, even surviving 19 months of separation while he was in Iraq
D-day: 5/16/07 (12 hours after I gave birth to our second child)
5/17/07- I kicked him out

D filed on 7/5/07. FINALLY final on 10/13/09


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, January 17th (Thursday)

I miss simplydevastated and wish her well

She's doing ok. We just talked on the phone last night.

Circumstances are not optimal, but she's still got her lovely sense of humor and great big heart.


The best way to cheer yourself up is to try and cheer someone else up. - Mark Twain

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 4:41 PM, January 17th (Thursday)

damncutekitty was in the D/S forum today.

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completeshock
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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, January 17th (Thursday)

Has anyone heard from TrainerCarrie?


Sometimes you have to forget what you want and remember what you deserve.

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cass
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Default  Posted: 2:21 PM, January 18th (Friday)

Thanks Jrazz for reassurance about simplydevastated. I'm glad she's doing ok.

Anyone hear from Lost in Space? She had beautiful sons. I hope she is doing ok too.


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


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TrainerCarrie
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Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, January 18th (Friday)

Hey! I heard someone was asking about me :)

I'm doing good, I still read from time to time. Not dating anyone, just focusing on me and Teeny who is now 4! I'm losing weight! 24 lbs so far. I can't venture into the other forums too much. I feel it kept me from moving forward, but I check on this one often. I pray for you too, even if you don't do the prayer thing.

Besides being unemployed, which has been a mixed blessing and in the middle of a lawsuit with my former employer. Life is good.


Sometimes giving up something you want is the kindest thing you can do for yourself.

Never, ever date your neighbor.


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TrainerCarrie
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, January 18th (Friday)

If you are on FB pm me and we can be friends :) and I always read my PM's on here. I just don't post much.

[This message edited by TrainerCarrie at 7:32 PM, January 18th (Friday)]


Sometimes giving up something you want is the kindest thing you can do for yourself.

Never, ever date your neighbor.


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Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 8:22 AM, January 19th (Saturday)

Has anyone spoken with unfound lately? I think of her often. She's who I want to grow up to be; she has inspired me to be a better person


Me: FBW/30 Him: FWH/33 The kidlets: DS13, DS10, and DD8 The hounds: Four Shih Tzu's
Finally, completely R'd
Clothed in strength and dignity, with nothing to fear, she smiles when she thinks about the future.~Proverbs 31:25

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, January 19th (Saturday)

I miss unfound and hope she's doing well...she is one of the nicest people ever to come to SI


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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WhiteWolfWinning
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Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, January 22nd (Tuesday)

Great to see you check in, TC!

I miss unfound, too!

Another MIA person I just thought about: Squiffle.

Please check in, oh wise and funny one?

Wolf


Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:53 AM, January 23rd (Wednesday)

When we asked Squiffle privately to please stop making fun of the SI members on her blog, she requested her account here to be disabled.


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weimylady
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Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, January 23rd (Wednesday)

@cass

I'm still here... Lurking as per usual
:)

Thank you for remembering me!

Wei


I edit to correct my mistakes - and there are usually mistakes ....

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WhiteWolfWinning
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Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, January 23rd (Wednesday)

Oh my, Jo2love! That makes me sad (that she woul do that). I'm so glad the mods look out for the folks here at SI.
Wolf


Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 6:32 AM, January 24th (Thursday)

We care about our SI family.

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SkeerdButHopeful
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Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, January 28th (Monday)

Will Get By, thank you for your concern. You're so sweet. I've just been taking a break. The judge ordered no contact from WH, and he has, for the most part, complied. Nothing major at this time, thank God.


Me BS45. XWH44 NPD. M 8 yrs. DD8. Dday 1/26/10. DIVORCED 5/16/11. Harassment charges twice. Judge ordered NCO for 1 yr, as well as parenting & anger mgmt classes. NCO has since expired, so harassment continues disguised as concern for DD.

Posts: 802 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: USA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, January 28th (Monday)

Skeerd!!! I'm so pleased you checked in with us. You're always in the back of my mind...

((((hugs))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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punky
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Default  Posted: 11:46 PM, January 28th (Monday)

I'm wishing there were "like" buttons on SI after reading this thread.


Be a lion, not a mowess...
The Cowardly Lion

Posts: 11295 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: A whole 'nother country
watchtheskyy
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Member # 34197
Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, June 22nd (Saturday)

I'm just seeing this...but what about the girl who's wh was living in a van across the street? We were both going through this mess with newborns so I checked in on her story now and then.


The first step to living the life you want is leaving the life you don't want.

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damncutekitty
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Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

whatever happened to damncutekitty? her posts always made me laugh

I pop in occasionally. I read a lot more than I post now. Work has been busy so I have not been spending as much time on SI as I used to. And after work hours I have been spending much less time in front of the computer.


Keep calm and carry on.

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cayc
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Default  Posted: 11:01 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Fwiw I thought some of you would be happy to learn that Pnk Carnation is doing really well and is getting married this month.


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

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