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User Topic: anyone suggest a book written by a BS who has gone through R
Member # 33927
Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, January 29th (Tuesday)

Looking for a book that talks about the pain and shock of d-day, the roller coaster emotions of WHs fog and the struggle of R written by someone who has been there rather than a therapist.

Any suggestions please?

Married 20 years.
1st D-day my birthday 2010
2nd D-day our 20th wedding anniversary
3rd D-day Nov 2010

Posts: 71 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: UK
Member # 13333
Default  Posted: 2:02 PM, January 29th (Tuesday)

"My husbands affair became the best thing to happen to me"

Dont let the title scare you. I found it a helpful read.

Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

Posts: 6604 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: WNY
Member # 37523
Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, January 29th (Tuesday)

"Surprised by Love" by Jay and Julie Kent-Ferraro.

Us: 50ish, madhatters, married 20 odd yrs
TT: May 2009 'til June
DDay for both: June 17, 2009
Me: 2x, same person, 1991
Him: 1.5 year PA (EA?) 2007-2009

Honey Badger don't care. - Randall

Posts: 386 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Flyover chic
Member # 32753
Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, January 29th (Tuesday)

"Shattered Vows" by Debra Laaser

Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 3913 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
Member # 35973
Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, January 29th (Tuesday)

"Healing Your Marriage. When Trust Is Broken" by Cindy Beall. "Beyond Ordinary" by Justin & Trisha Davis (written by the WS and the BS). Both are Christian based though.

M-13 yrs together 15 yrs, 2 DS 11 & 8
D-Day 20 May '12 WH confessed, PA 4 months 06/2008-10/2008 cOW
His A says nothing about me but everything about him

Posts: 239 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: UK
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