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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 11:14 AM, February 24th (Sunday)

It's nothing urgent, I'm just looking to put a lot of positive thoughts about this out into the universe.

My sister's company is hiring, in her department, for entry level positions. She says I can do this job, no question about it. She's already checked, it would not be an issue for me to work in the same department as her, as long as she wouldn't be my direct supervisor, which she wouldn't.

I have applied through official channels. My sister had spoken to her boss about me and given him my resume. We both thought I'd at least get an interview, but that hasn't happened yet.

My sister said her supervisor mentioned to her during her review last week that he was still looking to hire for the positions. She figured her review wasn't an appropriate time to bring me up again, but she says she'll talk to him again this week.

So, if you have it to spare, please send some positive thoughts and mojo my way. This would be a good paying job that could lead to a career, with a good company, with some nice benefits, and with room to advance. Oh, and it would cut my commute in half.

I know if it doesn't happen there will be another opportunity at some other time at some other company. But it'd be really great if this happened now. TIA


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, February 24th (Sunday)

Super Tons of Mojo!!!!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24591 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:34 AM, February 24th (Sunday)

Sending mojo.

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 11:46 AM, February 24th (Sunday)

Sending Mojo your way...


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 11:51 AM, February 24th (Sunday)

Serious Mojo your way.


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5181 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
gma56
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, February 24th (Sunday)

JOB MOJO !!!

I pray it is the right job at the right time !!!


Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, February 24th (Sunday)

There is something empowering about knowing the hopes and sharing the dreams of people all over the world (the world of SI) and I LOVE the opportunity to share MOJO and good will with my favorite people....

Coming your way inconnu: mojo mojo mojo mojo mojo mojo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
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S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 12:31 PM, February 24th (Sunday)

Sending lots of mojo!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, February 24th (Sunday)

Mojo!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, February 24th (Sunday)

Lotsa mojo!


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:08 PM, February 24th (Sunday)

Mojo!!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, February 24th (Sunday)

My thoughts are with you.

I hope you get the interview, but consider this if the company wasn't smart enough to talk to you immediately, are they good enough for you?


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 5:32 PM, February 24th (Sunday)

if the company wasn't smart enough to talk to you immediately, are they good enough for you?

Maybe not, but they'd still be many steps above the company I'm working for now. and that's the name of my game right now, climbing steps as I get more skills and current experience for my resume.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12164 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
sportsfan
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Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, February 24th (Sunday)

Here comes some more mojo!!!

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woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 12:11 AM, February 25th (Monday)

Sending mojo!


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


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sadcat
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Default  Posted: 8:28 AM, February 25th (Monday)

Mojo Mojo Mojo!!!


I need not suffer in silence while I can still moan, whimper and complain.

If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.


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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 8:33 AM, February 25th (Monday)

Sending it all your way!

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 10:04 AM, February 25th (Monday)

MOJO MOJO MOJO (worked for me!)


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, February 25th (Monday)

Sending lots of mojo!


Choices, Chances, Changes.....You must make a Choice to take a Chance or your life will never Change.

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punky
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Default  Posted: 10:52 PM, February 25th (Monday)

Good luck, my dear!


Be a lion, not a mowess...
The Cowardly Lion

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click4it
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Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, February 25th (Monday)

Mojo sent!


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, March 6th (Wednesday)

bumping this back up because my sister's boss got handed my resume this morning. Mojo needed that he calls me for an interview soon. thanks!


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


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hexed
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Default  Posted: 3:14 PM, March 6th (Wednesday)

lots and lots of it going out to you!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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Missymomma
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Default  Posted: 3:25 PM, March 6th (Wednesday)

Extra MOJO!! He will call for an interview, he will call for an interview, he will call for an interview.


DDay - 6/15/11
R started - 7/1/11
False Discl- 9/27/12
Real Discl - 2/12/13
Poly - 3/1/13 Pass!
Me - BS (46)
WH - 52 (SA, NA, WA)
Kids: 2 littles and 1 grown
The road to recovery is long and hard. Some days I am up for it and others not!

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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 6:47 PM, March 20th (Wednesday)

mini update - one of the reasons things have been moving so slowly is that it turns out my sister's boss is leaving the company. he's going to another company that has been pursuing him for several months. he was told not to, and promised that he wouldn't, poach employees from current company. however, that does not include potential applicants who have not been called for an interview.

he told my sister to have me rework my resume, and get it back to her by Monday. then he'll let her know his new work email, and she'll send my revised resume to him, and he'll call me for an interview. he was even telling her what phrases for me to include on the resume, so that he would have some wiggle room for salary.

basically, unless I screw up the interview, looks like I could be getting a new job as my birthday present this year.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12164 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, March 20th (Wednesday)

Good luck!!!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, March 20th (Wednesday)

Sending mojo

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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, March 25th (Monday)

alrighty, resume sent. potential new boss is in meetings this morning, but hopefully he'll have time to give me a call this afternoon and set up an interview soon.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12164 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 11:37 AM, March 25th (Monday)

Good luck!!! My fingers are crossed!!

[This message edited by Deeply Scared at 11:37 AM, March 25th (Monday)]


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, March 25th (Monday)

Woo hoo! Tons of mojo for you.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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Heartless Bytchh
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Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, March 25th (Monday)

Woo Hoo! Sounds pretty promising so far.

Hope you get it and make bundles o' bucks.
*hugs*


Woodchipper pretty much trumps everything.-Rufus Turner
Sometimes I feel like SI is that person who says... "if you can't say anything nice... come sit by me!"-rumorhasit

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hexed
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Default  Posted: 5:32 PM, March 25th (Monday)

glad to see an update. lots of good mojo for you!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, March 25th (Monday)

crossing all crossables....


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5256 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 8:41 PM, March 25th (Monday)

MOJOMOJOMOJOMJO....


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, March 25th (Monday)

thanks, y'all. didn't get a call today but talked to my sister tonight. turns out potential new boss had meetings all day, and probably most of the week, at his new job. apparently he's the only one surprised by this. anyway, he told my sis to tell me not to worry, he hasn't forgotten. he's just way busier with the meetings than he expected to be.

so, all the mojo is working. I just apparently still need that lesson in being patient.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12164 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
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