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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 9:43 AM, March 5th (Tuesday)

Quit smoking, that is. I'm tired of my mouth tasting like tar when I wake up. I'm tired of the cough and flegm. I'm tired of smelling like cigarettes.

I didn't buy a pack this morning when I stopped for my morning coffee. It's time to kick the habit.


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damncutekitty
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Default  Posted: 10:04 AM, March 5th (Tuesday)

Way to go!!!


Keep calm and carry on.

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PlainsGirl29
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Default  Posted: 10:04 AM, March 5th (Tuesday)

Good luck!

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hurtinky
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Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, March 5th (Tuesday)

You can do it!!! It will be hard but it is possible!


Me --> BS
D-Day 10-1988
D-Day 9-12-2005
S 9-13-2005
D 3-6-12



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I think I can
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, March 5th (Tuesday)

Yes?

Did someone call me?

(Couldn't resist!)

Good luck!


I'm not the winner, I'm the prize.

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foreverempty
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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, March 5th (Tuesday)

Good luck!


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, March 5th (Tuesday)

My dad smoked for 25 years and managed to quit as did my grandparents and aunt (many of whom smoked for 50 years or so).

Sending you their quitting mojo-- you got this!


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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VioletPush
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Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, March 5th (Tuesday)

I have faith in you!


Got rid of a lot of baggage, moved across the country, and am moving on with my life!

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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 10:42 PM, March 5th (Tuesday)

I didn't even make it one day! Murphy's law struck at work (several times) and I used that as an excuse to buy a pack.

Tomorrow. For real this time.


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inhishands55
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Default  Posted: 10:50 PM, March 5th (Tuesday)

You will do it when you set your heart and mind to it...My mother quit after almost 60 yrs of smoking...

She said she went to the altar and gave them to God and never wanted another one...

Luckily me and my siblings never took up the habit...I think it was because we smoked mama and daddy's cigarettes in the car and in the house..

I hear if you drink lots of water it helps the process and cut down on the caffeine too...They say the caffeine craves the nicotin...

Good luck to you on your next try....


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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 10:55 PM, March 5th (Tuesday)

I am trying again tomorrow. I really am ready to quit and I need to stop using it as a crutch. It's a disgusting, expensive habit that will kill me before my time.

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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, April 15th (Monday)

OK, so more than a month later, I've finally gone a whole day without any nicotine. I can't wait for the physical withdrawal symptoms to subside. I have a good plan for the mental triggers. It involves a bunch of pushups, crunches, squats and other physical exercise.

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Mandilwen
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Default  Posted: 9:03 PM, April 15th (Monday)

Good job!! I have one pack left and have to quit. I just bought myself a brand new car and I am NOT filling it with nasty smoke!! I like to use breathing exercises and screaming in my mind that the urge will pass soon. I smoke when I have alcohol, so have to cut that out for awhile too. We can do it!!


BS-34; WXH-32; DS8; DS3; OC3
DDay: SEPT 2008
Divorced: JUNE 2010

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Survivor3512
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Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, April 15th (Monday)

Good job! Keep it going!


Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie

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MyVoice
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Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, April 15th (Monday)

Good work! I gave up a packet a day habit 14 years ago, never think about it now even with all the drama this past year. When I was where you are now I got to the point it was me against the cigarettes, felt like a battle of wills and I like to win

Don't give in for a second you can do it.... forever

[This message edited by MyVoice at 9:49 PM, April 15th (Monday)]


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two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 10:52 PM, April 15th (Monday)

My mother just quit after 65 years... she had to due to COPD but just the same, she quit.

You can do it!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:18 PM, April 16th (Tuesday)

You can do this! Good luck!

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Luvlyla
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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, April 16th (Tuesday)

Yes?
Did someone call me?


lol, well done Think i can and Hopeless.


When he's your Romeo,
and you're not his Juliet,
it means you are Rosaline
- and you survive the play.

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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 10:18 PM, April 16th (Tuesday)

Day 2: A success. A terribly not fun success but oh well.

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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, April 18th (Thursday)

Four miserable days down. I wish I could jump in a time machine and punch my stupid long haired 13 year old self in the face before I took a drag off of that first cigarette. "Play basketball instead!" I would tell myself. Then I wouldn't have to quit smoking now and I might not have a student loan.

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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, April 29th (Monday)

Two whole weeks! The cravings aren't as bad or as frequent but I've had the worst insomnia and don't quite feel like myself because of it. Still, I've come this far. Definitely not going to start smoking again.

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kernel
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Default  Posted: 6:47 PM, April 29th (Monday)

Way to go! Such a great thing to do for yourself and your family and friends.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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want_to_forgive
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Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, April 29th (Monday)

I've smoked for more years than I care to admit, and really upped it during my Divorce. I have so much admiration for those that quit.

Great job, you are an inspiration!


M 11 years
Me: BS 38 Him: WS
DDay June 2006, LTA BFFOW
Divorced April 5, 2013
Not making a decision is making a decision.

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