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punky
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Default  Posted: 11:53 PM, March 24th (Sunday)

We had to put him down tonight. He would have been 14 on April 6. Vet suspects brain tumor. Sudden onset of severe seizures starting last night. He had multiple episodes over 18 hrs and at the end he couldn't see or hear but was pacing all over and running into the walls and stuff.

We all agreed it was for the best. He had a great life. The best dog ever. I'm going to post some pics of him later.


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:01 AM, March 25th (Monday)

Oh no punky! I'm so sorry.

Your sweet guy had a lifetime of love and security - it doesn't get much better. Sending prayers up to doggie heaven where he's surely chasing a golden ball.

(((punky and fam)))


For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot

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exhausted lady
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Default  Posted: 12:58 AM, March 25th (Monday)

Oh Lordy, I'm sooo sorry! I lost my beloved furbaby on Valentine's Day, and I'm still grieving for her. I cried for two days, and it wasn't as traumatic as your experience.

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Author unknown...

I hope this helps. A friend shared it with me, and it did give me some comfort.

Big Hugs to you!


Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr


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uncertainone
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Default  Posted: 1:43 AM, March 25th (Monday)

Oh, I'm so sorry. Had to do this a few months ago. Broke my heart.

That poem was beautiful. Thoughts and prayers for you.


Me: 37

'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth


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dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 1:44 AM, March 25th (Monday)

I'm so sorry, Punky.

((((Sending huge hugs)))))


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DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 5:31 AM, March 25th (Monday)

So sorry you lost you him! Praying that he's happy in heaven :)

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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:46 AM, March 25th (Monday)

I'm sorry for your loss.


Take up your space (and do it well).

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 6:24 AM, March 25th (Monday)

I'm so sorry punky.


I promise to surround myself with amazing souls and love them fiercely.

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 6:41 AM, March 25th (Monday)

I'm so sorry My heart is heavy for you and your family

(((Punky))))


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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 7:15 AM, March 25th (Monday)

(((punky)))


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simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 7:19 AM, March 25th (Monday)

I'm so I'm sorry for your loss

(((Hugs)))


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day's, listed in profile)


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punky
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Default  Posted: 7:25 AM, March 25th (Monday)

Everyone loved this dog. All of my kids friends, neighbors. He was so sweet and gentle. I literally only heard him growl ONE TIME in his life. When he went to doggie day care, they put him with the puppies and little dogs. When my DD was younger, she would dress him up in tutus and once in a bride's costume. One of my favorite memories was looking out the window onto our patio and seeing my DD sitting on the patio with him just talking and using her hands to talk--obviously getting something off her little chest--and he just sat there with her and listened. But above all, I will never forget how he comforted me when I first came here. When I cried, he would put his head on my knees. Just so sweet and loving.

[This message edited by punky at 7:32 AM, March 25th (Monday)]


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 7:37 AM, March 25th (Monday)

((((Punky))))

He is beautiful Inside and out... A constant comfort and companion to your family.

He will never be far from your heart.

More hugs,

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 7:41 AM, March 25th (Monday)

((((Punky)))))
It is so hard when they go, at least you know he had a great life, and was happy being your pet.
I too have felt the loss of a pet too many times in the past year. Two of my dogs were just old, and my cat got sick suddenly. It hurts still some days I really miss having the herd.
I hope you can find peace in knowing he had a great life, and that he didn't suffer.
((((HUGS)))))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 14 & 16
Married for 21 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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JustDone
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Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, March 25th (Monday)

I'm so sorry.


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Nobody forgets what happens, the secret is learning to live with it.


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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 7:59 AM, March 25th (Monday)

What a sweet boy and how lucky you both were to have each other....I'm so very sorry Punky.

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Exit Wounds
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Default  Posted: 8:12 AM, March 25th (Monday)

Oh punky!
I am so sorry for your loss!
My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family, and your wonderful doggie...
May you be reunited one day...


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Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, March 25th (Monday)

I am so sorry for your loss.


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 8:53 AM, March 25th (Monday)

I just saw this.

I'm so sorry, punky.


AJ's MOM


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"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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DS - 31 - Yikes!


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Kodi
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Default  Posted: 10:33 AM, March 25th (Monday)

(((punky)))

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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, March 25th (Monday)

I'm so sorry

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, March 25th (Monday)

(((Punky)))

I am so sorry.




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bbee
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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, March 25th (Monday)

I'm so sorry.


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


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deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, March 25th (Monday)

I'm so sorry for your loss. Just because it was the right thing to do, it doesn't make it any easier.


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


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punky
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, March 25th (Monday)

Thanks to all for the support. It's been such a tough day. My daughter couldn't even finish out the day at school. We are all puffy eyed and have sore noses from blowing them all day.

Love your fur babies while you can. I'd give anything to see his sweet face again.


Be a lion, not a mowess...
The Cowardly Lion

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Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, March 25th (Monday)

So sorry.

I don't understand how people don't understand the love we have for and receive from our animals.


~L2HM~
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Afraid2LoveAgain
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Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, March 25th (Monday)

I'm so sorry about the loss of your sweet boy.

Dogs live such a short time because they are born so good that they don't need to spend much time on earth to be perfect.

(((Punky & daughter)))


BW -- 57
Divorced 2001
Reconciled with Un-Ex 2008.
Re-marriage planned for what would have been our 35th anniversary.

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hurtbs
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Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, March 25th (Monday)

Big hugs

(((Punky)))

You're a great doggy mommy. He led a happy, full life. He was loved. He was warm when it was cold out and cool when it was hot out (and that's many days in TX). He was petted, cuddled, played with, and hugged. He lived to a ripe old age. He died with the people he loved. It's better than most of us could ever hope for in our lives.

I love you punk. Hang in there.


Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays - 1 was too many
Divorced 2012

"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid


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punky
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Default  Posted: 7:54 AM, March 26th (Tuesday)

I know he had a great life...heck, he lived the life of Riley! I'm really missing him right now. I feel like there is this giant hole in our home. I even miss the dog hair.


Be a lion, not a mowess...
The Cowardly Lion

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BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, March 26th (Tuesday)

Punky, he was so sweet!
I'm so sorry. It's really hard to say goodbye when they've been around for a long time like this. But you did the right thing, certainly.
(((punky)))


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{Me} FWW - 43
2 kids 7 & 12
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Beauty and folly are old companions.--Benjamin Franklin

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, March 26th (Tuesday)

What a handsome boy. I'm so very sorry, punky.


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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forksintheroad
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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, March 26th (Tuesday)

I am so sorry for your loss Punky...loosing a pet is the worst


35 BW(me); 35 FWH(him)
2DD's 6 yrs, 3 yrs; 2dogs/3cats
Together 16 yrs, married 8 yrs
DDay May 29, 2011; EA/PA Nov 05-March 06; working on R
People may not remember what you did or said but they will always remember how you made them feel

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meaniemouse
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Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, March 26th (Tuesday)

I am so, so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and saying a prayer for your sweet baby.


Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James

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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, March 26th (Tuesday)

I'm so sorry for your loss.


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, March 26th (Tuesday)

(((punky)))

I'm sorry you've lost such a wonderful friend.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


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