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trustagain
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Default  Posted: 3:02 PM, March 25th (Monday)

My Mom told me last night that my Dad was going in for "minor" surgery this morning at 9am. It is now 4pm and no word. Both of their cell phones go directly to vm and I have left two messages at their home with no return call.

I understand that surgeries are delayed, but I am getting a little angry that my Mom hasn't even called to say "oh he is not going in until 2 or it was cancelled or all is ok". Nothing.

I called over to the place where she said his "procedure" was and they said they can't give me any information. So I drove over there and don't see their car - would you go in and ask???

I yell at my Mom (well not really yell, but you know what I mean) about my Mom keeping her cell on. She is notorious for calling from her cell, leaving a message and then turning it off to save the battery You would think a day like this she would keep it on.

The waiting is killing me....

Ok now I feel better that I got that off my chest.


WH - 48
BS (me) - 50
Son - 25
Son - 17
Dday #1 - 10/31/07
Dday #2 - 12/23/07
Dday #1,000,000 - 12/23/09 - found out EA was PA
Reconciling or at least trying. We have reconciled through the A, but he still doesn't get it when it comes to p

Posts: 4466 | Registered: Nov 2007
MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, March 25th (Monday)

((((trustagain))))

Sending mojo to your dad for a speedy recovery.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 51851 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, March 25th (Monday)

(((trust)))

I hope she calls you soon. That has to be nervewracking. Sending him healing mojo.


Posts: 34477 | Registered: Mar 2011
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 9:27 AM, March 26th (Tuesday)

Just checking in. How's your dad? Sending mojo and hugs.

Posts: 34477 | Registered: Mar 2011
trustagain
Member
Member # 16921
Default  Posted: 9:58 AM, March 27th (Wednesday)

Just checking in. How's your dad?

He made it through surgery. Thank you for the thoughts and mojo.

He is home, resting.


WH - 48
BS (me) - 50
Son - 25
Son - 17
Dday #1 - 10/31/07
Dday #2 - 12/23/07
Dday #1,000,000 - 12/23/09 - found out EA was PA
Reconciling or at least trying. We have reconciled through the A, but he still doesn't get it when it comes to p

Posts: 4466 | Registered: Nov 2007
MovingUpward
Guide
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 10:17 AM, March 27th (Wednesday)

Glad to hear that he is home and resting.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 51851 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
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