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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday)

Just got another counter offer from the folks we've been going back and forth with for the past 4 days. Along with that counter, there's word that a second couple is close to putting in an offer.

I would love nothing more than a bidding war at this point.

Mojo for a second bidder with a higher offer? Please?


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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RyeBread
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Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday)

Sending !!SUPER MOJO!! your way nowiknow23.

May the bidding war begin!


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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday)

Oh my gosh...major good thoughts to you!!!!!


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 12:21 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday)

HUGE MOJO!!!!

C'mon second couple, you know you want the awesome NIK house!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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bbee
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Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday)

Mojo!


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


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KBeguile
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Default  Posted: 12:34 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday)

MOJO: GO!


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M: 7 years
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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 1:09 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday)

Sending it all your way, nik.

AJ's MOM


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday)

Super mojo and good thoughts sent.

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:38 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday)

Well... the second couple came in even lower than the first couple's low-ball offer.

Our agent is rejecting the second offer and letting their agent know that we are going with a significantly higher offer from our first bidders. If the second couple steps up, great.

Otherwise, we're taking the current counter from the first couple. We'll still be bringing cash to the closing, but a manageable amount.

I'm just ready for this to be over already.

Thanks SO MUCH for the mojo!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday)

Nik, here's more mojo and you spend it how you see fit. I wish you have enough mojo to put it everywhere and all things fall into place perfectly!!!


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday)

Thank you, cg.

Believe it or not, just got a second offer from the rejected second couple, and they want a response by 10 pm tonight. !?!?!?!

They've come up quite a bit, but still fall short of the other couple on a few points.

SHEESH! We had 20 showings in the past month with nothing to show for it. All the sudden...


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 8:02 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday)

Call it momentum and wait for it all to fall into place!!

*crossing fingers and chanting mojo mojo....


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 8:35 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday)

You can have all of mine, NIK. MOJO!


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday)

Thank you!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday)

Just spotted this. The deadline for your decision is past, but lots of mojo coming your way for everything yet to come. Just in case of more offer changes - for only good ones - and for no glitches in the paperwork.


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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday)

Mojo that you get this done!


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday)

Thank you! Just hung up with my realtor. She told me to turn off my phone and go to bed.

I don't know who's crazier - the realtors who keep these hours, or the clients who drive them to it! All I know is that I am too damn old for this crap.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 9:55 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday)

More mojo more mojo!!!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, April 2nd (Tuesday)

Sadly, I've seen crazy on both sides. Get some rest.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, April 3rd (Wednesday)

Well - we're done. Accepted the offer from the first couple this morning.

Now to survive inspections and the wait for closing. Fingers crossed for no drama.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, April 3rd (Wednesday)

No Drama Mojo on it's way...

Hugs,

K


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 11:47 AM, April 3rd (Wednesday)

Yay! Fingers crossed that it's all smooth sailing!!!


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 2:47 PM, April 3rd (Wednesday)

Wooo! NIK you accepted an offer!!!!!!!! Yay!!!!!!!!!!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, April 3rd (Wednesday)

More 'no drama' mojo heading your way.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, April 3rd (Wednesday)

Wooo! NIK you accepted an offer!!!!!!!!
I should be more excited than I am. I guess I'm once bitten, twice shy, since our original purchase agreement fell apart last fall.

I promise, I'll be suitably excited once closing is done in May.

(ps: Thanks everyone for the "no drama" mojo. Perhaps that's what I should have been asking for all along? )


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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