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Survivor3512
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Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, April 8th (Monday)

Ok. So, my x is considering taking a job in another town for the next school year. Although, it will make things harder logistically, overall I think this is for the best. We live in a small town and his affair was/is with his assistant principal. It's all everyone talks about. It's all over the local Internet forums and I have gotten tons of anonymous emails trying to get me to "out" his affair. I really feel like all of the drama would die off if he leaves the system. Plus, he won't be in my town anymore. The distance will be nice. I think it will be the best thing for me and my boys. So, please if you can spare prayers and PV's, please say a few that he will in fact leave. He has to decide by the 15th. Thanks!!!


Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie

Posts: 293 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Southeastern U.S.
exhausted lady
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Default  Posted: 12:06 AM, April 9th (Tuesday)

(((Survivor)))

I truly hope he moves away. I have a feeling it might make your life a lot easier, in spite of some logistical things. Small towns can be vicious in the gossip department, and that's hard to deal with.


Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr


Posts: 3168 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Colorado
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 5:30 AM, April 9th (Tuesday)

I hope he moves as you need to be able to move on with your life and constant reminders are hard.

I was so happy when my xwh & ow moved out of my area, it made NC so much easier and took the pressure off even when I went anywhere as I was always scared I would run into them. I felt like a prisoner in my own home.


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1308 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Survivor3512
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Default  Posted: 9:21 PM, April 15th (Monday)

Praise The Lord! He has decided to take the new job. I'm so relieved I could cry. It won't start until July, but the end is now in sight. Keeping my fingers crossed that nothing changes between now and then!


Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie

Posts: 293 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Southeastern U.S.
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 9:35 PM, April 15th (Monday)

I'm glad it worked out Survivor. May it be a move that makes things calmer for all of you.


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


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cayc
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Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, April 15th (Monday)

Glad to hear!


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

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Happydays
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Default  Posted: 11:24 PM, April 15th (Monday)

Congratulations! Enjoy the extra space.


BH 33
FWW 32
DS: 3 year old.
Dday 10/14/2012
No remorse so:
Divorced 02/15/2013. No alimony, no CS, got apartment. Won all battles and mind games off the courts.

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