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risingfromashes
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Member # 3903
Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, April 17th (Wednesday)

Here I am. Alone..(well I have my 8 pound rescue dog with me) in a studio off season ocean front rental.
Had dinner sitting at the bar of a waterfront restaurant.

I know my life was hell for many years. I thank the powers that be for giving me the gift of the other side.


There is life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1617 | Registered: Mar 2004
torn2bits
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Member # 28376
Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, April 17th (Wednesday)

rising, I just came back from my alone trip.

Enjoy every minute of it! Good for you!


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

Posts: 1240 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
willowiris
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Member # 5372
Default  Posted: 9:43 PM, April 17th (Wednesday)

I went to NYC by myself 3 years ago....I loved every single minute of it. Wish I had the time and money to do a solo vacation every year. Even though I did in extreme cheapskate mode, I still felt decadent. Enjoy every MINUTE!


D-day 09/2004
Filed for divorce 9/2006

We accept the love we think we deserve. "The Perks of Being a Wallflower."


Posts: 12326 | Registered: Sep 2004 | From: Margaritaville
FaithFool
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Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, April 17th (Wednesday)

This was mine from 2010. Very very healing. Good on you! Enjoy every minute.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17315 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Newlease
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Member # 7767
Default  Posted: 8:19 AM, April 18th (Thursday)

Isn't it nice to just be able to breathe and be?

I'm proud of you!

NL


Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.

Posts: 7675 | Registered: Aug 2005
risingfromashes
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Member # 3903
Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, April 18th (Thursday)

This is heaven! I feel free!
I am going to my favorite restaurant tonight. It is on the water with an amazing view of the sunset.

It is cold but I do not care.


There is life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1617 | Registered: Mar 2004
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