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MrsDoubtfire
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Concerned  Posted: 3:25 AM, April 18th (Thursday)

So. FWH says he's going to play sports and he will be out of my way for a couple of hours so I can play with all my new birthday toys he's bought me!!

I don't mind much but it's my birthday!!! I can play with my new toys any time!! On my birthday I'd prefer to spend it with him!!


THIS dear SI ers is that same selfish streak all ws's seem to posess without realising it.

Whilst he's made insurmountable changes to himself since we R there's still the odd fuckwit slip that occurs!!!

Still, he HAS bought me some nice stuff so him not being here for an hour or so does give me opportunity to play uninterrupted.


ETA: step aside now. There's birthday cake a callin'

[This message edited by MrsDoubtfire at 3:27 AM, April 18th (Thursday)]


BS(Me) FWH(Him) DDay 05.09
A went underground. True R 02.10
I won't let another woman reap the benefit of enjoying the man my H has now becomeć

Posts: 1528 | Registered: Jul 2009
forgivingnow
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Member # 33549
Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, April 18th (Thursday)

Wishing you a very happy birthday!!


Me-BS 51
FWH-50
M 30 yrs
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yourself.
R

Posts: 577 | Registered: Oct 2011
FeelsSoRight
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Member # 28377
Default  Posted: 8:00 AM, April 18th (Thursday)

Happy Birthday, Mrs. D! Eat some birthday cake for me, too...YUM!

As long as he's not going to be gone all day, you two can enjoy the evening together - maybe a nice dinner out? A nice dinner HE cooks and a movie at home?

And enjoy the new toys...but do tell...what did he get you?


Me - W - 48
Him - H - 47
Together since we were 14/15
Married 27 yrs in August (renewed our vows in 2011-H's idea!)
DD-23, DS-15
Separated for 7 mos & were 3 wks from divorce when we reconciled
Happily R for almost 4 years

Posts: 1450 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: MO
Tred
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Member # 34086
Default  Posted: 8:17 AM, April 18th (Thursday)

Enjoy you BDay Mrs. D!


Married: 16 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3306 | Registered: Dec 2011
girlsbird
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Member # 30877
Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, April 18th (Thursday)

Happy Birthday Mrs. D. And go ahead, play with your new toys and totally enjoy yourself!


D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed

Posts: 1203 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: arizona
sisoon
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Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, April 18th (Thursday)

Happy birthday!


FBH (me) - 65+, FWW (her) - 65+, Married 45+, together almost 49 (as of January, 2014)
DDay - 12/2010
Almost Recovered
I share my own experience not because I'm a good model but because it's the only experience I know.

Posts: 8933 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
padstack
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Member # 37202
Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, April 18th (Thursday)

Happy Birthday!!

I did this dumbass move a few years ago to fWW. I still feel bad about it when it pops in my mind (or when she reminds me on every subsequent birthday ).

Enjoy your cake!


Me: BH 37
Her: fWW 34 (Lulu38)
DD 8
DS 3
D-Day #1 9/17/12 Admitted to EA
D-Day #2 10/18/12 Finally confessed to PA with coworker

Status: working towards R...


Posts: 114 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: So Cal
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 6:19 PM, April 18th (Thursday)

Happy Birthday! I hope it's wonderful.




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brokensunflower
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Member # 38674
Default  Posted: 6:21 PM, April 18th (Thursday)

happy birthday hun ..


me 32
him 32
5 wonderful kids 12 yrs 8 yrs 5 yrs 4 yrs and 2 yrs ..and new baby
married 10 years together for 12 yrs
working on R

my give a damn is busted


Posts: 195 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: cold ohio
marion
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Member # 33625
Default  Posted: 6:26 PM, April 18th (Thursday)

Happy Birthday! Hope you enjoy your day!

Posts: 102 | Registered: Oct 2011
confused82402
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Member # 34616
Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, April 18th (Thursday)

Happy birthday!


Me- BW
Him - WH
Dday - 1/16/2012

~Honey, don't try to make sense out of nonsense...you'll drive yourself crazy in the process ~ my momma :-)


Posts: 507 | Registered: Jan 2012
NoraLee
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Member # 37922
Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, April 18th (Thursday)

Happy bday! I too see that old streak in H despite all the positive changes. His tactic is to ask permission - forcing me to play the bad guy...hate it!
What kind of toys did you get?


Me - BW - 44
Him - FWH - 42
Married 16 years
D day - 1/2 truth - July 2012
Full disclosure - August 2012
EA with skanky waitress coworker
3 kids - 14, 16, 21
In R

Posts: 791 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Canada
FeelsSoRight
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Member # 28377
Default  Posted: 10:06 PM, April 18th (Thursday)

Mrs. D is either enouying her toys or spending a nice birthday evening with Mr. D because she has been too busyto come back to this thread to tell us what her gifts were!


Me - W - 48
Him - H - 47
Together since we were 14/15
Married 27 yrs in August (renewed our vows in 2011-H's idea!)
DD-23, DS-15
Separated for 7 mos & were 3 wks from divorce when we reconciled
Happily R for almost 4 years

Posts: 1450 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: MO
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