|Just Found Out|
Topic: Thanks to everyone
Member # 39046
| Posted: 3:11 PM, April 20th (Saturday)|
I have only been on here for about 12 hours and your encouraging words are helping me so much. There are so many people in my life to ask advice from, but none of them has been in the position I am in or feeling the things I am feeling. Thank you to everyone for all your time to bestow your advice!
Posts: 26 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Nebraska
Member # 31349
| Posted: 4:23 PM, April 20th (Saturday)|
It's what we're here for.
I always try to go easy and not let everything in my brain out on a post when the member is new, but for the record I am resisting the urge to come to your house, pack all of your WH's stuff in a hefty bag, and heave it out onto the lawn.
You sound so kind and gentle, and I'm afraid he's really good at taking advantage of that. Keep listening to everyone, we'll help you through this.
Me: BW 34
Crazz: FWH 32
For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot
Posts: 12327 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Member # 37922
| Posted: 4:30 PM, April 20th (Saturday)|
This truly is the place to be when this happens...we get each other - the advice is dynamite and the member's hearts are made of gold...
I'm glad you found us - I'd have been lost without SI (I only wish I had found it earlier!)
Me - BW - 44
Him - FWH - 42
Married 16 years
D day - 1/2 truth - July 2012
Full disclosure - August 2012
EA with skanky waitress coworker
3 kids - 14, 16, 21
Posts: 791 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Canada
Member # 38928
| Posted: 7:16 PM, April 20th (Saturday)|
Besides the wonderful support found here, everyone is great at offering different perspectives or ideas that you may not have considered, which is invaluable (at least for me). And it is a safe place to freely vent...
BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs, started 1994 - never stopped
3 kids - 22, 20, 17
M Dissolved 10/18/13!!!
This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man, ~ Shakespeare
Posts: 609 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of hell's ashes!
Member # 38601
| Posted: 4:15 AM, April 21st (Sunday)|
Omahahurt,take a deep breath, and just read some of the posts.almost everyone here has had some kind of problem,but in the same aspect,everyone's story is or has different situations,all we can do is try to make you feel better, we have BEEN THERE,because someone we love or have loved DONE THAT,like NoraLee says, we ALL have hearts of gold, they maybe broken, but we are strangers that care,take the time to look at what happen,and try to figure out what's next.take life one day at a time, we will help you all we can, this place can help you heal,read the articles in the Healing Library, they helped me, and don't be afraid to vent,ask for help, or advice. hope this helps...betrayed2years
betrayed 2 years, she cheated and has a S.T.D.
[This message edited by betrayed2years at 4:18 AM, April 21st (Sunday)]
Posts: 19 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: p.a.
Member # 38518
| Posted: 4:27 PM, April 21st (Sunday)|
I'm so glad you found SI when you did. I wish I had done so after my first, second, third, etc., etc., DDays.. I didn't find it til after my most recent (last?) DDay. I had to try and figure all this shit out on my own! What a hell of a nightmare that was. I'm still not over it by any stretch of the imagination, but being a part of SI, knowing that I'm perfectly 'normal' for feeling the way I feel, and being involved in IC and MC has made things SO much better.
Best of luck to you, and keep reading and posting (if you feel comfortable, that is). We BS' are ALL here for YOU!
ME: 33 BH
HER: 32 WW
Married: 8 years
DDay #1: 02/22/2006 (ONS)
DDay #2: 09/23/2012 (EA/PA)
DDay #3: 12/07/2012 (EA/PA)
DDay #4: 01/03/2013 (EA/PA)
DDay #5: 01/24/2013 (EA/PA)
TT until 04/07/2013
100% NC: 04/18/2013
Posts: 190 | Registered: Feb 2013
Member # 38421
| Posted: 4:35 PM, April 21st (Sunday)|
Omaha: I totally agree. This has been a great place for me. I haven't posted a whole lot but have read everything I see posted to help me thru this. Great bunch of people!
Me: BS 53 Him: WH 51 M: 28 years
OW:20 yrs younger married co-worker
Kids: 2 teens
In our bed! DD:11.26.12. TT 9-9-13
I've been living in a fairytale. He was broken all along. God help me.
Posts: 154 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Dark Hell
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