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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 11:56 AM, April 22nd (Monday)

this morning. At least, I was dreaming there was.

After my husband left for work this morning I fell back asleep. This is when I have the oddest and most vivid dreams.

Anyway, there was a bear asleep at the bottom of the bed on my husband's side. (BTW, we watched Life of Pi yesterday.) I didn't know what to do! I was pretty scared.

Then I got the brilliant idea to ask my SI friends how to get the bear off the bed and out of the house safely for everyone. As I was getting out of bed to come and post I woke up. I looked at the bottom of the bed to see how big the bear was so I could tell you all how big it was.

No bear! Just husband's dark thick, fleecy robe in a pile.

I was very disoriented.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9636 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, April 22nd (Monday)


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, April 22nd (Monday)


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, April 22nd (Monday)


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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, April 22nd (Monday)

Are you channeling Goldilocks?


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3415 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, April 22nd (Monday)

Good one!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9636 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 3:03 PM, April 22nd (Monday)

Something like this?


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 21096 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
SisterMilkshake
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Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 6:40 PM, April 22nd (Monday)

TR, I am kind of creeped out that you have a picture of me and the bear!

I like how I didn't want to call 911, the police, the DNR, or Animal Control. My first thought was SI! All the good people here always know what to do.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9636 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
aLadypilot
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Default  Posted: 6:47 PM, April 22nd (Monday)

Love this!

[This message edited by aLadypilot at 6:47 PM, April 22nd (Monday)]


Divorced 9/2010
Just married 7/4/13

Posts: 4081 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Twin Cities
Amazonia
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Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 7:47 PM, April 22nd (Monday)

Once I had myself fully convinced that there was a man standing in front of the door in the back of my bedroom. I laid there half asleep trying to pretend I was sleeping for like an hour before enough light came in the window for me to realize it was just a pair of jeans hanging on a hook


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, April 22nd (Monday)

LOL! That's awesome.

I wonder what our advice would have been? Leave the bear? Or give him a chance to prove himself worthy of being on your bed?


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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k94ever
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Default  Posted: 7:12 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday)

The bear would have to give up ALL it's passwords and attend IC to find out what was broken inside it that it allowed it to crawl in your bed and sleep with you.

k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6534 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
Amazonia
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Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 9:04 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday)


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13733 | Registered: Jul 2011
TrulyReconciled
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Member # 3031
Default  Posted: 2:10 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday)


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 21096 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday)

Haha! Sister, you crack me up.

But guess what? There really is a bear in my bed every.single.night. Yep, he's that hairy.


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7056 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
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