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mariusa
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Member # 13541
Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, April 22nd (Monday)

am I going to wake up from this nightmare?
That still runs through my head even 6 1/2 years later.
WTF??


BS(me)45 now 48, WH (POS)45 now 48
M 24trs, DD14, DS15
POS OW - then 24, now doesn't matter
D-day 1/2/07, Divorced 11/13/08
ôLive without pretending, Love without depending, Listen without defending, Speak without offending."

Posts: 2058 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: NY
cayc
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Member # 21964
Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, April 22nd (Monday)

(((mariusa)))

I know the feeling. No matter what, this tragedy is hanging out at the edges of my mind. And when I'm struggling with something that is happening in the present, it makes it worse. Is there something going on that's making you feel this way?


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

Posts: 3003 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
Survivor3512
Member
Member # 37946
Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, April 22nd (Monday)

(((Mariusa))) I'm sorry you're feeling down.


Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie

Posts: 293 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Southeastern U.S.
mariusa
Member
Member # 13541
Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, April 22nd (Monday)

I'm drowning in debt. Both houses have been on the market for pretty much years now. I stand to loose them both. Had a showing on the big one and got such crappy feedback that feels like its in left field.
i feel so helpless and aline. No energy to keep struggling to breath. To keep the happy face for my kids.


BS(me)45 now 48, WH (POS)45 now 48
M 24trs, DD14, DS15
POS OW - then 24, now doesn't matter
D-day 1/2/07, Divorced 11/13/08
ôLive without pretending, Love without depending, Listen without defending, Speak without offending."

Posts: 2058 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: NY
fadedrainbow
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Member # 9280
Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, April 24th (Wednesday)

(((mariusa))) I am so sorry that things are difficult for you.


me: FBW
D-Day May 2005
divorced December 2009


Posts: 132 | Registered: Jan 2006 | From: UK
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, April 24th (Wednesday)

(((mariusa)))

I'm sorry you are struggling. I hope things get better soon.


Posts: 33897 | Registered: Mar 2011
permanentpain
Member
Member # 38312
Default  Posted: 4:56 PM, April 24th (Wednesday)

((mariusa))


Me: 32 y/o, student and mom of two of the best kids in the world
Him: 33 y/o scumbag
Divorcing
Feels good to start laughing and feeling better again...

Posts: 270 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Island
nowiknow23
Guide
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 5:39 PM, April 24th (Wednesday)

((((mariusa)))) Sending you major mojo for something to give on the houses. The market is starting to move again. I hope it will pick up for you soon.

Hang in there, honey.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24435 | Registered: Aug 2011
mariusa
Member
Member # 13541
Default  Posted: 6:16 PM, April 24th (Wednesday)

OMG!! Would you beleive i totaled my car yesterday??
I still can't.
I'm lucky I'm ok. Just a little banged up. And I did catch a guy with warrants out for his arrest....
But i loved that car. The first one I picked out and bought on my own. It had everything I wanted plus it was so cute!

Another showing tomorrow....sigh! PLEASE SELL!!


BS(me)45 now 48, WH (POS)45 now 48
M 24trs, DD14, DS15
POS OW - then 24, now doesn't matter
D-day 1/2/07, Divorced 11/13/08
ôLive without pretending, Love without depending, Listen without defending, Speak without offending."

Posts: 2058 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: NY
Survivor3512
Member
Member # 37946
Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, April 24th (Wednesday)

Mariusa, I am so glad you are ok. That sucks about your car. Maybe you can get another good one with the insurance money. And I'm praying that something gives with your houses!! Hang in there!


Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
----------------------------------------------------------
Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie

Posts: 293 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Southeastern U.S.
gogirl
Member
Member # 26870
Default  Posted: 11:46 AM, April 25th (Thursday)

Oh my, I too am glad you are ok. How scary!

Good wishes to you for selling your houses.

(((mariusa)))



It's never too late to live happily ever after.


Posts: 572 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: North
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