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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 11:12 AM, April 24th (Wednesday)

Love this...TRUE!


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, April 24th (Wednesday)

Good one, MJ, and yes, very true!


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


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JKL Vikings
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Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, April 24th (Wednesday)

So true. If I had the know-how, I'd jack this for my fb
(still trying to figure out how to show off the boyz)


Her- Alpha Female 40
Me-FWH 41
Married since '02, together since 2000
D-day 2/10/2009
3 sons- J- born Oct 2001
K- born Sept. 2005
L- born Apr. 2008
We ALL have issues. It's how we deal with them that makes the difference

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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 11:28 AM, April 24th (Wednesday)

thanks Sister. JKL, right click on the image, save it and then upload it to your FB page.


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, April 24th (Wednesday)

Nice...although now it's made me all introspective...


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No longer together

"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."


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EmotionalFool
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Default  Posted: 3:04 PM, April 24th (Wednesday)

I agree with Unagie.. this just seem out of the place in wayward forum. doenst it?


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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, April 24th (Wednesday)

Not in my opinion. Waywards are not immune to being treated like shit. Happens all the time.

[This message edited by MissesJai at 3:07 PM, April 24th (Wednesday)]


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 3:24 PM, April 24th (Wednesday)

No it's not bad to be introspective, EF I really did like it. As a remorseful WS I feel like I was that person treating someone else like shit and now I get a chance to make myself better.

I still get treated like shit though, by SO's family and by SO as well so it's just made me think a little deeper about things that have been on my mind anyway.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."


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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 5:46 PM, April 24th (Wednesday)

made me think a little deeper about things
exactly.


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

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Sienna500
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Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, April 24th (Wednesday)

I like it. It surely applies to everyone and it doesn't do me any harm to acknowledge my own bad behaviour.


Me: WW 27
Him: BH 28
M: 5 years, together 8
3 kids (aged 3, 4 & a baby born 5 Sept 2013)
3 ONSs in 2 weeks
DDay: 20 Jan 2013 (a week after)

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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, April 24th (Wednesday)

excellent, Sienna.


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

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burntashes
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Default  Posted: 1:39 AM, April 25th (Thursday)

Thanks MJ. Good reminder to not internalize crap that belongs to someone else. Cleaning up our own internal garbage is a big enough task.


Me: WW/MH 30s Him: 40s 1 Daughter
LTA, not divorced with no R
I confessed PA 6/10. Detailed confession: 9/10. All the truth 9/11.

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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 10:23 AM, April 25th (Thursday)

Cleaning up our own internal garbage is a big enough task
indeed, BA - INDEED!


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"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

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