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User Topic: Your Tag Lines Rock, Everyone! :)
libertyrocks
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Member # 38924
Happy  Posted: 10:15 AM, April 25th (Thursday)

I just wanted to tell you all that all your tag lines are so inspiring, encouraging and influential. I love them!


Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,Recovering Alcoholic, M6yrs T13. Boys 2 & 4 1/2.
DDay #1 Nov,2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan,2014
Filed for D Feb,2014.

Posts: 962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
confused82402
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Member # 34616
Default  Posted: 11:02 AM, April 25th (Thursday)

I agree! I love everyone's tag lines too


Me- BW
Him - WH
Dday - 1/16/2012

~Honey, don't try to make sense out of nonsense...you'll drive yourself crazy in the process ~ my momma :-)


Posts: 507 | Registered: Jan 2012
Knowing
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Member # 37044
Default  Posted: 11:56 AM, April 25th (Thursday)

Except mine.

I''m glad you brought this up. I changed mine a week or so ago and nobody has said a thing. It was an absolutely absurd thought I had, probably the most absurd thought I''ve had in relation to infidelity and R, and, well, I couldn''t help myself... It makes me laugh every time I see it.

If you want to see my original tag line and stats they are in my profile. And for the record my fWH''s infidelity had nothing to do with blowjobs or prostitutes.


Me: BW, Him: fWH
Together 12 years
My EA (?) 2005-2011
His STA/PA: D-day: 19/09/12
TT: 08/12/12

We are in R.


Posts: 697 | Registered: Oct 2012
PippaPeach6
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Member # 37523
Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

Me, too! I love reading tag lines

Changed mine to one less triggery recently. Silly, but. . .


Us: 50ish, madhatters, married 20 odd yrs
TT: May 2009 'til June
DDay for both: June 17, 2009
Me: 2x, same person, 1991
Him: 1.5 year PA (EA?) 2007-2009
Reconciled

Honey Badger don't care. - Randall


Posts: 386 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Flyover chic
DWBH
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Member # 35512
Default  Posted: 3:05 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

My wife hardly ever posts here, but I love her tagline... so fitting for a FWS. It's from Mumford and Sons:

"You told me that I would find a hole within the fragile substance of my soul and I have filled this void with things unreal,and all the while my character it steals."


Me: BH, 43
Her: FWW, 41 (ThornyRose)
M: 16 years, together 19
2 Daughters: 14 and 12
D Day: 9/25/2011; Lies & TT to 5/4/2012
~Double betrayal; caught them in the act~

Posts: 729 | Registered: May 2012 | From: WI
Neithan
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Member # 35924
Default  Posted: 4:39 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

Tag! You're it.


Me: BH
Her: WW
D-Day: 2/19/2010
Married 1981
That which does not kill me makes me more irritable

Posts: 320 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Among the Gaurwaith
Lucky
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Member # 6864
Default  Posted: 4:44 PM, April 25th (Thursday)


♥ WINE - the other fruit juice! ♥


Posts: 36162 | Registered: Apr 2005
Skan
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Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

^^^^ I salivate every time I see that one!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4711 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
NoraLee
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Member # 37922
Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

Oh Knowing...I think your tagline is VERY clever...and SO accurate!! I smile everytime I read it!!!


Me - BW - 44
Him - FWH - 42
Married 16 years
D day - 1/2 truth - July 2012
Full disclosure - August 2012
EA with skanky waitress coworker
3 kids - 14, 16, 21
In R

Posts: 791 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Canada
Diva0702
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Member # 32309
Default  Posted: 5:12 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

Lucky, I love yours! (ooops! just spilt a little of my glass of red)!

Mine always makes me feel so much better when I read the last bit and it makes me giggle to myself!!!


Me: BW 53
Him: FWH 47
4 wonderful grown children
2 beautiful grandchildren
Married 20 years
Together 23 years
Dday March 10 2010. 4 yr A.
Me: RGN(ret), N.Dip.,BA(Psych),MA (Psych),BA Music.
OW: 55 year old taxi driver

Posts: 333 | Registered: May 2011 | From: UK
scared&stronger
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Member # 15942
Default  Posted: 5:14 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

I guess I should change mine again. My panties hurt.


WS 45
BS 43

Met when we were 17 and 15. Together since 1983, married since 1985. Two kids, B21, G15.

d-day 4-3-07

Life has a way of making us get our panties in a wad.....I refuse to wear panties ever again.


Posts: 3960 | Registered: Aug 2007
Knowing
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Member # 37044
Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

Awww, bless you NoraLee! Thank you


Me: BW, Him: fWH
Together 12 years
My EA (?) 2005-2011
His STA/PA: D-day: 19/09/12
TT: 08/12/12

We are in R.


Posts: 697 | Registered: Oct 2012
NotDefeatedYet
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Member # 33642
Default  Posted: 12:31 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Who doesn't like "Oh Brother Where Art Thou"?


"It's a fool that looks for logic in the chambers of the human heart."

Posts: 769 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Texas
Hearthache again
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Member # 28564
Default  Posted: 12:38 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Love reading tag lines too. Knowing yours is awesome. Love it! I keep mine because I have clung to that saying to help me down from many anxiety attacks.


Me-BS(32)
Him-WS(35)
Married-12 years together 13
Kids 4: 15, 12, 8, and 3
DDay#1 9-26-2008 Dday#2 4-26-2010
We have R!!! But I still hate the number 26!

This too shall pass
I edit a lot because that stupid box is so small!


Posts: 871 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Michigan
MrsDoubtfire
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Member # 24786
Default  Posted: 5:09 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Knowing.... Your tag line is hilarious!! And so true!


BS(Me) FWH(Him) DDay 05.09
A went underground. True R 02.10
I won't let another woman reap the benefit of enjoying the man my H has now become†

Posts: 1571 | Registered: Jul 2009
StillGoing
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Member # 28571
Default  Posted: 7:00 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Speaking as an atheist I consider the tagline to not just be inaccurate but misleading because it misunderstands the premise, but I don't want to violate site guidelines by going into that conversation as much as I'd like to discuss it. Additionally it isn't the tracking app that's making your H "behave" and even if it were there's a very strong common sentiment against being a warden to your own spouse.


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

Posts: 7428 | Registered: May 2010 | From: USA
JustAShadow
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Member # 38370
Default  Posted: 7:37 AM, April 26th (Friday)

I'm not in R but had to jump in and say that I love reading everyone's taglines too.

Knowing - yours makes me giggle every time (and I'm an atheist).

StillGoing - I'm glad you responded because I hadn't seen yours before. Love it!

Maybe one day I'll be creative enough for a tagline


ME: 41 - Madhatter, 2 PAs, 1997, 2003
Him: 35 - Madhatter, 2 PAs, 2004, 3/2012 - 3/2014
Status: Living Apart

Posts: 199 | Registered: Feb 2013
idiot85
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Member # 38934
Default  Posted: 8:48 AM, April 26th (Friday)

I love taglines- I love them in general to be honest... In the UK they're known more as straplines and in Germany 'claims' which I always think is weird ha

I was reading a book on DDay night (trying to clear the fog I think) and part of it included "if you're going to go through hell, keep going" and it touched a nerve- it can be interpreted 2 ways- I realised this when my wife saw it and freaked out!!

I choose to think of it in a positive light...Unusual for something with the word 'hell' in. Anyway!

Edited to say- it's from Winston Churchill.

[This message edited by idiot85 at 8:49 AM, April 26th (Friday)]


BH-29 (me)
WW-28

Multi famam, conscientiam, pauci verentur.


Posts: 575 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Old Blighty
confused615
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Member # 30826
Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, April 26th (Friday)

I enjoy reading them too. I found mine shortly after dday#3. It said exactly how I felt...all that hope..all the trust he had built up..and all those butterflies that I felt from the first time his eyes met mine..all dead.

But I have performed a miracle...a few have come back to life and are fluttering about..


BS(me)41
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,9
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Happily Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7297 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
StillGoing
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Member # 28571
Default  Posted: 10:13 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Sorry, I didn't mean to be a tightass, I can see the humor of the statement.

Also, I Cobra Commander declare the word "straplines" to be the new thing. Because the word straplines is awesome.


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

Posts: 7428 | Registered: May 2010 | From: USA
idiot85
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Default  Posted: 11:11 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Stillgoing- strapline is good but, there's something about 'claims' don't you agree? I say it with a camp high pitched slightly offensive German accent and it brightens my day.

Confused615- Your butterflies STRAPline is immense- love it. I'm a little but frightened of butterflies though- or anything winged for that matter- so whilst I love it, there's a hint of danger too


BH-29 (me)
WW-28

Multi famam, conscientiam, pauci verentur.


Posts: 575 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Old Blighty
StillGoing
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Member # 28571
Default  Posted: 11:14 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Well, Claims is funny in a HALT HAMMERZEIT! way but Straplines implies an equilibrium of inherent sexy and snark with a hint of adventure, discipline and punishment. Also I like the way it sounds.


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

Posts: 7428 | Registered: May 2010 | From: USA
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