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User Topic: WH got a new job! woo hoo
libertyrocks
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Member # 38924
Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

Yay, my EX-serial cheating alcoholic SA WH/new WH (same guy) got a new job. I"m so happy and proud of him. He never thought he could get another job besides bartending. This is defenitly a step in the right direction. Working at that bar was like shooting fish in a barrel for him, plus there's not as much temptation at his new job. So happy, wanted to share.

[This message edited by libertyrocks at 1:13 PM, April 25th (Thursday)]


Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,alcoholic, suspected NPD SA. 2 boys. M 6yrs T13.
DDay #1 Nov, 2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (all W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan, 2014
Filed for D Feb, 2014.He will cheat again. But, It wont be on me.

Posts: 921 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
SisterMilkshake
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Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 1:18 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

Happy for you both! Woot woot!


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9408 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
confused615
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Member # 30826
Default  Posted: 1:19 PM, April 25th (Thursday)


BS(me)41
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,9
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Happily Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7147 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
libertyrocks
Member
Member # 38924
Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

And, he gets to dress nice with slacks and dress shirts. omg, i'm so going to attack him. lol.

I feel like my dreams are coming true...SLOWLY.

He's changing dramatically. On HIS OWN. :)


Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,alcoholic, suspected NPD SA. 2 boys. M 6yrs T13.
DDay #1 Nov, 2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (all W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan, 2014
Filed for D Feb, 2014.He will cheat again. But, It wont be on me.

Posts: 921 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
Skan
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Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 4:55 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

That''s FANTASTIC news!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4586 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
HUM1021
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Member # 6222
Default  Posted: 10:14 PM, April 25th (Thursday)


Me: BS 34
Her: WS 33
M 5 years
dday with 1st OM 4/30/04 EA/PA
dday with 2nd OM 12/11/04 EA/PA
on the reconciliation rollercoaster

Posts: 735 | Registered: Jan 2005 | From: Colorado
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