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fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 5:19 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

And thought about this community as I open a new chapter in my life. I would not be on this vacation all by myself if it was not for the support on this site.

I am looking forward to six days of "me" time. Looking forward to my first ever helicopter ride in Sunday. 18 year in California and STBXH could never be bothered to take me to Hawaii. So this is me conquering this on my own. Thanks to all of you!


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 6:07 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

Have fun. Hike all over Volcanos National Park. It's like nowhere else.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3432 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
FaithFool
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Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 7:06 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

Yay! Good for you!! Enjoy.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17551 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
CheaterMagnet
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Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

Fraeuken! Where are you staying??? I live here! Let me know if you need any recommendations.

Do you have plans for this weekend? We have an awesome play showing at my theatre! I'd LOVE to give you tickets!

Enjoy. Enjoy. Enjoy. Welcome to paradise. Sit back and let the island heal you.


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 1037 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
somanyyears
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Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, April 25th (Thursday)


..something about surf and sand and palm trees..

..enjoy the whole experience as a portal to your new life..

..you could even move there!!

the world is your oyster.... or shall we say, pineapple!

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


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permanentpain
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Member # 38312
Default  Posted: 7:44 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

Enjoy!


Me: 32 y/o, student and mom of two of the best kids in the world
Him: 33 y/o scumbag
Divorcing
Feels good to start laughing and feeling better again...

Posts: 270 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Island
PanicAttack53
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Member # 34195
Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

Congratulations!! Good for you!

Enjoy your trip and try and make it over to Maui. You'll love the little town of Lahaina and the whale watching this time of year is spectacular.

Most of all though... have fun!!

[This message edited by PanicAttack53 at 7:46 PM, April 25th (Thursday)]


Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 59 on D-day (11/17/11) | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle

Posts: 905 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Midwest
hurting2much
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Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

Have a wonderful time!!


Divorced

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

Hope you have a wonderful time, fraeuken.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25774 | Registered: Aug 2011
fraeuken
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Member # 30742
Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

Volcano Tour - booked :-)
Massage and Facial - booked :-)

Sitting on the deck with my travel guide and map and with a glass of cold Chardonnay checking out all the other options. Already devoured a pineapple, what a treat to eat it here.

Cheatermagnet, will send you a PM!



Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
Survivor3512
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Default  Posted: 9:16 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

I'm so jealous. Have a wonderful trip!!!!


Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie

Posts: 293 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Southeastern U.S.
PanicAttack53
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Default  Posted: 11:30 PM, April 25th (Thursday)

deck in Hawaiian = Lanai.

Just sayin...

Maluhia/Peace


Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 59 on D-day (11/17/11) | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle

Posts: 905 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Midwest
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 12:55 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Hey, aren't there a couple members of SI who live in Hawaii? You could have a G2G!!!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9827 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
fraeuken
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Member # 30742
Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, April 26th (Friday)

PA, starting my day with a great cup of coffee on my Lanai


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
PanicAttack53
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Member # 34195
Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, April 26th (Friday)

Pictures... please... Pictures

Ho'o mana 'olana ao maika'i nau 'oe (Hope you have a great day!)

[This message edited by PanicAttack53 at 3:27 PM, April 26th (Friday)]


Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 59 on D-day (11/17/11) | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle

Posts: 905 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Midwest
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, April 26th (Friday)

Isn't it so freeing being there knowing you don't have to please anyone else or consider what they want? Have a wonderful time!

(But I would definitely have gone with you!)


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2388 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
luv2swim
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Member # 13154
Default  Posted: 12:59 AM, April 27th (Saturday)

PM ... Hope you enjoy your visit!


Me: BS
Him: NPD WS
Married 24 years
incredible kids
D day: 2006 ... he left to live with OW.
Divorced: 2009
WS + OW: Married 2011

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