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foreverempty
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Member # 34426
Default  Posted: 5:26 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Best birthday in a good while.

New job this week and divorce final next week. Time to celebrate me thinks!


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 607 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
authenticnow
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Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 6:25 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Happy birthday! And good luck with your new beginnings!!!

Have fun celebrating!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 37563 | Registered: Sep 2007
MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 6:39 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Happy Birthday!!!!


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52125 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Deeply Scared
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Member # 2
Default  Posted: 6:41 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Happy Birthday!!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 197715 | Registered: May 2002
somanyyears
Member
Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 6:44 AM, April 26th (Friday)


..hope you're going out tonight to kick up some dust and let loose..

enjoy a few pints!!!

enjoy your B-Day and your fresh start.

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4123 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
SisterMilkshake
Member
Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 6:48 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Happy Birthday to you! Go and kick ass in your new beginning!


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9641 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
abbycadabby
Member
Member # 27428
Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Happy Birthday!

Posts: 1248 | Registered: Feb 2010
simplydevastated
Member
Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 8:39 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Well, this deserves some fireworks! Have a happy birthday and congratulations on your new beginning

[This message edited by simplydevastated at 8:41 AM, April 26th (Friday)]


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 8:58 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Happy Birthday!!!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25273 | Registered: Aug 2011
jrc1963
Member
Member # 26531
Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Happy Birthday!!!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24504 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 11:31 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Happy Birthday!!!

Posts: 35112 | Registered: Mar 2011
collateraldamage
Member
Member # 32546
Default  Posted: 11:56 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Happy Birthday!!!!


Me:BS (46) Him:WH (46)
Married 20 years/together 26
Two DS 16/14
DD#1 2/1994 (PA) DD#2 1997-2000?? several EA DD#3 2/17/2011 PA 6 months DD#4 7/13/2011 My Space Account (from 20007) looking for casual sex 10/17/2011 DD#1,000,000... new EA

Posts: 197 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: los angeles
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 12:04 PM, April 26th (Friday)

Happy Birthday!!!


I bow to those who keep their hearts open when it is most difficult, those who refuse to keep their armor on any longer than they have to, those who recognize the courage at the heart of vulnerability. - Jeff Brown

Posts: 17284 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
foreverempty
Member
Member # 34426
Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, April 26th (Friday)

Thanks everyone....

I am indeed going out tonight to get totally plastered!

Phoned my solicitor to see if her heard about the decree absolute being granted and unfortunately he doesn't work Fridays and his secretary said there was nothing in the post.......

Gutted cause I was hoping to hear back so I could celebrate properly!
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So I phoned the court and asked them over the phone if it had been granted.....

Result???


I'M OFFICIALLY DIVORCED.....!

Only finances to finalise now but I am officially no longer married.

The best birthday present I could have wished for! xx

Tonight is going to be soooooo messy! x


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 607 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
somanyyears
Member
Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 7:58 AM, April 27th (Saturday)


..soooooo, it's Saturday, congrats on the official 'no longer married' status ...and welcome to the "free as a bird" status..

..hope you have one helluva hangover.. and you can't find your underwear..

..happy birthday again..

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4123 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
tryingagain74
Member
Member # 33698
Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, April 27th (Saturday)

Happy birthday! Have you seen any trailers for the new film version of The Great Gatsby? You need to have a Gatsby-sized party.


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3596 | Registered: Oct 2011
PurpleRose
Member
Member # 33129
Default  Posted: 8:42 AM, April 27th (Saturday)

What a fabulous birthday present!! Happy birthday and big congrats on your new SINGLE status!!

Hope last night was a blast!


divorced the Dooosh
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even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

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