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FogHater
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Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, April 26th (Friday)

This friend is OW's son, anyway he was suspended from school yesterday he had weed on him.
I told ds he doesn't need that in his life. His friend said someone put it in his bag. Yea...that's what they all say.
How am I supposed to say when I really don't know him.
Wh has told me OW's ex sells it.
But I don't know for sure.
Any suggestions would help...


I don't know what I'm doing
but I know what I'm not doing

Posts: 1301 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Illinois
Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 10:53 AM, April 26th (Friday)

Even if this kid is telling the truth and did not put a bag of weed in his bag, that only means that he is hanging out with people who have a bag of weed and who are shifty enough to hide it in this kid's bag. Either way, this is not the type of kid that you want you kid associating with.

Tell your DS that if he continue to hang out with this kid then everyone (classmates, teachers, counselors, principal,...) will believe that he also smokes dope. He will be guilty by association. And he will be labeled as a pot head and a bad kid or a troublemaker because of it.

HTH


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

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FogHater
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Default  Posted: 8:13 PM, April 26th (Friday)

Ya I know I have said that
This kids dad sells it so....
or at least that what wh told me
Who knows I'd that's right.


I don't know what I'm doing
but I know what I'm not doing

Posts: 1301 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Illinois
movingforward777
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Default  Posted: 12:50 AM, April 27th (Saturday)

If your son is hanging around with this kid how long before your son has someone "put it in his bag"?
It's a risk I wouldn't want him taking....HUGS


You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith

Posts: 4839 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: Ontario
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 1:59 AM, April 27th (Saturday)

Time to put the hammer down. BTDT when I was in high school. That's a bad rep to try and shake off. In fact, I never did.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
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