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meplustwo
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Member # 39082
Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, April 27th (Saturday)

Ok, so day one of my 180. He hasn't called, texted or emailed. I'm guessing he enjoying a kid-free weekend with OW. I am playing with my kiddos outside today (bubbles, chalk, power wheels) then out with the girls to see a band we like tonight. Hoping all the diversion helps me fight the temptation to contact him.
Thanks for listening!


Me(34) - BS
Him(35) - WH
Married: 9 years
Two Kids: 4 and 6
D-Day #1: 7/12, D-Day #2: 4/24/13
Affair: EA to PA with coworker
Status of A: Says he broke it off after I went to her house and confronted both of them

Posts: 59 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Maine
PurpleRose
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Member # 33129
Default  Posted: 9:00 AM, April 27th (Saturday)

There ya go! Having a plan, and sticking to it, is so helpful!


divorced the Dooosh
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even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3612 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
devistatedmom
Member
Member # 24961
Default  Posted: 9:40 AM, April 27th (Saturday)

Keep going meplustwo! Just remember, every minute you resist takes you one more minute closer to healing yourself. :)


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5521 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
Topic Posts: 3