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Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, April 28th (Sunday)

I just venting crying my eyes out. My house was destroyed in Illinois flood a week ago , so far no assistance financially , no flood insurance . Filed for Divorce should be over in June. House is mine. I hates it anyways we lived like hillbillies because he never up dated anything that ever broke . I have duck tape on my front door. I have to file bank rupt I have no option and I just feel really down because I know this is my life and I don't see it getting better. I'll always live in this house with a leaky roof and duck tape on the door. I just want to run away :-(

Me 39, EX H 40 married 17 years infidelity on both parts . He a serial cheater. I cheated for revenge and ran home to brag. Or make Him mad. He confessed to more affairs after that. We are now divorced living apart . 3 children

Posts: 957 | Registered: Jan 2005 | From: illinois
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Default  Posted: 8:13 PM, April 28th (Sunday)


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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Default  Posted: 8:36 PM, April 28th (Sunday)



Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

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Default  Posted: 6:09 PM, April 29th (Monday)


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

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Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, April 29th (Monday)


Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.

Nobody forgets what happens, the secret is learning to live with it.

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Default  Posted: 6:48 PM, April 30th (Tuesday)


Me, BS Him WS early 40's at the start, cheated before and after cancer diagnosis.
Two A's, two OW's, online looking for sex partners, two false R's.
Threw him out in January 2009.
Divorce final March 30th, 2010

XWH died Dec. 2010

Posts: 4104 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: New Jersey
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Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, April 30th (Tuesday)

(((Straw blond)))
Praying some how this becomes a blessing in disguise and somehow the flood brings you a way to either repair your house properly, or a way out of it into better living conditions and more secure financially. Please keep us posted on how you are doing.

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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