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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 8:41 PM, April 28th (Sunday)

So I heard about what a wonderful man OM was when I went through hell last year. He's so calm and understanding and how XWW can talk to him without judgement and that I would really like him if I gave him a chance.

I've heard snippets of what the truth is from XWW's former BFF - BFF is my friend now. SHe was a friend of the M and once the A hit their friendship disintegrated.

Last night I get a text from BFF. The last section was this:

they are both possessive and insecure. He says one thing but his actions were another. she called him a tightwad and it makes her want to scream and he acts liek a jilted lover. insanity and stupidity rolled up in one LOL!

This is great! It's so good to know that she is so much better off without me.

[This message edited by gahurts at 8:56 PM, April 28th (Sunday)]


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Posts: 3421 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, April 28th (Sunday)


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9712 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
tesla
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Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, April 28th (Sunday)

I just love it when the land of unicorns and pixie dust morphs into a big pile of dog shit that they magically find their faces in.
Warms the cockles of my heart


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4655 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 9:49 PM, April 28th (Sunday)

it always comes back around...


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3604 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 6:29 AM, April 29th (Monday)

that I would really like him if I gave him a chance

It's hard to choose, but of all the bullshit that comes out of their mouths, this has to be the worst.

Enjoy your life, gahurts, with the knowledge that she's 'enjoying' hers so much


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20221 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
allatsea
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Default  Posted: 7:00 AM, April 29th (Monday)

I love Tesla's response.


Me 40
WW 38
Together 19 years
Married for 9
DS(1) 9
DS(2) 7
Dday 10th Feb 2013
She moved in with POS and took kids 23rd Mar 2013. WW now has new baby
Divorced April 2014

Posts: 695 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: UK
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, April 29th (Monday)

Heartwarming. Thanks for sharing!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7697 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
sunshine226
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Default  Posted: 11:24 AM, April 29th (Monday)

LOL, Ive heard the same type of thing

OW is really friendly and smart........yeah shes so smart, she has believed all of WH's lies, despite me telling her 3 times we're still together, and then telling her absolutely EVERYTHING.

Ok, yeah she's smart

Its a toss up as to who tells the most lies, WH or OW, if you ask me, I think they are both STUPID


Me-BS (44)
Him-WS (47)
DDay 1/1/2012, common law for 22 1/2 years when he began A in September 2011
Status: moving on without him

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fallingquickly
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Default  Posted: 1:17 PM, April 29th (Monday)

The creepiest thing WH told me was before I knew about the cheating. He said MOW is a lot like our daughter. Yuck.


Me-BW 50
Him-STBXWH

2 Ddays and lots of TT
divorcing

Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 4:35 PM, April 29th (Monday)

t/j
Oh! I just remembered this...ex-shat about a year ago (pre-NC) after I went off on him about how could he take our son and parade him in front of stripper whore said this to me: "But you two are so similar."


Yeah, about as similar as a crack in my driveway is to the grand fucking canyon.
In his mind, pretty sure he had us being bffs.

end t/j

[This message edited by tesla at 4:36 PM, April 29th (Monday)]


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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