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Pippy
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Default  Posted: 7:08 AM, April 29th (Monday)

Just realised today (the 29th) that I completely forgot that I was D 7 years ago on Apr 6th.

You really do survive this - in time. I was devastated after 30 year of M and sure I'd never get past it.

You never "forget" about it, but you do live again and in my case I am much stronger than I was with him. The Sh*t that I took! Shame on me.


I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
M 30 yrs.


Posts: 9584 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: East of the Rockies
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 8:25 AM, April 29th (Monday)


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

There are shortcuts to happiness, and dancing is one of them-Vicky Baum


Posts: 49743 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:11 AM, April 29th (Monday)

you do live again and in my case I am much stronger
Love it!




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defyinggravity
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Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, April 29th (Monday)

I'm only 2 years out from D but it really is getting easier. I think about it every day but I'm no longer devastated. Really pretty happy.


Me-BS Him-WS
Married-35 years
3 adult children
DD1-1/08. EA. In (fake) MC. "Just friends."
DD2-1/09. PA. Same OW,13 years younger. His married coworker.
Divorced-1/25/11 They married 2/12.


Posts: 84 | Registered: Sep 2009
Pippy
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Member # 16482
Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, April 29th (Monday)

defyinggravity you were M 35 years. How could a man do that? I am glad to hear you are doing better. You'll have good and bad days, but the good ones win out eventually.

I even came to the conclusion that it was meant to be, because now I am happier. It takes awhile but it DOES happen. Hang in there.


I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
M 30 yrs.


Posts: 9584 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: East of the Rockies
tesla
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Default  Posted: 5:32 PM, April 29th (Monday)


ish kabibble

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Grace and Flowers
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Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, April 29th (Monday)

Pippy,
I too wonder if was just meat to be...because I am sooooo much happier. I was married 25 years, together 30. I never thought I would feel so good again. I'm glad you do, too.


I'm Happy, not Sad!

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