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Pippy
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Default  Posted: 7:08 AM, April 29th (Monday)

Just realised today (the 29th) that I completely forgot that I was D 7 years ago on Apr 6th.

You really do survive this - in time. I was devastated after 30 year of M and sure I'd never get past it.

You never "forget" about it, but you do live again and in my case I am much stronger than I was with him. The Sh*t that I took! Shame on me.


I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
M 30 yrs.


Posts: 9587 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: East of the Rockies
MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 8:25 AM, April 29th (Monday)


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 51940 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:11 AM, April 29th (Monday)

you do live again and in my case I am much stronger
Love it!

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defyinggravity
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Member # 25552
Default  Posted: 10:24 AM, April 29th (Monday)

I'm only 2 years out from D but it really is getting easier. I think about it every day but I'm no longer devastated. Really pretty happy.


Me-BS Him-WS
Married-35 years
3 adult children
DD1-1/08. EA. In (fake) MC. "Just friends."
DD2-1/09. PA. Same OW,13 years younger. His married coworker.
Divorced-1/25/11 They married 2/12.


Posts: 86 | Registered: Sep 2009
Pippy
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Member # 16482
Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, April 29th (Monday)

defyinggravity you were M 35 years. How could a man do that? I am glad to hear you are doing better. You'll have good and bad days, but the good ones win out eventually.

I even came to the conclusion that it was meant to be, because now I am happier. It takes awhile but it DOES happen. Hang in there.


I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
M 30 yrs.


Posts: 9587 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: East of the Rockies
tesla
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Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 5:32 PM, April 29th (Monday)


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4610 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Grace and Flowers
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Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, April 29th (Monday)

Pippy,
I too wonder if was just meat to be...because I am sooooo much happier. I was married 25 years, together 30. I never thought I would feel so good again. I'm glad you do, too.


I'm Happy, not Sad!

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