Yet, on the other hand,I feel in a way by leaving the note it is very passive aggressive.
Its not passive aggressive to leave an note, as long as there is no beating around the bush....
I would prefer it if you didnt call me for no reason. If one of the kids is in an emergency, then that's ok, but I really dont want to just chit chat and stuff. (and then go onto chit chat, but get mad at him when he tries to chit chat back)
PA = its wishy washy and aloff and full of loopholes to get into.
From (insert date) the only communication that we will have will have to do with the children, finances, or any child emergency related issues. Email will be the first line of communcation followed by phone call or text, depending on the severity and/or need of communication.
And then that's it...its to the point, there is no room for discussion, and since it is written (preferably emailed) there is documentation of such that you can return to if need be.