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turned123
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What?  Posted: 5:04 PM, April 29th (Monday)

Now that I've been divorced two years, separated for 3, fell in love again in a new beginning, learned that the end of the world didn't in fact happen, have trouble at times dealing with problems with my kids because of the divorce. Where do I post? When my kids are bummed because their mother blew up their world???


me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids

Posts: 334 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: milwaukee
want_to_forgive
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Member # 20470
Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, April 29th (Monday)

Hi Turned,

My experience with SI has been that pretty much every forum is full of wonderful, supportive peeps!

My daughter was putting me through the ringer a few years ago, I found a lot of good advice in Off Topic.

Divorce and Separating is also pretty active, and a lot of people there are dealing with parenting issues.

It's great that you have made it this far and you are still reaching out, it is awesome to see men posting about wanting to help their children.


M 11 years
Me: BS 38 Him: WS
DDay June 2006, LTA BFFOW
Divorced April 5, 2013
Not making a decision is making a decision.

Posts: 534 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Alaska
turned123
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Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, April 29th (Monday)

Thanks want to!! The feedback here is very helpful!! I need to improve on adding back story and details when I post so people know what they are dealing with. Sometimes in divorce/sep folks think I'm not divorced yet. Maybe off topic is a better spot for me.


me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids

Posts: 334 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: milwaukee
kernel
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Member # 27035
Default  Posted: 6:42 PM, April 29th (Monday)

Right here in NB is okay for stuff about your kids too, when it's related to the A. All of that stuff is part of your NB, not just the happy stuff or the dating stuff.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

Posts: 4922 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
turned123
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Member # 33663
Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, April 29th (Monday)

Most excellent!! It's nice to be home


me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids

Posts: 334 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: milwaukee
torn2bits
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Member # 28376
Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, April 29th (Monday)

Turned, the best thing about SI is that you will get good advice no matter where you post!

Yep, NB is good for kids stuff too since there are divorced people here having kids issues too.

I post/read here even though I have been trying to divorce for 3 years now. Some of us have the SA/NPD divorce poison STBX/X so we know a few things.

Post away!


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

Posts: 1240 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
stupidstupidme
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Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, April 30th (Tuesday)

Off Topic is great for kid issues, but not for infidelity. I think there's a strict rule in OT, so if your post still centers around infidelity, maybe D/S, or here, or general.


Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson

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turned123
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Default  Posted: 5:27 PM, April 30th (Tuesday)

Well looks like off topic is the place for me or here boy I thought settling a divorce was complicated


me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids

Posts: 334 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: milwaukee
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