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User Topic: Today would have been my 8 year wedding anniversary.....
She11ybeanz
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Member # 27457
Frustrated  Posted: 7:47 AM, April 30th (Tuesday)

BOO....I wish today was over already! 3 years since he left me....(he left me 10 days before our 5 year anniversary... )

But...at least now I can call it the 2nd anniversary of the running of my 1st ever full marathon!!! Happy 26.2 to me! That's an exclusive club my XWH has yet to join!!!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2717 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
Survivor3512
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Member # 37946
Default  Posted: 8:53 AM, April 30th (Tuesday)

(((Shelly)))


Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie

Posts: 293 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Southeastern U.S.
She11ybeanz
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Member # 27457
Default  Posted: 9:28 AM, April 30th (Tuesday)

Will there EVER come a time in my life....where this day will come and go....and I won't be reminded of him...


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2717 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 5:37 PM, May 1st (Wednesday)

Yes - that day will come. Keep moving forward and putting your focus there.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25063 | Registered: Aug 2011
Vulcanized
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Member # 33523
Default  Posted: 6:07 PM, May 1st (Wednesday)

Will there EVER come a time in my life....where this day will come and go....and I won't be reminded of him...

Yup. I didn't remember my anni this year until mid-day. I'm guessing next year will be better.

Keep walking forward.


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 738 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
persevere
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Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 11:43 PM, May 1st (Wednesday)

I just hit two years and, yes, I think it gets a little better each year. Though it still hits you at times.
You feel it and you move through it - it's called healing. ((Hugs))


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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