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abbycadabby
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Sad  Posted: 2:04 PM, April 30th (Tuesday)

So, I'm kind of just over being a grown up today. It's nothing really major, just a few things converged just right to make me feel slightly overwhelmed.

Then, I read a thread on here that caused me to trigger terribly... in a way I haven't triggered in a very long time.

This triggering is not about the A, so I hope this is the right place for it.

Anyone have any hugs to spare?

[This message edited by abbycadabby at 2:08 PM, April 30th (Tuesday)]


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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, April 30th (Tuesday)

(((abby)))


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We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, April 30th (Tuesday)

(((abby)))

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simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, April 30th (Tuesday)

(((HUGS)))


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

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Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, April 30th (Tuesday)

(((abbycadabby)))

Totally understand....it's been one thing after another since November in our house, and sunday night we had a visitor at the house that sent me to 7 years ago.

My grandmother and I always had a contest to see who would see the first lighting bug first. When we would see one, we would call the other right away.

I had not seen one yet, but right before we went to bed, a lighting bug was crawling on the brand new living room floor....it was the day before her birthday.

I hate that after 7 years it can still send my heart to shatters....

So totally get you...


Me: 31 MH
Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit

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abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, April 30th (Tuesday)

Thank you all.

(((Undefinabl3)))


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 2:38 PM, April 30th (Tuesday)

(((Abby)))


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, April 30th (Tuesday)

(((((AbbyCadabby))))


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abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 9:28 AM, May 1st (Wednesday)

Update:

Had a pretty good rest of the day yesterday. I appreciate all the thoughts and hugs. You guys are awesome!

Got up this morning and ran into a friend who complimented my hair. We talked for a bit about my wanting to get some highlights put in. She recommended a stylist to me, so I immediately called to make the appt. It is next Wednesday!

I need to do stuff like this sometimes... take care of myself more. Do things to make me feel good. This gets neglected at times. Maybe my next step should be booking a day at the spa?

Anyway, sorry for the randomness.


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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 10:15 AM, May 1st (Wednesday)

(((Abby)))
I too am tired of being a grown up today.

This has been a rough year for me, and nothing A related. Life just can sometimes suck was too much.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, May 1st (Wednesday)

(((tushnurse)))

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