Your D-day was just last week.
This is so fresh for you.
So, I can only imagine what you are going through right now.
You are doing right by telling your WH to cut contact with the OW if he is thinking of trying to work things out with you.
You are also right in letting him know he can't cake eat!!!!!!
Applause to you!!
There is just no other way he can reconcile with you without first cutting ties w/the one who is helping him wreak havoc in your marriage.
You are also right that YOU are the only one who can decide whether or not you will keep the marriage or not.
We're here for you if you need a shoulder to lean on bc the road ahead will not be easy.
However, you sound like a strong woman who won't play games.
Stand your ground and move as you feel you need to. Do what's best for you during this time because you are going to have to take care of yourself more now than ever.
I hope your WH comes around.
Standing with you!!
You are not alone.