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SoHappyNow
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Member # 8923
Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, May 5th (Sunday)

My friend and I are now living together. His divorce will be final this month, as the
lawyer appears
before the judge on the 17 th to request the final decree. His soon to be exwife and he
are still amicable
- I know this because when they converse about the divorce, he puts his phone on speaker.
He wants
to be open and transparent about everything, so that our relationship goes well. We have
had a few
things come up that proved to be a good test of both of our communication/relationship
skills and his
words and actions were spot on. He recently had to go renew his access card for my state
emergency
management department where he has volunteered his skills with ham radio since 2010. His
clearance
level went up so he needed new picture id which opens all doors to him at state police
headquarters......better than a background check imo. He really IS a good man, my late
husband's
judgement was not impaired when he set this new romance in motion by asking friend to
look after me.

I am so glad that I did not reject the gift that God/the Universe sent to me. I am very
very happy again.
My son and my friends are pretty delighted by this turn of events too. Thank you for
caring about me,
SI friends. I wanted to let you know how well this is turning out.


In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus

***Used to be hit-by-a-train***
Remarried 2/14/14


Posts: 2295 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: USA
MyVoice
Member
Member # 35695
Default  Posted: 10:51 PM, May 5th (Sunday)

thanks for sharing your beautiful life


Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

Posts: 472 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Australia
gma56
Member
Member # 19595
Default  Posted: 12:20 AM, May 6th (Monday)

It's so wonderful to read that life still have good surprises for us !


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20383 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
authenticnow
Moderator
Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 5:30 AM, May 6th (Monday)

Wishing you lots of happiness!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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