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Member # 30314
Default  Posted: 9:55 AM, May 6th (Monday)

Just wanted to say: I feel pretty good. We are tired. We are enjoying being together in the sunshine. It was a long winter. We have occasional flare ups. Hubby said he’s afraid one more will topple our house of cards. Maybe. Maybe not.

We’ve had to deal with 3 affairs and a rape the last 3 years. I’m not sure if a couple can recover from this. We’re trying. We love each other. Last night I quietly cried. I thought how my affair and the rape must have made him feel. I felt a lot of compassion for him.

his Ddays: 2/10, 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me: 47
him: 51
4 kiddos in lower 20's

“Slide the weight from your shoulders and move forward. You are afraid you might forget, but you never will. You will forgive and remember."

Posts: 4457 | Registered: Dec 2010
Member # 26859
Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, May 6th (Monday)

One day at a time.

WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6092 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
Member # 35566
Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, May 6th (Monday)


take it one day at a time, create your life together one day at a time together. It sounds like you are succeeding.

Me: fWH/BH 46

Separated transitioning to D

Posts: 722 | Registered: May 2012 | From: L.A.
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