Just wanted to say: I feel pretty good. We are tired. We are enjoying being together in the sunshine. It was a long winter. We have occasional flare ups. Hubby said he’s afraid one more will topple our house of cards. Maybe. Maybe not.
We’ve had to deal with 3 affairs and a rape the last 3 years. I’m not sure if a couple can recover from this. We’re trying. We love each other. Last night I quietly cried. I thought how my affair and the rape must have made him feel. I felt a lot of compassion for him.
his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12
me (WW/BS): 48
4 kiddos in mid 20's
The conditions we face do not define us. They remind us of who we are and who we want to be.