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turned123
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Wink  Posted: 9:57 AM, May 6th (Monday)

and it didnt hurt a bit. We have been broken up about 2 1/2 months after a year long relationship. I was devastated when she 'changed' so abruptly. I have to admit for one split fleeting milisecond I held hope of a reunion from her viewing me. Then I realized there is no satisfaction being with someone who really didnt treat you so great. Today is her birthday. I dont know if that triggered her viewing or not. Really it doesnt matter. I'll take it one of two ways but as a compliment. One, she misses us or rather how soft and warm I made things for her or two, she is looking for buisiness contacts of which I have plenty and she is looking to drum up sales for her self. Either way this was pretty much a non event for me. That makes me happy Have a great day all!!!


me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids

Posts: 334 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: milwaukee
torn2bits
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Default  Posted: 12:33 PM, May 6th (Monday)

Perhaps she wanted to see your face again when she was thinking about you. Some don't realize that you can see who has viewed you on Linkedin.

Good for you that you can see it for what it was.


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

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wonderingbull
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Default  Posted: 2:13 PM, May 6th (Monday)

Sounds like you put it in the proper perspective....

Chin up... Eyes forward!

WB


The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...

James Taylor


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turned123
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Default  Posted: 2:28 PM, May 6th (Monday)

thanks gang. Its funny you say chin up WB! Years ago during the emmotional abuse from xww I actually did look down. Eye contact was very difficult back then to anyone. Thats how messed up I was. It's sooo nice now to look ahead and SEE the world


me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids

Posts: 334 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: milwaukee
turned123
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Member # 33663
Default  Posted: 4:29 PM, May 6th (Monday)

Torn2bits your thought is what made think of a reunion. Doesn't everyone want to be missed??? I won't give this much thought as its all water under the bridge now. It made me think of what could have been but who's to say that can't happen with someone different when I'm ready.


me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids

Posts: 334 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: milwaukee
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