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tesla
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Default  Posted: 9:26 PM, May 6th (Monday)

to do the wage garnishment thing. I'm annoyed that I have to do it. It's not my responsibility. I make sure my son gets my financial contribution for his necessities. Why can't this fucker contribute his share to his son?

Whatever...I'm annoyed, but it's just business now and I've got this lovely pair of bitch boots that I finally get to break in. I texted him a couple of night ago, "Teslet has expressed an interest in soccer there is a morning camp for XXXX dates at X time. If you would like to contribute to the cost, your half would be $X." You think I've heard anything back? Of course not. He hasn't paid CS since the end of January. Why would he give a shit about a soccer camp for his kid. Hasn't paid his portion of tuition or registration for next year. Hasn't paid me half of his 2012 tax refund per the D decree. Hasn't cleaned up his accounting mess with CS state office. Well fuck that guy. I am in the business of making sure that his son is financially provided for and he will pay his share.

I will be asking that he pay my lawyer's fees. Especially after I forward the text he sent me asking when I was going to have my lawyer garnish his wages.

This guy. Such a fuck.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4605 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
bbee
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Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, May 6th (Monday)

Ooooh! Such pretty bitch boots!

Sorry you have to deal with this, tes. Yes, it's well and truly time to Fuck. That. Guy.

(((tes)))


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And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


Posts: 6648 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, May 6th (Monday)

Such sharp tools, eh?? I am getting myself prepared for the money game.. I know it's going to happen. Sorry your Dooosh can't be a man.

Oh.. Wait.


divorced the Dooosh
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even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
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Posts: 3534 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
CharlieFoxtrot
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Member # 38010
Default  Posted: 10:46 PM, May 6th (Monday)

I'm annoyed that I have to do it. It's not my responsibility.

Girlfriend, I am so with you on this. Mother Fucker over here thinks he is such an awesome guy for making child support payments the last few months, when *HELLO*, after threatening me with closing me out of accounts and threatening to withhold CS, I FREAKING SET UP THE AUTOMATIC WITHDRAWAL FROM AN ACCOUNT HE CAN'T CLOSE . Now, he's taking an affront that it would be mandated for him to pay CS because he has been so *faithful* to do so? Whatever. Fuck him. Fuck your EX.

He hasn't paid CS since the end of January.

^^ What a douchedick. FTG, and at least know that if you handle it, it will be done right.

Oy. FTG.


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Posts: 505 | Registered: Jan 2013
newlysingle
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Member # 38735
Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, May 6th (Monday)

What a douchebag. Fortunately for me, my STBXH asked that I have his wages garnished. He's a total loser with money and he knows it. So he wants it out of his check upfront. As much as an asshole as my STBX has been about a lot of things, money is not one of them.


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 870 | Registered: Mar 2013
h0peless
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Member # 36697
Default  Posted: 11:07 PM, May 6th (Monday)

Considering the debt collector incident the other day and his inability to meet his financial obligations to his son, it sounds like things are going swimmingly with his little pole dancing girl. I guess that's what happens when you shack up with somebody who is willing to give lap dances for cash.

Posts: 1645 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
dmari
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Default  Posted: 1:41 AM, May 7th (Tuesday)

Shit tesla, I didn't know he wasn't paying CS since the end of January. I'm glad you aren't going to waste any more time and set up wage garnishment. It absolutely sickens me when our WS's can't just do the fucking right thing. Good luck.


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2138 | Registered: Oct 2012
tesla
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Default  Posted: 5:28 AM, May 7th (Tuesday)

Shit tesla, I didn't know he wasn't paying CS since the end of January.

Yeah. He made a 'gift' at the end of January that my L says I should take as a prepayment...she said I would have a better chance of getting a garnishment (which really, is what I ultimately want anyway) and he would look more the fool. Taking that money as a prepayment, he is technically 'only' 6/7 weeks behind. But he doesn't know that. Plus, I wanted to wait till about a month after I know that he did his taxes so that I can go after the half of the tax refund that I'm entitled to per the D decree.

It's irritating to me that he hasn't made a payment or at the very least even tried. Well, I got a text about 3 weeks ago saying that I could expect a sizable sum from both his CS and the tax refund. Oh gee, isn't that swell? He texted me that he knows he owes. This guy makes a lot of money...I mean, a lot. I'm a teacher for god's sake.

In the words of Dark Inertia on my last thread, "Ruh roh."
Looks like it times to throw the stripper back up on the pole to make a little extra cash.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4605 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
SBB
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Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 5:39 AM, May 7th (Tuesday)

Looks like it times to throw the stripper back up on the pole to make a little extra cash.

Be glad its the only button he has left to push honey.

Fuck....That....Guy....


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Posts: 5527 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, May 7th (Tuesday)

((((tesla and teslet))))

I'm so sorry that he can't be bothered to pay for HIS OWN KID!!!!!

Good thing you've got those bitch boots in reserve, can we have a peek??


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2541 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

Don't get poop on those boots when you kick his ass.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7504 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Bebba1171
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Member # 33857
Default  Posted: 8:41 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

Go Get'em Tesla.
He is out of control.
I just made my final CS payment last week which was a relief. Happy I caught her in the affair, since I did not have to pay any alimony.

It all stinks for sure.

Good thing for you is that you are smart, caring, and hard working.

Teslet is so fortunate to have you.

I always say Rut Roh. Happy I have been corrected by you!

Hang in there. You are so strong.

and...

so Attractive!


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 52 (Me) / XWW 50 - ages back in 2011
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 726 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: USA
ruinedandbroken
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Member # 29250
Default  Posted: 9:11 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

This guy makes a lot of money...I mean, a lot. I'm a teacher for god's sake.

What a douche. I have a feeling I am going to be in your shoes one day. My ex has finally paid up but I'm not expecting it to last. They sure do know how to fuck up their lives and take everyone down with them, don't they?


“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 6&9
Married 14 yrs Together 21

Posts: 1563 | Registered: Aug 2010
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

It is annoying to have to do someone else's job. Whether it's the X or someone you work with.

At least he gets to pay for your attorney to clean up his mess.

Hugs,

K


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Posts: 4987 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Coraline
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Default  Posted: 9:54 AM, May 8th (Wednesday)

Wow, that sucks. I'm sorry. What an ass.


Me: BW, 34 Him: WH, 35
3 Kids: 9, 3, and 1
Decree nisi will become absolute in January. We are DONE.

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