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User Topic: Karma's a bitch isn't it xWH?! Haha!
GrievingMommy
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Default  Posted: 10:03 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

Today I found out NPD WXH is working at his six-figure a year job by day, and a second job at Sears selling appliances!! Bwahahaaa He swore he'd never do it again as he did it 15 years ago back before his degrees. (I'm not slamming Sears, but he's such a NPD and everything is beneath him....according to him.)

Paying child support for children you never see adds up. KARMA lol And a new wife who is a big spender and loves to shop doesn't help and who's not currently working and exwife #1 takingn him back to court for the CS he's not been paying.. I've chuckled the whole day.

I bet his former life with me isn't looking so bad now. A nice comfortable life with your loving family and trips, etc. Now he's just screwing himself over and over.

(I'm just hoping to not get my CS docked when he starts paying his exwife more.)

KARMA! It took awhile, but it's finally happened.


Me - Now 36 y/o
WXH: Now 45 y/o and 18+ hrs away -NPD asshole now onto wife #3.
My sweeties: 5 yr old B/G twins. 90% custody (or more) since 14 months old.
D-Day 4/4/10 PA('s?) & EA's - D'd 7/11

Posts: 1691 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Upper Midwest
LifeIsBroken
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Default  Posted: 10:07 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

I love karma stories; thank you for sharing.


BW: 59
XH: 60
Married 34 yrs, LIBerated: 2/17/11
MOW: 50 (she said she wanted a sugar daddy; xh said, "I'M HIM!")
Actions ALWAYS have consequences. Too bad cheaters don't consider the consequences BEFORE they create so much damage.

Posts: 495 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Missouri & Massachusetts
peridot
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Default  Posted: 10:11 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

Will CSE use a second job as income? Maybe you can get the CS modified based on his increase of income.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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Random thoughts
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Default  Posted: 10:16 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

Why do I feel the need to go to Sears and give the salesman in the appliance dept like 20,000 questions about that washer and dryer set that he will be looking for the Punk'd cameras.

Also need to rent an annoying child to leave fingerprints on the stainless steal appliances.


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ruinedandbroken
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Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

lol! Love it! My ex had to get a second job too...as a bartender! Then, to add more karma, he lost his day job; the career he worked years at, due to womanizing behavior. That is some Saaaweeeet karma!


“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 6&9
Married 14 yrs Together 21

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NoraLee
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Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)

D/S has the best karma stories!!! Thanks for letting us share the joy!!!


Me - BW - 44
Him - FWH - 42
Married 16 years
D day - 1/2 truth - July 2012
Full disclosure - August 2012
EA with skanky waitress coworker
3 kids - 14, 16, 21
In R

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la433
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Default  Posted: 12:47 AM, May 8th (Wednesday)

I'm just hoping to not get my CS docked when he starts paying his exwife more.

The amount of child support is not a negotiated amount, is it? I'd definitely talk to the courts and get first dibs.

OH, Karma...love it. Thanks for sharing.


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Dadtryingtocope
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Default  Posted: 3:05 PM, May 8th (Wednesday)

Jeez. SO jealous. I want a Karma story. Yea for you GM! :)

He will be sorry. You should totally go into Sears and buy something from one of the other salesmen!


BH me 46
WW her 38
DDay 8-17-12
2 kids (12, 9)
Filed for D 9/14/12
Divorced 4/17/13
She - engaged 5/13 married 9/13

Posts: 551 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: PA
Whalers11
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Default  Posted: 3:17 PM, May 8th (Wednesday)

I love a good karma story!

My WxSO had it pretty good with me... I was the primary wage earner and he spent a good chunk of the years with me not working, or being severely underemployed (read: he'd work a minimun wage job part-time then quit after a few weeks when he didn't like the boss telling him what to do). I really didn't care much but I think it bruised his ego...

Anyway, his job karma story is that when he and OW split up he had to get a full-time job. He had no job skills so he ended up with a manual labor job that didn't pay great. He got hurt on the job, is out on disability with reduced pay but they are still garnishing his wages for child support for the full amount so he is only bringing home a little over $100/week. He probably spends all that on gas because he is back with his parents in a neighboring state and is constantly driving the 2+ hours back and forth for visitation with OC and doctor's appointments. Sucks to be him.


Me: BGF - 33
Together 11+ years - not married, no children.
D-Day: 2/9/2010
OC Born: 10/9/2010
Status: He chose OW/OC and left immediately.

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GrievingMommy
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Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, May 8th (Wednesday)

I think a good Karma story is great for the soul!

He's been working at Sears since December according to the W2 that he had to send to xwife #1 for child support modification. I KNOW it KILLED him to send that W2. lol

Here they base CS off of the main full-time job so anything above that isn't calculated into CS. Since xwife had her CS case opened first, she's primary.

Either way, this still makes me giggle. So.....who lives in MI that can go visit and touch all the appliances with sticky fingers??

I was thinking of emailing him and asking what he recommends for a fridge........j/k.


Me - Now 36 y/o
WXH: Now 45 y/o and 18+ hrs away -NPD asshole now onto wife #3.
My sweeties: 5 yr old B/G twins. 90% custody (or more) since 14 months old.
D-Day 4/4/10 PA('s?) & EA's - D'd 7/11

Posts: 1691 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Upper Midwest
peridot
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Default  Posted: 12:06 AM, May 9th (Thursday)

They make commission at Sears. Someone who lives close should go there and ask all kinds of questions, have him look all kinds of info up on those computers they use, act all interested like he's gonna get a sale, then back out. Waste a whole bunch of his time.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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