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User Topic: Missing the ease of times past.
blakesteele
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Default  Posted: 6:25 PM, May 9th (Thursday)

Today as I left work I remembered how our M felt to us 3 years ago (past 2 years have been a bit off balance as we experienced the loss of a loved one..and the introduction of the A into our marriage has both my wife and I questioning what our pre-A M really and truly looked like).

I would call just as I left work and asked if I needed to pick up anything on the way home...

I guess this is just like everything else that you loose (health, wealth, etc.)...you have to lose it before you realize what you truly had.

sigh.

Not much of a post...just a melancholy mood I guess.

God be with us all.

[This message edited by blakesteele at 6:26 PM, May 9th (Thursday)]


ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not

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scarredforever
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Member # 23875
Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, May 9th (Thursday)

I understand your feelings of loss. It does get a little better with time.


"Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it."

Mark Twain

Me-BS 52
Him-WS 53
Together 33 years

6-5-06 Day of Reckoning

"The acquired inability to escape"


Posts: 1057 | Registered: May 2009 | From: swfl
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:28 AM, May 10th (Friday)

(((blake)))

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tushnurse
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Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 8:35 AM, May 10th (Friday)

((( Blake )))

Through true R, you will regain a real sense of normalcy.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8463 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Skan
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Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 3:12 PM, May 10th (Friday)

(((hugs))) It will get better for you, I promise. Which is, I know, small consolution when it''s so sucky now.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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somanyyears
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Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 4:58 PM, May 10th (Friday)


...you have to lose it before you realize what you truly had.

^^^^^^^^^^^^ this is so true.

sorry you are feeling crappy.

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


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