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libertyrocks
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Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, May 10th (Friday)

I will admit, sometimes, I make myself a little more sadder to music. Although I hate to do it, crying always makes me feel better. Haven't cried in a while...

I used to have a playlist called "runny mascara" on my ipod. Then realized I hadn't played it in a while.
Here's some of the songs:

Wish you were here by Pink Floyd.
Let down by Radiohead.
Love is a losing game by Amy Winehouse.
Wake up alone by Amy Winehouse.
Stepping Stone by Duffy.
Video of When you were young by the killers.(Always makes me cry when I watch it)

What are your sad songs?

[This message edited by libertyrocks at 2:32 PM, May 10th (Friday)]


Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,alcoholic, suspected NPD SA. 2 boys. M 6yrs T13.
DDay #1 Nov, 2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (all W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan, 2014
Filed for D Feb, 2014.He will cheat again. But, It wont be on me.

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SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 3:23 PM, May 10th (Friday)

Recently it's been Pink's "Give Me A Reason".


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

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Neithan
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Default  Posted: 4:30 PM, May 10th (Friday)

"Eye in the sky" by Alan Parsons tops my current list.

Don't think sorry's easily said
Don't try turning tables instead
You've taken lots of chances before
But I'm not gonna give anymore
Don't ask me
That's how it goes
Cause part of me knows what you're thinkin

[This message edited by Neithan at 4:54 PM, May 10th (Friday)]


Me: BH
Her: WW
D-Day: 2/19/2010
Married 1981
That which does not kill me makes me more irritable

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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 4:35 PM, May 10th (Friday)

Lately it's been "Eye" by Smashing Pumpkins. Before that, "Another Sad Love Song" by Toni Braxton, also "Angel From Montgomery" (the version with Bonnie Raitt sings with John Prine). Surely there are more... been trying to listen to music that's not about love or relationships or sex... It helps get my head in a different place.

[This message edited by silverhopes at 4:36 PM, May 10th (Friday)]


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
"Not my monkeys. Not my circus." ~Polish proverb (<~~~ as a codependent person, this comes in handy sometimes!)

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freelancer
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Default  Posted: 4:53 PM, May 10th (Friday)

I can't make you love me by Bonnie Raitt!


Me: BS, 34
Him: WH, 34
2 beautiful babies, 6 and 3, HB baby due 06/2014
DD1: 7/1/2012
OW#1: EA/PA for 14 months
OW#2: PA for 1.5 months
DD2: 9/17/2013 Back at it with OW#1 for 4 weeks.

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HereWeGo62
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Default  Posted: 5:02 PM, May 10th (Friday)

"Remember When" by Alan Jackson


If there is reincarnation I hope OM comes back as a low water flush truck stop toilet!

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clralb
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, May 10th (Friday)

Ooh, "Wish You Were Here" is a great one.

This isn't really sad, but it kind of made me chuckle at the time.

"One is the Loneliest Number" by Three Dog Night.

I heard it on the radio shortly after our separation. I was alone in the car and the song came on, and I said out loud, "Shut up, Three Dog Night," and changed the station.


BS Divorced.

They were right about you.


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Sue1964
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Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, May 10th (Friday)

I will always love u.

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crazyblindsided
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Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, May 10th (Friday)

Rhianna's 'Stay'


BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08, 5/09, 3/30/12
Final Dday 7/11/14 Affair never ended

Posts: 2266 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
0115
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Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, May 10th (Friday)

Come on get higher...Matt Nathanson


BS (me) 49
FWH 49 newbeg2011
Married 29 years
Very Long LTA
DD 01/15/11-6/30/11
The hard work is done...let the healing begin.

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Lostinthismess
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Default  Posted: 10:46 PM, May 10th (Friday)

'You lost me' Christina Aguilera. The 'you couldn't keep your hands to yourself' gets me every time.


Dday- 4/4/13
fwh- harrypotter
'You just keep living, until you are alive again'
'I don't want perfect, I want honest'

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Uneek
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Default  Posted: 1:47 AM, May 11th (Saturday)

Wish You Were Here is the ringtone when H calls me.

Just Give Me a Reason is my big song right now. Also high on my list is You Were Mine by the Dixie Chicks.

Not a love song, but Wayman's Song/Crying for Me by Toby Keith and The House That Built Me by Miranda Lambert get me every time.


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HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 1:47 AM, May 11th (Saturday)

Life Will Go On by Chris Isaak
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cZJe_BAcpEE


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

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Gottagetthrough
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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, May 11th (Saturday)

I don't know if these are sad, but I love adam lamberts what do you want from me (or whatever the name is... I only hear it on the radio)

I also like one direction all the right moves. I don't think it means what I thought it did, but when we were divorcing, the song went, "Everyone knows we're going down" and that was sort of my internal theme song LOL =)


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Gottagetthrough
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Default  Posted: 1:57 PM, May 11th (Saturday)

ohhhh.... lady gagas bad romance is also a favorite. not really sad, but I always think of wh and our very own bad romance!

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Alex CR
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, May 11th (Saturday)

Have to add another vote for Remember When by Alan Jackson


BS Me 61
WS Him 62
Married 33
Together 40
DD 11/16/09
The future looks good....

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idiot85
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Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, May 11th (Saturday)

Love her madly- the doors
Most Maximo Park or Glasvegas songs
Better do better- Hard-Fi

I have The Imperial March (Darth Vader's theme) for when the Mrs rings me...

Oh and Maybe by Emili Sande and Suitcase by her as well

[This message edited by idiot85 at 7:54 PM, May 11th (Saturday)]


BH-29 (me)
WW-28

Multi famam, conscientiam, pauci verentur.


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ssi0318
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Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, May 12th (Sunday)

Stay - Rihanna
I won't give up - Jason Mraz


Me-BS
Her-WW - probable NPD
M 11 years, T 14 years
3 kids, all under 11
DDday #2 04/18/2014
DDay #1 3/18/13
I'm not happy - Nov-12

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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, May 12th (Sunday)

There grew a little flower 'neath a great oak tree.
When the tempest 'gan to lower, little heeded she.
...
Sing Hey, lack-a-day
Sing Hey, lack-a-day
Sing Hey, lack-a-day, Let the tears fall free
For the pretty little flower and her great oak tree.

The song is from Gilbert & Sullivan's Ruddigore, and it brought tears to my eyes before the A. I can't even type the words without tears.

Hoping to help me feel better and not knowing the lyrics, shortly after D-Day my W asked me where the record was so she could play one of my favorite songs. I explained it wasn't a good choice, given where we were.

[This message edited by sisoon at 1:04 PM, May 12th (Sunday)]


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DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
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guarded
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Default  Posted: 9:41 PM, May 16th (Thursday)

Reba McIntre: Every Other Weekend and also, Consider me Gone, from the same album.


In R? But how do you know it isn't another pack of lies?

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Bobbi_sue
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Default  Posted: 5:45 AM, May 17th (Friday)

Reba McEntire's:

The Wife (is the last one to know)

And Also:

You Lie


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allatsea
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Default  Posted: 6:31 AM, May 17th (Friday)

"Dancing with another man" by Bruno Mars. It came out about one week after DDAY :(


Me 40
WW 38
Together 19 years
Married for 9
DS(1) 9
DS(2) 7
Dday 10th Feb 2013
She moved in with POS and took kids 23rd Mar 2013. WW now pregnant
Divorced April 2014

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cissie
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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, May 17th (Friday)

'For the good times'
Breaks me up

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5454real
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Default  Posted: 2:38 PM, May 17th (Friday)

Open Arms, Journey
Still, Commodores


The Impossible Dream, Man of LaMancha

[This message edited by 5454real at 2:56 PM, May 17th (Friday)]


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

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Tesa
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Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, May 17th (Friday)

Someday When I Stop Loving You by Carrie Underwood

A Little Bit Stronger by Sara Evans


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twodoves
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Default  Posted: 3:34 PM, May 17th (Friday)

You are my Sunshine by Screeching Weasel


Me - BS
Him - WS (N3v3rG1v1ngUp)
Together 7 years, married for 2
He was cheating for 5 years
5 OW
D-days: 4/23/13, 4/27/13, 5/10/13
1 toddler, baby girl on the way in December

Posts: 160 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Illinois
nomistakeaboutit
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Default  Posted: 7:53 AM, May 19th (Sunday)

Dreams to remember...Don Rich

Lord protect my child....Susan Tedeschi


Me: BH 56.........Her: WW 43
DD: 6..........DS: 4
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12
...................................
"It's like a nightmare within a nightmare, which in and of itself is a nightmare!"

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twodoves
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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, May 19th (Sunday)

YES! Dreams to Remember, what a great song


Me - BS
Him - WS (N3v3rG1v1ngUp)
Together 7 years, married for 2
He was cheating for 5 years
5 OW
D-days: 4/23/13, 4/27/13, 5/10/13
1 toddler, baby girl on the way in December

Posts: 160 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Illinois
jost1125
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Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, May 19th (Sunday)

Restless Heart Syndrome-Greenday
21 Guns-Greenday
Lat Night On Earth-Greenday
Just Give Me a Reason-Pink
Beam Me Up-Pink
Maryjane-Alanis Morisette


Me (BGF) 35yr
Him (WBF) 32yr
Children: 14yr (mine)
Dday #1 (admitted to EA) Sept. 29, 2012
Dday #2 (admitted is was PA) Oct. 1, 2012

Posts: 116 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Midwest
CLRhope4her
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Default  Posted: 11:14 AM, May 19th (Sunday)

Good as I was to you-Lorrie Morgan and Whiskey Lullaby-Brad Paisley and Allison Krauss. The video to Whiskey Lullaby is so sad.


BW- Me 35 & WH- Him 38
OW- My BFF for 25 years
DDay- 6/28/12 Final truth- 7/28/12
“We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.”

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Dark Inertia
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Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, May 19th (Sunday)

Beck's Lost Cause


"If I listened earlier, I wouldn't be here. But that's just the trouble with me. I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it."

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codiath
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Default  Posted: 8:39 AM, May 20th (Monday)

George strait-desperately
Brantley Gilbert-best of me
Brantley Gilbert- you don't know her like I do.

These songs really hit home for me.


Me-26 BH
Her-26 WW
D-Day 4/13/13


Sometimes life gives you lemons but i have gold spray paint.


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Happydays
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Default  Posted: 1:47 PM, May 20th (Monday)

Complicated heart - mltr
Just for you - Lionel Richie
All of my life - phil colins
Sometimes love just ain't enough - patty smith.
ETA:
Links:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjTRhqNtJ_U

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UvYrz8-OMYo

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q6hqjzPQA4M

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qdzbjUWu2VU

[This message edited by Happydays at 2:05 AM, May 21st (Tuesday)]


BH 33
FWW 32
DS: 3 year old.
Dday 10/14/2012
No remorse so:
Divorced 02/15/2013. No alimony, no CS, got apartment. Won all battles and mind games off the courts.

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