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macakipa
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Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, May 12th (Sunday)

Some of you may remember the butcher from my grocery store that followed me around the store a few months back and hit on me with bad one liners. You know the one I gave my cell number to because I had no clue how to handle this after 31 years with the same man...

Well, I received two texts from him today:

HAPPY Mothers DAY

and

So are U still F**ckN SeXY

Well, yeah, I am for a 47 year old divorced mom of four.

crickets


M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

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phmh
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, May 12th (Sunday)

Creep. Did you change grocery stores?


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark. -Michelangelo


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, May 12th (Sunday)

The hell?!?

Does that kind of crap actually WORK on some people?


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:11 PM, May 12th (Sunday)

Wow. He is so smooth. I can't believe he hasn't been snatched up yet.

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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, May 12th (Sunday)

Seriously, freaking creep. Do you still go there?

[This message edited by wildbananas at 9:28 PM, May 12th (Sunday)]


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 9:32 PM, May 12th (Sunday)

OMG, maybe he is the brother of the tomato man!!!!


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

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GreatRoleModel
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Member # 36809
Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, May 12th (Sunday)

Please stop Chyrsalis, I am going to pee in my pants.


BS (me)
XWS (him) NPD
DIVORCED!!!
It takes a village to deal with the village idiot!

Posts: 334 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: NC
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, May 12th (Sunday)

First of all, why would any man seriously think a woman would respond favorably to that load of shit???

Second, who is the tomato man??


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3586 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
Heavy Sigh
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Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, May 12th (Sunday)

It's wrong of me, but I'm wary of butchers. I'm vegetarian so, you can see my bias. Also, I picture the image from the TV show Dexter, wearing that butcher's apron, get the chills, and suddenly think that compared to serial killers, habitual cheaters and sex addicts begin to look like real catches.

[This message edited by Heavy Sigh at 10:12 PM, May 12th (Sunday)]


Posts: 1917 | Registered: Dec 2011
macakipa
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Member # 33735
Default  Posted: 7:13 AM, May 13th (Monday)

Still shaking my head...

I no longer go to that grocery store. I go to one further away but it is worth it not having to look over my shoulder when reaching for Triscuits.

Second, who is the tomato man??

PurpleRose, I see you found the tomato man thread


M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

Posts: 952 | Registered: Oct 2011
Bebba1171
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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, May 13th (Monday)

I remember that dude. What a goofball.

On another note, my daughter will be working in Chicago.

She needs to get an account with a national bank.

One of her friends mentioned Chase.

I told her about your X, so now she will go with US Bank!


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 52 (Me) / XWW 50 - ages back in 2011
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 727 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: USA
BrokenSpirit50
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Default  Posted: 12:27 PM, May 13th (Monday)

Macakipa... OMG! Seriously, does he think that is going to draw you in.....He may as well texted you...would you like to try my meat? Gosh I'm sorry I could not resist. Oye


Me BS 54
Him WH 55
M 32 yrs - together 40 yrs
Kids 0
D-Day 12-18-11 (WH didn't want to R)
Divorced 6-21-12 Done!

If the grass is greener on the other side....water your own lawn.


Posts: 239 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Midwest
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 3:08 PM, May 13th (Monday)

What a catch he is!


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2589 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
macakipa
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Default  Posted: 6:57 PM, May 13th (Monday)

I told her about your X, so now she will go with US Bank!

Oh yeah!

He may as well texted you...would you like to try my meat?


M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

Posts: 952 | Registered: Oct 2011
SBB
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Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 5:54 AM, May 14th (Tuesday)

Is it weird that I still think he's a better catch than the man I did marry.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5561 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 7:33 AM, May 14th (Tuesday)

You should have replied...

"My parole officer thinks so!"

[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 7:34 AM, May 14th (Tuesday)]


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


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Mousse242
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Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, May 14th (Tuesday)

I would tell him to stop texting you. That is creepy beyond words.

Can you block his number?


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