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Yakamishi
Member
Member # 38230
Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, May 13th (Monday)

She left this morning.

I am sad.


Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life

Posts: 220 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Massachusetts
TrustGone
Member
Member # 36654
Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, May 13th (Monday)

I am so sorry. (((HUGS)))


BW-50
WH#2-51
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
still2suspicious
Member
Member # 31722
Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, May 13th (Monday)

(((Yakiamishi)))

Can we help you in any way?

Feel what you feel.

You will be OK, whatever the outcome.


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1290 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
Yakamishi
Member
Member # 38230
Default  Posted: 4:36 PM, May 13th (Monday)

I always thought we'd beat the odds. Seems unreal. Like DD almost.


Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life

Posts: 220 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Massachusetts
Knowing
Member
Member # 37044
Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, May 13th (Monday)

(((Yakamishi)))

Take very, very, very good care of yourself, please? She should not take any more space in your head right now. It's not too late for the 180. Eat, sleep, talk, feel, breathe... Take it one day at a time. It's all about you right now. Get your head screwed back on straight and get your strength back. You have really been through the wringer.


Me: BW, Him: fWH
Together 12 years
My EA (?) 2005-2011
His STA/PA: D-day: 19/09/12
TT: 08/12/12

We are in R.


Posts: 698 | Registered: Oct 2012
jjsr
Member
Member # 34353
Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, May 13th (Monday)

I am sorry.


Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile

Posts: 1632 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.
gonogo1
Member
Member # 25518
Default  Posted: 11:05 PM, May 13th (Monday)

So sorry. 180 now. Accept she hasn't got a good track record .She is not in R. Take care of you now and detach . NC-no new hurts .

Posts: 1623 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: East Coast
Hurt2Deeply
Member
Member # 38317
Helpless  Posted: 12:19 AM, May 14th (Tuesday)

I am so sorry too.


Me BS 57
Him FWH 60
M 35 years
3 Adult kids
R

Posts: 95 | Registered: Jan 2013
struggling3
Member
Member # 34671
Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, May 14th (Tuesday)

I am so very sorry. I got instant anxiety reading this. I hope you can take care of yourself and know that there are many people here to talk to.
((((Yakamishi)))


Me - BS 55
H - WS 57/very remorseful and supportive
Kids 28, 25, 22
D-Day 8-5-11
discovered 4 month long EA
R - slow and steady but very optimistic

Posts: 316 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
Getting to Happy
Member
Member # 35200
Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, May 14th (Tuesday)

Your post brought tears to my eyes.

Please take care of you. At this point you have done all you can. Let the sadness wash over you.

Just know that better days are coming.

Keep posting. Let us share your pain. We get it. We are here and we care.

Hugs my friend.


WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown


Posts: 1140 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: La La Land
Jrazz
Guide
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, May 14th (Tuesday)

(((Yakamishi)))

More of a demotion.

You're gonna be ok. Sending hugs and strength.


If life is just a series of ridiculous attempts to be alive, you're a hero. - J. Winger

Posts: 17529 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
JanaGreen
Member
Member # 29341
Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, May 14th (Tuesday)

I'm so sorry.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6764 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
numb&dumb
Member
Member # 28542
Default  Posted: 3:13 PM, May 14th (Tuesday)

I'm sorry man.


Me-35 her-35

DS 1, DD 6
Dday 8/31/11. ONS that occurred 3 years earlier. Lied to for 3 years.

Every truth comes to light in a long enough timeline.


Posts: 2555 | Registered: May 2010
still2suspicious
Member
Member # 31722
Default  Posted: 3:39 PM, May 14th (Tuesday)

How are you today?


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1290 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
Yakamishi
Member
Member # 38230
Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, May 14th (Tuesday)

I'm surprisingly a little detached. t first I was against it, and angry. Then I felt very sad.Now I'm beginning to question what I truly want.

I still hurt. And I get upset when family calls. But I'm begging to think it's not a bad idea to take a breather. Sort of pull back to get the full picture.

I truly appreciate the support. No one understands the way the folks here do.


Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life

Posts: 220 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Massachusetts
Topic Posts: 15