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IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, May 13th (Monday)

Soooooo, last year xWH and OW got married on 05/12/2012. Mother's day weekend and thereby ensuring he would never have IrishLad with him for future Anniversaries cause that weekend is mine. They scheduled it the same day as our oldest daughter's baby shower after her invitations were sent. His best friend since 4th grade refused to attend and they fought on the phone that day. His best friend died the next morning on Mother's Day. Anticipating that this weekend would be difficult with the 1 year anniversary of best friends death, I was in contact with family to be available. Then we all got hit broadside. My former father-in-law, xWH's step father died on Mother's Day. As far as I know no one has called xWH. No one wants to deal with OWifetress and they immediately turn it into drama about me. What kind of karma is this?


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1755 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
FieldsOfLavender
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Member # 39154
Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, May 13th (Monday)

That is WEIRD. The whole thing, anniversary, Mother's Day anniversary, does not bode well. That is pretty BAD all around. You can call it karma or ... God kicking his ass.

Posts: 191 | Registered: May 2013 | From: East Coast, USA
IrishLass518
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Member # 34373
Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, May 13th (Monday)

I really don't know but at least 4 people in our family have already asked me if their joining has brought some type of curse on us all.


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1755 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
persevere
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Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, May 13th (Monday)

Oh IrishLass I'm so very sorry - that's awful. My condolences to your family.

I think you just have to focus on supporting the family members you are close to and just disregard xWH and OW. But, yes, it is a very crazy and tragic coincidence.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4527 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
IrishLass518
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Member # 34373
Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, May 13th (Monday)

Thank you Persevere, that is what I am focused on. Being there for the rest of the family. Just very spooky circumstances and questions.


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1755 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Topic Posts: 5