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libertyrocks
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Member # 38924
Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, May 14th (Tuesday)

I cannot keep my hands off H!!! And, neither can he. I think this is the best our sex life has been in the history of our 13 years together. It's crazy. I don't know why, but I only had a few mind movies at first. Perhaps, it's because I never asked graphic questions and to be honest he wouldn't tell me because he knew it would screw me up. He knows me too well. I'm so glad he didn't tell me. I don't want to know now, but he does tell me sex with OW was awkward and they were fully dressed. Thanks to the SI veterans, I"M SO THANKFUL I was careful with what I asked. It really doesn't matter anyway. It was just another way to torture myself. So, just wanted to say thanks SI vets! Love you all.

[This message edited by libertyrocks at 3:47 PM, May 14th (Tuesday)]


Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,Recovering Alcoholic, M6yrs T13. Boys 2 & 4 1/2.
DDay #1 Nov,2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan,2014
Filed for D Feb,2014.

Posts: 962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
Searchingforhope
Member
Member # 38437
Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, May 14th (Tuesday)

That's great liberty!

HB is a strange thing, ain't it?

It is tapering off for us after a year, however, sex time is a pretty important priority. And it's better now than ever before.

I'm glad that it's going well for you and your S...


Me: BW 51 (didn't have a clue)
Him: FWH 54(extremely remorseful about his stupid midlife crisis)
Married 27 yrs

PA that lasted approx. 2 weeks. OW was a younger but totally screwed up %#@%!

DDay 4-25-12
Reconciling


Posts: 142 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: California
libertyrocks
Member
Member # 38924
Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, May 14th (Tuesday)

Thanks. Yes it is. My younger sister in law, H's sister asked how I could touch him, I didn't say anything. I think a lot of it has to do with me reclaiming him, physically like a cave woman. lol.


Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,Recovering Alcoholic, M6yrs T13. Boys 2 & 4 1/2.
DDay #1 Nov,2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan,2014
Filed for D Feb,2014.

Posts: 962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
3kids30years
Member
Member # 38879
Default  Posted: 4:45 PM, May 14th (Tuesday)

That's great liberty! I sometimes wish I hadn't asked as many questions. Once you know, it's hard to forget.

Didn't find the site until week 2 - so a little late to unlearn things.

But the HB has been great, 10 weeks of really enjoying ourselves. Almost feels like I have nothing more to loose, so just enjoy what I have. Nice to see that Searching has been able to keep it going for year - I'm very hopeful!


BS - mid 50's
WH - mid 50's
DDay - 3/2/13 - 2:07pm
2year+ "passionate" EA/PA

Married 30+ years and here I am. Heartbroken.
4/14 Trying to make it thru each day
8/14 - I may be done, we will see


Posts: 210 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Nor Cal
Topic Posts: 4