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meplustwo
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Member # 39082
Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, May 14th (Tuesday)

So out R is an R no more. He has still been talking to the OW. Like a lot. Back to NC and 180 for me. Boooo.


Me(34) - BS
Him(35) - WH
Married: 9 years
Two Kids: 4 and 6
D-Day #1: 7/12, D-Day #2: 4/24/13
Affair: EA to PA with coworker
Status of A: Says he broke it off after I went to her house and confronted both of them

Posts: 59 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Maine
5454real
Member
Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, May 14th (Tuesday)

So sorry that it didn't last. Not meant to be snarky, but in a way it's good that he's showing you who he really is so you can deal with it appropriately.

Strength


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2702 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
sisoon
Member
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 4:58 PM, May 14th (Tuesday)

I'm sorry. I'm with 5454, though, if it's going to happen, the sooner the better.

You WILL heal, though.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 9982 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Yakamishi
Member
Member # 38230
Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, May 14th (Tuesday)

Exactly what happened to me. Do not believe. Keep digging.


Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life

Posts: 214 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Massachusetts
Topic Posts: 4