So, tonight we went out to a local restaurant with the kids to get a quick bite. An acquantaince - Mary - comes in. She at least resembles the affair person. My H reports that only the hair is the same. I REALLY disagree.
We are finished eating and ready to go. We have two seperate cars. My H has to go to the bank so he asks if I will take the boys with me. Fine. Sounds good. I am bending down to get my purse thinking we will then say our goodbyes when he is up and over at Mary's table saying, "hi". Keep in mind that we all greeted each other when she entered. Also, my H knows I think she looks like the affair person. I expressed this a few months ago.
There was no goodbye or peck on the cheek or see you in a few minutues, hon. He just got up and went to her table.
When he got home, I expressed anger that he disregarded me and instead made a beeline to her. I suggested to him that he might want to delve into his subconscious a little more closely. Given Mary's appearance, I am sure I am not "off" about this.
He swears up and down that he just wanted to say hi. We said hi. And that he had to use the bathroom. It's not at that end of the restaurant.
Come on, hon! I expressed. Dig a little more!