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rumorhasit
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Member # 38943
Default  Posted: 7:44 PM, May 15th (Wednesday)

And every day a new stone is placed on my chest...

Caring for a two year old full time while he lives the life of the childless and sees him when it is convenient for him...

His mother, who I love, has stage four cancer...

He filed for custody of his daughter and wants to bring her around Mrs. Robinson....

He wants to (after two years) get a carseat for his car as if he is going anywhere with DS unsupervised...

He has threatened to file for partial custody of DS who he has never cared for alone...

Now I have to file for custody and its a damn race...

Its been a shitty week.


BGF- 30 (me)
WXBF- 30 (him)
Last Dday- 4-8-13, he left for OW#2
Us- 1 DS 3yo, Him- 1 DD 7yo

Mrs. Robinson- 41, S but still M

"You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." - Christopher Robin


Posts: 205 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Southern California
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, May 15th (Wednesday)

((((rumorhasit))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25018 | Registered: Aug 2011
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, May 15th (Wednesday)

(((rumorhasit)))

Posts: 34685 | Registered: Mar 2011
jackie89
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Member # 38271
Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, May 15th (Wednesday)

I am sorry! Hang in there!

You will get through this too..

Lots of hugs! We are here to listen!


Separated/divorcing

"The Secret of Change is to focus all your energy - not on fighting the old, but on building the new" ~~Lori Greiner FB post~~


Posts: 468 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
rumorhasit
Member
Member # 38943
Default  Posted: 10:03 PM, May 15th (Wednesday)

(((Everyone)))

Thank you for hugs!

I am terrified of filing for custody...


BGF- 30 (me)
WXBF- 30 (him)
Last Dday- 4-8-13, he left for OW#2
Us- 1 DS 3yo, Him- 1 DD 7yo

Mrs. Robinson- 41, S but still M

"You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." - Christopher Robin


Posts: 205 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Southern California
Getting to Happy
Member
Member # 35200
Default  Posted: 2:33 AM, May 16th (Thursday)

(((rumorhasit and DS)))

I don't have any advice but I wanted to send you hugs.

Hang in there.


WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown


Posts: 1138 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: La La Land
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