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sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 11:53 AM, May 17th (Friday)

We had someone stay with us for two nights. A male. He stayed on the sofa in the basement.

This morning I found him on tue sofa upstairs. He said the night before he saw a white spot in front of him and a voice said "you drink in this house and I will kill you" (both nights the two guys dranks a couple bottles of beer). Last night friend was awoken with the feeling someone was trying to strangle him.

I was fine with the basement until last dec 30 or 31st. I had a dream I was in the basement and struggled with a bad something. When I awoke I felt it had actually happened

When it gets dark the bad feelings start. They last til early morning. If the kids are with me, it backs away.

Once I went into the section with the laundry machine. I was frustrated by something and made a grrrr sound. Something bad reacted and I ran the hell upstairs.

If we dont latch the basement door it opens. If I dont latch it I get bad vibes. Once I lock it its okay.

There is a door in the ceiling in the hallway on the main the floor. At night I hate that door and my closet. I cant sleep alone. Not even with wh. I have to have a kid with me.

At times something stands behind me and watches tv. Once or twice Ithought of my aunt so maybe Iit was her. A couple other times not so good feelings coming from a 19 to 23 yr old who I had the feeling was jumping around.

Wh asked me if we should move. I said no. Im n9t sure sage would work tho.

In my other apt I had a nine yr old girl I saw once and felt/smelled for quite a long time. The last yr there I twice caught a glimps of a back half of a dog. Not a negative thing.

This house has bad vibes...but when kids are around no bad vibes

Wh said he gets the patches of cold air like he did in the other apt. I dont. I get real bad vibes...he doesnt.

I am thinking of asking the owner. What the friend experienced is not good.


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Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, May 17th (Friday)

Wow. That's creepy.


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Default  Posted: 12:06 PM, May 17th (Friday)

Just a thought since a lot of the feelings are in the basement. Check the EMF levels (electromagnetic field). High EMF's can effect people where they feel like they are being watched, creepy feelings, cold sweats, etc.


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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, May 17th (Friday)

Yea, creepy is right.

I would definitely ask the owners about the history of the place. Try googling it also by putting in your address.

I have never experienced anything like that, but I am fascinated by TV shows on paranormal.

It's interesting how when the kids are around, it seems to go away.

[This message edited by SandAway at 12:17 PM, May 17th (Friday)]


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Default  Posted: 12:27 PM, May 17th (Friday)

Are you open to the idea of praying in the affected areas and commanding the spirit to leave?


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Default  Posted: 12:27 PM, May 17th (Friday)

There are natural causes of these feelings that would definitely merit investigation even if you are sure the cause is supernatural. The effects of radon, carbon monoxide and low frequency sounds have these effects and can cause serious damage over long term exposure.

As for me, even though I don't believe in it, it's easier to carry a weapon around than it is to run through the mental rationalization to reach the same calming state. So I don't believe in ghosts or faeries for real but I go prepared. Little fuckers will get a bamboo sword to the face if they want to prove me wrong and poke a head out.

Maybe carry around a weapon too. Really heavy 4 to 6 D cell mag lights are great.


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Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, May 17th (Friday)

I do believe in this stuff. I've had my fair share of experiences that couldn't be explained.

However, some of it can be explained.

If we dont latch the basement door it opens. If I dont latch it I get bad vibes. Once I lock it its okay.

^^This could easily happen if the door isn't plumb in the frame or if the hinges are "off." This will make a door open by its self. It could also be caused by the home/building settling. Which would explain why it stops when you lock the door. Now, if you lock the door and it still manages to swing open, then there you have issues.

If you're good with research you can easily go to the library or internet and trace the history of the home/building and land.

A couple other times not so good feelings coming from a 19 to 23 yr old who I had the feeling was jumping around.

I'm confused about this. Who is this? A person or spirit? If spirit how are you getting an age? Just curious.


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sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 2:07 PM, May 17th (Friday)

Real quick as Im on the clock. This is hard to explain and Ive seriously felt I needed to be checked in for a mental eval (dont agree, lol). This is more a feeling. A seeing but not like I would see my couch or kids. Age I was just guessing by the feeling, height etc. I should mention I'm didnt see this person as I saw the girl or the dog.

Its weird the friend heard voice; a warning but all I have is feelings.

We moved in in Oct. I didnt have these feelings until the final days of Dec.


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Default  Posted: 3:13 PM, May 17th (Friday)

It's fairly straightforward to do a cleansing of your home. Or if you're religious, a blessing. Might give you some peace of mind?


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sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, May 17th (Friday)

Im not sure the Priest will come out. Can I do fhis myself? Tho not sure sage will work.

I normally dont mind sharing my space but this time Im freaked out


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Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, May 17th (Friday)

I don't know much but I would be careful doing anything yourself. You might make things worse if you do something wrong.

I would talk to the owner or try to find out the history of the house.

That's freaking creepy though. Think I would be moving.


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sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, May 17th (Friday)

Wh just came home without fhe friend. I made a comment he was afraid. Wh laughed and said the guy mustve had a bad dream (like the one I had). How many times had wh drank down there at night and no threats. He still mentions the cold spots...but the threat?

Im still not comfortable down there after dark.


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Default  Posted: 9:57 PM, May 17th (Friday)

Sully,

A priest will come to your home and bless it, and they will go in the basement if asked.

You have a PM coming.

Hugs,

K


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Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, May 18th (Saturday)

Sully, as odd as it sounds, sometimes just telling it to GO AWAY helps.

We had an unwelcome entity. My daughter told it just that: GO AWAY. (She also asked her uncle---deceased, but whose presence is frequent and welcome) to guard her.

Never had a problem since.

I VERY much understand the "seeing but not seeing" thing. We have 2 entities that visit us---who we can identify. There is a third, only in our basement. S/he is familiar to me, but I can't pinpoint who it is. My daughter senses it, as well---and feels as though it is beneficent.

I think it's an ancestor, perhaps one of my grandparents. We feel it's safe and friendly.

But in our last house? We had a not-so-nice guy who scared the hell out of my daughter---until she told it to GO AWAY and enlisted my brother (and of course prayed).

I'd consider a house blessing, and yes---saging.

(You'd be really surprised if you knew how very science-y I ordinarily am!)


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sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, May 18th (Saturday)

Solus Im not a believer of what the friend said. I agree with wh that the guy had a dream. Wh drinks and drinks a lot and nothing happens.

Wh does feel cold patches that I dont feel.

The growl thing has me freaked. I was a bit put out about something and made a growl sound and what ever it is down there jumped to attention. I felt it come at me growling.

Wh had this old mattress laid up against the wall. At one point I saw a gold face with bared teeth. Evil. I looked away serveral times and it was still there looking at me. Glaring. I question if it was real

Its so weird this started three months after we moved in.


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Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, May 18th (Saturday)

Not weird. I'm a believer in all this and I believe spirits can attach to people that are vulnerable and sweetie you've been vulnerable lately. Get a blessing down. You can burn sage but I'd suggest a priest. Also children tend to be pure in spirit, if this thing really is as bad as you feel it may not want to go near something as pure and good as a child.


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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, May 20th (Monday)

My parents live in FL and their house is like 20 years old. The people who built it also built a guest house like 8 years ago for the lady's mom who was going to move in. Well she never got the chance, she died. So no one EVER lived in the house. The Guest House.

I CAN NOT go into that house alone. It freaks me out so bad. It's cold .. it's dark ... and it's weird because it's newer and more modern and updated. My parents actually prefer to live in that house. not me. I slept there once aloner and I SWEAR there was like an old Indian or something - his spirit creeping around like that.

I saw my dad in April and I mentioned it again and he sighed and said OK I feel it too. I was like WHAT. He said I know something is there. I feel it a lot - but I don't know what it is. I DO know that I don't know the person. Like the person is not related to us, it's ... just someone. He said every single person who has ever stayed in the guest house has come out and said DUDE, something is creepy in there. Dad says sometimes he is in there studying (his office is there) and he feels the thing like looking over his shoulder.

NO THANKS.


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sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, May 20th (Monday)

Yesterday morning I said go away because it wasnt being nice. No problems. Nothing in the basement. Calm.

Til it started to get dark. It was sort of pissed off. I didnt finish the laundry.

Again...these are vibes. Im still not sure the face I saw was real or my imagination.

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Default  Posted: 8:37 AM, May 21st (Tuesday)

You know one time I was having some oggie boggie feelings in my condo. So I went and got some water and prayer over it and tried to turn it into holy water .. I mean how do I know I did??? But it made ME feel better. I went and put it on every door and window. Maybe try that and tell your spirit to go with the white light of God and OUT of your basement and see what works. I have always heard that dark evil spirits can't stand the mention of God or Jesus. They just have to get the heck away when they hear it!


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