No biggie but thought I'd share.
After d-day, BH commented about how he knew something was up because of how much care I'd put into my appearance. Perfect makeup, etc.
So, just now he says to me that I'm wearing more makeup than usual today. (I wear very little makeup in general) I said, 'Really?' He said, 'Yes' and I said, 'It wasn't intentional'.
It made me feel bad because I didn't want him to think anything was up. And I went back to the old neighborhood today to have lunch with a friend, so I wonder if that is related to his remark.
The good news is that after almost 6 years he can mention it and now it's over.
Take up your space (and do it well).
"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."