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User Topic: I'm so tired of the total lack of respect
newlysingle
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Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, May 18th (Saturday)

So, I know some of you read my last thread about STBXH showing up in the skankface's rented mercedes SUV to pick up my dd an hour late on mother's day. So after that whole debacle, the asshole texts me apologizing for being an asshole and says that he will get me a hotel room this weekend to relax and take the kids. I told him initially that I didn't want anything from him, but I thought about it and thought, well the asshole at least owes me that. So I texted him the next day and said that I would take him up on his offer. Well, he quickly rescinds that and tells me to get my own room. Asshole.

So I said fine, I will get a room and you can take the kids this weekend. I treated myself to a massage today and had just gotten to my hotel room when he texts me to say that he's taking the kids to a resort for the night. WTF? I call him and at least ask him where my kids are going. No response. I send a text. No response. At this point I'm pissed and seriously considering calling the police. We had agreed that he would watch the kids at my house tonight and now he is taking them to an undisclosed location.

He finally calls me back and throws it in my face that he is taking the kids to a very expensive resort (around $350 per night per room). Really, and you wouldn't spring for a room for me? I'm staying at a not so nice place, but oh well.

He is just so disrespectful. I'm so tired of his bullshit. I mean the resort is one thing, but I know he did that just to spite me. He has no respect for me as their mother at all. I hate him!

The only silver lining to all of this is that me and the kids are leaving the state for three months next week. So we won't have to deal with his BS for awhile.


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 878 | Registered: Mar 2013
Strongmama
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Default  Posted: 8:34 PM, May 18th (Saturday)

What a creep! Sounds like my ahole ex.
I hope you and the kids have a wonderful 3 month break from his BS!

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