I found out last week that my STBXW is now screwing an ex-neighbour. When we used to hang out with this couple, she hated him fiercely. Then they moved away and divorced. Now that I'm gone, she's fallen into his arms - makes me wonder about all that hate she had for him.
Since we separated, I've been going to as many musical things as possible - playing with and in front of others makes me feel a little less crazy.
On Monday nights I've been going to an open stage. I love this event, and look forward to it every week.
However, there is another regular there who looks a lot like STBXW's fuck-buddy. Whenever I see him, I think of STBXW banging this dude, and wonder how long it's really been happening.
I don't want to stop going to my open stage, but need to be able to see this other musician without the mind-movies. What can I do to get my brain out of this?Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 10 and 13
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after married 17 years, now divorcing!
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous