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BrokenRoad
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Cool  Posted: 9:50 PM, May 21st (Tuesday)

Have a wonderful day!


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 7 & 12
Reconciled :)
Beauty and folly are old companions.--Benjamin Franklin

Posts: 10732 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, May 21st (Tuesday)

Happy Birthday Razzie!!!!!!


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52673 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, May 21st (Tuesday)

Happy Birthday!!!

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:06 PM, May 21st (Tuesday)

Happy Birthday, WonderTwin! I hope it's filled with pug hugs and babyRazz serenades.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25744 | Registered: Aug 2011
Chrysalis123
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Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 10:20 PM, May 21st (Tuesday)

Happy Birthday!!!!!


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2708 | Registered: Jan 2010
Lyonesse
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Member # 32943
Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, May 21st (Tuesday)

Happy, happy birthday!


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1797 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
Deeply Scared
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Member # 2
Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, May 21st (Tuesday)

Happy Birthday sweet girl!!!! I hope you have a spectacular day!!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 198308 | Registered: May 2002
girlsbird
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Member # 30877
Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, May 21st (Tuesday)

Happy Birthday!!!


D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed

Posts: 1203 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: arizona
TattoodChinaDoll
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Member # 34602
Default  Posted: 10:44 PM, May 21st (Tuesday)

Happy Birthday!!!


Me (BW): 32
WH: 33 TimeToManUp
Married: 11 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 9, 5, 3, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011


Posts: 1727 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, May 21st (Tuesday)

Thanks everyone!

That's a HECKUVA cake, BrokenRoad!


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17846 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
GabyBaby
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Member # 26928
Default  Posted: 10:48 PM, May 21st (Tuesday)

Happy Birthday!!!


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6535 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
really trying
Member
Member # 5311
Default  Posted: 10:55 PM, May 21st (Tuesday)

happy birthday jrazz!


Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness


Posts: 10397 | Registered: Sep 2004 | From: California
KBeguile
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Member # 38348
Default  Posted: 10:57 PM, May 21st (Tuesday)

Happy birthday, Spazz! Er, Jrazz!!


Me: fWS 32
Her: BS 35 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 4yo
M: 7 years
DDays: 2012/11/14, 2013/02/05, 2013/03/09
-
"Everything that happens now is happening 'now.'"
"What happened to 'then'?"
"We passed 'then.'"

Posts: 801 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, May 21st (Tuesday)

Happy Birthday!!!


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2992 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
click4it
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Member # 209
Default  Posted: 11:06 PM, May 21st (Tuesday)

Happy Birthday!


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25628 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
silverhopes
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Member # 32753
Default  Posted: 1:38 AM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Yayyyy!!!! Happy Birthday Jrazz!!!!


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 3905 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
Tred
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Member # 34086
Default  Posted: 4:45 AM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday Jrazz!


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 4003 | Registered: Dec 2011
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 5:46 AM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday my awesome friend!!!!!!!!!!!!



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

Posts: 44966 | Registered: Sep 2006
Laura28
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Member # 28997
Default  Posted: 6:00 AM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday!!!

BIG HUGS

Laura


Married 32yrs Me BW 57Yrs Him FWH 60yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

Posts: 2754 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Australia
gahurts
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Member # 33699
Default  Posted: 6:07 AM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday Jrazz. Hope you have a wonderful day.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3432 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Amazonia
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Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 8:27 AM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Happy birthday Razzie!!!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13801 | Registered: Jul 2011
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday!


Walk away from anything or anyone who takes away your joy. Life is too short to put up with fools.

Posts: 13809 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
wildbananas
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Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Happy bday, Razzleberry! Big birthday snoodles for ya!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15414 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
simplydevastated
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Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 8:58 AM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday! I hope all your birthday wishes come true


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
SisterMilkshake
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Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 9:09 AM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday to one of the kindest, sweetest members here at SI. Hope all your birthday wishes and dreams come true! (((Jrazz)))


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9801 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
CRazz
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Member # 31621
Default  Posted: 9:57 AM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday Jrazz!
Couldn't do it without you. Love you.


Me(32): FWH
Jrazz(34): BS
DDay: Dec 17, 2010
Gorgeous, amazing DD3.5
R. Small steps forward is still progress!

Posts: 29 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: California
TrulyReconciled
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Member # 3031
Default  Posted: 10:23 AM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday!!


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 21286 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
simplydevastated
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Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 10:44 AM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

OMG! CRazz, that's so sweet!


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
sisoon
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Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 10:45 AM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Happy birthday!

I can't wait to hear how you're celebrating.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10374 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
SoVerySadNow
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Member # 36711
Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday!!!


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 11:07 AM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Thanks everybody! Love you all!

We're just keeping it low key today. Crazz is traveling so V and I are going to hang out with my sister, dad, and nephew. Birthday parties with kids is always a good time.

Wacky fun fact - I'm the one at the far right here, and we're all still good friends. (Birthday circa 1985)



ETA: How did I JUST notice that J**** is holding a toy gun??

[This message edited by Jrazz at 11:08 AM, May 22nd (Wednesday)]


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17846 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
idiot85
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Member # 38934
Default  Posted: 11:09 AM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday


BH-29 (me)
WW-28

Multi famam, conscientiam, pauci verentur.


Posts: 575 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Old Blighty
Lyonesse
Member
Member # 32943
Default  Posted: 11:17 AM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

How did I JUST notice that J**** is holding a toy gun??

I didn't notice until you pointed it out! And it doesn't even look like a toy! Keeping his distance from all those girls, I guess? Never know what they might pull!


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1797 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
PippaPeach6
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Member # 37523
Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

OMG, was hoping for a pic of the little Razzes, but the one above is adorable! Such cuties, all of you!!

Happy Birthday!


Us: 50ish, madhatters, married 20 odd yrs
TT: May 2009 'til June
DDay for both: June 17, 2009
Me: 2x, same person, 1991
Him: 1.5 year PA (EA?) 2007-2009
Reconciled

Honey Badger don't care. - Randall


Posts: 386 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Flyover chic
Lucky
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Member # 6864
Default  Posted: 2:09 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

♫• ♪♫•*¨*•Happy Birthday •*¨*•♫♪♪


♥ WINE - the other fruit juice! ♥


Posts: 36162 | Registered: Apr 2005
jrc1963
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Member # 26531
Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday!!!!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24596 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Kajem
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Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday Jrazz.... have a great day with the family.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5270 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Exit Wounds
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Member # 32811
Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday Jrazz !!!!!!!!!! Now send some cake over! I am cheating on my diet

Posts: 2486 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: With my dad...and my dog...
Jrazz
Guide
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Little Razz and Nephewrazz partying down.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17846 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
sisoon
Member
Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Thanks for the photos - that's what I was expecting.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10374 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
SandAway
Member
Member # 37775
Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Happy Birthday! Hope it's been a great day for you!


fWW
BH Tred
M 16yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


Posts: 439 | Registered: Dec 2012
Jrazz
Guide
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 11:35 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Thanks everyone. It's been a marvelous day.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17846 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
wildbananas
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Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, May 22nd (Wednesday)

Hey Razzie... I've always said V looks like Crazz but I actually see some of you in her after seeing your circa 1985 pic. Your DNA might be in there somewhere after all!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15414 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
stilllovinghim
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Member # 29971
Default  Posted: 12:55 AM, May 23rd (Thursday)

I'm not too late am I? Happy birthday to you! Happy birthday to you! Happy birthday dear Jaaaaayyyyyrrraaaaazzzzzzz!!!!!
Hhhhaaaaappyyyyyyy birthday tooooo yyoooooouuuuuu!!! *singing all high-pitched and overdone like Maria*

Eta: hey, we're both Geminis! Yay us!

[This message edited by stilllovinghim at 1:10 AM, May 23rd (Thursday)]


“You have a choice. Live or die.Every breath is a choice. Every minute is a choice. Every time you don't throw yourself down the stairs, that's a choice. Every time you don't crash your car, you re-enlist.”
― Chuck Palahniuk, Survivor

Posts: 1942 | Registered: Oct 2010
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:51 AM, May 23rd (Thursday)

Woo hoo - Gemini pride!

And yes, wildbananas, if you look really closely you can see that V and I have the exact.same.cowlick. Maybe she can teach me how to effectively do my hair around it someday!


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17846 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
bbee
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Member # 17840
Default  Posted: 6:50 PM, May 23rd (Thursday)

Happy Birthday!


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


Posts: 6656 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US
NoTriangles
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Member # 35985
Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, May 23rd (Thursday)

WOOT!! WOOT!!!

Happy Birthday, Beautiful.

Thank you for all your wisdom and compassion.

I hope you have a wonderful day!


Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

Posts: 1252 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness
movingforward777
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Member # 6850
Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, May 24th (Friday)

Belated Birthday Greetings.....Hope you had a wonderful day....HUGS


You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith

Posts: 4845 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: Ontario
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, May 24th (Friday)

Thanks so much.... gosh, it's my birthday WEEK!


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17846 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
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