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scotslass
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Member # 39204
Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, May 23rd (Thursday)

Thank goodness that one is over!

Ex-spouse did not show up. Judge gave me relief on all that I asked for. Yea!

Now I can get my two youngest into professional counseling and my 16 year old daughter now has to come to me 50/50 starting tomorrow. I cannot wait to see her - it's been nearly 7 weeks.

Also ex-spouse has to undergo a court ordered finger nail/urine test to ascertain if he has broken court orders by drinking!!

Thanks for all your support and prayers everyone.


3 wonderful children (sometimes!!)
18 ds
16 dd
14 ds
Me. - moving on and upward !!!

Posts: 102 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Texas
tryingagain74
Member
Member # 33698
Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, May 23rd (Thursday)

Glad to hear it, and glad that it's over with!


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3607 | Registered: Oct 2011
dmari
Member
Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, May 23rd (Thursday)

Thank you for the update!! and congratulations on getting the relief from judge and I hope you have some healing time with DD16.


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2234 | Registered: Oct 2012
nowiknow23
Guide
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 2:52 PM, May 23rd (Thursday)

Yay!!!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25530 | Registered: Aug 2011
lostmommy
Member
Member # 33440
Default  Posted: 3:45 PM, May 23rd (Thursday)

Congratulations!


Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself

Posts: 485 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: NY
ruinedandbroken
Member
Member # 29250
Default  Posted: 5:08 PM, May 23rd (Thursday)

That's wonderful news!!!!!!!!!!!!!


“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 6&9
Married 14 yrs Together 21

Posts: 1575 | Registered: Aug 2010
Kajem
Member
Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, May 23rd (Thursday)

Yay!!!!

So glad this is behind you and she is coming home.

Hugs,

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5162 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, May 23rd (Thursday)

Wonderful update!!

Posts: 35411 | Registered: Mar 2011
Bluebird26
Member
Member # 36445
Default  Posted: 5:34 AM, May 24th (Friday)

Great news


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1349 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
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