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homewrecked2011
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Member # 34678
Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, May 27th (Monday)

WOW.. I met a friend today and she used to be friends with OW---OW doesn't know I know this lady. Anyway, she said OW and she went to lunch 3 wks ago. (My friend is very reliable, everything she told me about the A was verified in txg records.) Anyway, come to find out OW is D her husband bc he won't let her work, but she still loves him. She doesn't love my XWH, she wants him gone, but he doesn't "get" it, and he gives her $$$, she is sleeping with someone else on the side...

This is what she told my friend,OW is nuts so this might be a set up, but it kinda makes sense....She also said she had basically run him off about the time I found out about the A.

Lordy, I didnt see this coming...... LMAO!

KARMA BUS gonna run over my XWH at some point! Ha ha I bet she ends up cheating on my XWH w her H!!!!


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 1714 | Registered: Jan 2012
tabitha95
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Member # 22033
Default  Posted: 12:41 AM, May 28th (Tuesday)

Having drama vomited all over my non-dramatic life after d-day, I don't understand people who are addicted to bringing it into their lives.

This OW sounds like a total mess. It must be exhausting to spend any time with her.


BW (me) - 44
DS 13, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

Posts: 3194 | Registered: Dec 2008
newnormal
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Member # 21925
Default  Posted: 6:59 AM, May 28th (Tuesday)

She is some type of crazy


BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo


Posts: 1030 | Registered: Dec 2008
damncutekitty
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Member # 5929
Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, May 28th (Tuesday)

The thing my XH cheated with also used him. He was totally convinced they were soulmates, and she just had a hobby of seducing men in relationships to see if she could get them to leave their wives/girlfriends. It was a game to her.

She dumped him the week I moved out, and he spent years afterwards pining away for her. It used to piss me off, but I kind of see it as a sort of poetic justice.


Keep calm and carry on.

Posts: 49406 | Registered: Nov 2004 | From: Minneapolis
Crescita
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Member # 32616
Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, May 28th (Tuesday)

dck, mcOW pulled the same thing on my WXH. Even told him it was just a game when I finally gave up and he thought she would leave her BH in a flash He felt like such an idiot. Yeah, too late with me, but thanks for the laugh.

Posts: 2972 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
homewrecked2011
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Member # 34678
Default  Posted: 8:43 PM, May 28th (Tuesday)

Amazing that she simply wanted someone around so she and he ruined my children's lives.

It is SO hilarious that she has someone on the side!!!!

They deserve each other.

I just wanna move from this town to Florida and get away. Will be doing that about 5 years from now when youngest is 18!


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 1714 | Registered: Jan 2012
Topic Posts: 6